Tale of Body Positivity

It's all about body positivity here, we share our stories to inspire each other. No restriction, contains adult content 18+ (occasionally😊)

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Lil socials' game on our off day 😁😉😎

#1 @cheekyintensions

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2023 time? @wren-winter

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Take a look at lovely B who has put shared her OF page with us.

Go and take a look🙈, it is extremely 🔥, and make sure you follow 🔥🙈😜

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One more lovely post, this time from @kenquirks to lighten up our Sunday❤

“This is the first year I’ve ever been in love with my body. I have full intention of flaunting most of it throughout the year. :) I owe it to myself.”

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This is a special post by @feelsnthoughts

I'm so grateful to hear her story and I love it. It means so much to have people share such personal stories, it is brave and it is powerful👸❤

Please read her words below

"The past year has been challenging for me, mentally, as it has for many. A year ago I was writing goodbye notes to my loved ones as I sat and processed what it’d be like to leave this earth to better those around me. I used to think suicide was selfish until I was staring at it in the eyes. I was ready to be done with the world and this life, ready to rid my family and friends of the burden of living with me. I tried medication for my depression which helped a bit, but they caused other issues that I was not fond of. I traded meds for supplements and changed my diet a little, journaled more, leaned on my family and friends and told them what I was dealing with, and eventually (a year later) I’ve found my way back to myself. I still have dark days, but I’m learning to come out of them on my own. My blog is a reflection of who I am now, who I’ve been, and where I want to go. I’ve recently lost quite a bit of weight and am here to celebrate my body as it was and where it is now. Learning to love myself again has been an ongoing journey but I’m happy to share it and be on this wild ride. ♥️"

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I love @candyvalentinne blog, and how sweet, beautiful, and body positive it is.

Go check out this beautiful blog to get inspired by her amazing posts

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@mollies-mad-moments is one of the most lovely people I've met here. Today she has shared with us this beautiful story of how she embraced self love and how her relationship with her body has evolved.

Read this beautiful story below❤

"As a young adult I always felt “fat”. I had a really poor relationship with my body, I hid away under baggy clothes and had a profound lack of confidence. As time progressed, my health deteriorated and I spent a significant amount of time in hospital, with multiple lengthy admissions. In this time, what with lack of exercise and copious amounts of medication, I piled on a lot of weight. My relationship with my body plummeted even further and I couldn’t bear to even look at myself in the mirror. I wished I could go back to when I was younger when I thought it was “fat” when, looking back, I really wasn’t. I went on a number of diets which I couldn’t stick to because I comfort ate, which became a bit of a problem. It wasn’t until I was told I had reached obesity that I decided enough was enough. Under the supervision of my medical team, I went on a diet plan and managed to lose enough weight to be on the higher side of a normal weight. Surprisingly, this didn’t actually help with my relationship with my body. I thought losing weight was the answer to heal this relationship but evidentially it was not. A few months after losing all of that weight I found out I was pregnant. To begin with I continued my healthy eating plan, but cravings came and I used it as an excuse to eat what I like. Subsequently I piled on the weight again. I loved being pregnant; having the bump grow made me feel so much more confident. I wasn’t just “Fat Mollie”, I was “Mummy Mollie”, and I fell in love with my body. 9 years later in my journey, my son is now 18 months old, and my relationship with my body couldn’t be better. Bringing a baby into the world really changed my perspective. Somehow, even though I’m still overweight, I have so much more confidence and have accepted my body for what it is. I’m happy to wear flattering clothes without worrying when I see my own reflection. I would suggest to anybody that it’s best to look at the bigger picture. Is it worth having a negative relationship with your body? You are truly beautiful in your own special way, and this is what you need to hold on to. Learn from my mistakes, and learn to love you body the way it deserves"

And these beautiful pictures that she has shared with us are from:

"First one when I lost weight, second when I was pregnant, last one was fairly recent"

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Appreciate

“Little by little I'm starting to learn to admire the unseen beauty inside me, the small progress, the little achievement that no one else claps for, but me.” - Clau Blanco

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What about starting our mornings like @honeysupervirus

Stretch and appreciate😊

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I'm doing this post to give a shoutout to my lovely friend @honeysupervirus who has started Yoga as a way of keeping fit and healthy during Covid19 lockdown. And check her account to see how far she's improved

Its just incredible, impressive @honeysupervirus 😍😍

She also promotes body positivity in her blog and as you can see in her photo, natural poses showing love to her beautiful body

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@little-miss-weiird has made this great contribution to our blog sharing her story and how she has recently found self love and body positivity.

Read her own words below😍

"I have always been struggling about how i look and I have been really hard on myself for being plus size but I’m starting to love myself and my body

I started to forgive myself and working on the things I struggled with about body and seeing other beautiful plus size women helped me to learn my body wasn’t wrong and I slowly started to accept my body"

Thanks @little-miss-weiird for sharing your lovely and inspiring story😍

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Just got this super inspiring post from lovely @abuntion01 who has shared her story, and body positivity journey.

Thank you so much for sharing this @abuntion01

It really inspires us a lot 💗

"I used to be super big and hated myself after I had my son. I reached 203 lbs during pregnancy, and felt completely disconnected with myself. But I began eating better, exercising, and learning about what my body had became and who I had became after giving birth. That helped me establish a healthy relationship with my body and made it easier for me to drop weight. My body still has a lot of stretch marks and loose skin that won’t ever go away, but I’ve built a bond to each detail of myself.

Some self-love practices that I do are drinking water, writing in my gratitude journal for myself every day, altering my mindset when I say or thing negative things about myself into habits of saying kind and loving things to myself, and I get myself out of the house, going for walks every day to just clear my mind and give my body needed stimulation.

I’m very proud of [all my body parts]. I have nothing to hide, especially if it helps other women feel more comfortable and confident with themselves."

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@fuertebody is a dear friend of mine which has always shared great content and inspired us.

So I'd like to promote this page of her she has recently started which is also to get some help for her school fees

So I recommend you all to get in there and subscribe to her beautiful blog, you won't regret😍😉

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@cheekyintensions has made this lovely submission to our blog , Yay more Aussie posts 🇦🇺

Back to @cheekyintensions ,

She told me about how she has been finding the festive season a little hard to get out of bed

So she started to take some photos of herself to love herself more. How lovely is that💗

And thats why she has created her account

And thats from her words⬇️

"I guess when I wear nice things when i’m feeling a bit glum, it cheers me up to feel good in it.

But with also having interested people on tumblr to appreciate me as well

I feel like tumblr is a different world but also like minded people on here compared to the usual social media world where everyone is so judgmental. I feel like i’m never judged on here and always loved"

And finally I asked her about mental health and how she's keeping up

"So I guess at the moment i’ve only really understood mental a lot more recently with having to do isolation and lockdowns with being unemployed and having no where to be and just not wanting to get out of bed.

So at least at the moment with gyms being open I try and at least go to the gym to say I was productive In my day of not doing anything or go for a run if it’s nice weather.

I also try and call a friend I guess. Or I try and be creative with scrapbook stuff"

It was so lovely to chat with you @cheekyintensions and thank you so much for sharing your story with us

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So after many ups and downs, 2020 is coming to an end. It sure was the year that the future was cancelled, and nothing feels surprising after this year😁

As I'm writing this final 2020 post on this blog, despite all the bad things that happened in this year, I'm feeling grateful to have amazing people surrounding me, and most importantly this blog and all my friends and followers here who always send positive vibes and share their inspiring stories.

This blog is about self love, and what I've learnt in 2020 about self love is that the only way you can feel a sense of love and belonging is through having the courage to be imperfect and tell your story.

And only by having the compassion to be kind to yourself first, you'll be able to be kind to others.

And this courage and compassion will give you a sense of worthiness which is the best place to be in terms of the mental wellbeing.

I'm thankful to all who shared their stories this year, and I've managed to ask them to share a single body positivity photo of themselves so we all wrap 2020 up together. 💗

Thanks to @honeysupervirus @fuertebody @amazingnykki @littleemarr @wren-winter for sharing these

Happy New Year

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And a short and sweet message from another local 😊 @ivymoonnnx

"there are always going to be bad days when it comes to loving your body and i will admit i accept it. The fact is, i do love me and loving me is also loving my body.

Yes there are certain parts of my body i wish i could tone up more but its all a progress and when you're committed to change you will get there.

As for the things i cant help, I've learned to accept it because it makes me, me.

I feel a much happier person and i love myself more for it."

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@theseasidewitch is an amazing person I got to know only last week, but honestly feels like knowing her for so long. (Maybe as we happen to live in the same city, and I have to say it's great to have some people from Australia sharing their stories where this blog was made😊)

She's a kind and amazing person with a lovely mission, to make everyone smile.

In this post, She's not only told about her inspiring body positive journey but also has shared some beautiful content from her modelling and only fans account (which you can see at the bottom of the post😉)

Anyway let's read what she wrote for us below⬇️

"I'm an alternate model as a hobby for a local arts group but enjoy creating lewd content and building friendships with my followers. It's really helped to build on my own self confidence and has been a rewarding venture over the past few years since I began sharing my photos with the world 🖤 I'm just here to make everyone smile.

I've suffered from Anorexia, Bulimia and Body Dysmorphia since I was about 13 years old, so body positivity has been an endless and perilous journey for me. I do my best to stay healthy and nourish my body in a way which is accepting of my "human" side - accepting of my body no matter what the numbers on the scales may be. I look like I'm very fit and shouldn't worry about my weight but in actual fact trying not to get bummed out by my appearance is a constant and conscious effort. I can sympathize with people of all body types because I can honestly say I have been there, struggling to come to grips with new weight gain or scars adorning my body. At the end of the day, we must learn to embrace and honour ourselves the way we are today rather than chasing after the dream of what we should look like. 🖤"

And one last thing😁

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Go follow her and enjoy her beautiful work, I surely did enjoy a lot

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And one more beautiful post to wrap up today!

@saftigsexkatzchen has made this lovely submission to our blog💗

She's shared her turbulent body positivity journey with us and how she has done such a great job embracing self love. She also shared one of the first sets that she posted on tumblr. This set really made her "think wow, I am attractive and I should feel sexy and incredible in the body I’m in."

Lets read the her full story below⬇️

"My body was a war zone. I have spent most of my life at odds with my body. Anything that I accomplished was overshadowed by my feelings of inadequacy in my own body. I could never be pretty enough, thin enough, or ever feel like I was enough to be worthy of anything. After 20 years of an eating disorder, multiple cancer scares, and life changing diagnosis of chronic illness, my body had finally met its limit. I couldn’t keep living the way I had for so many years. I had to recognize I was in an abusive relationship with my body and it was finally time to make a choice and I chose to appreciate the small things. Little by little I would be grateful for what my body could do and I began to realize that all those small things were finally enough. I was enough and with that I slowly began to build my confidence and begin the healing process. It is not an easy decision to choose to heal and love yourself, but every day I make the commitment to try."

How does @saftigsexkatzchen practice self love and what does it mean to her?

Self love can be accomplished through so many different facets. I practice self love through acts of service. I actively choose to do positive things for myself and make choices that promote my healing and overall health. These choices are not always easy but they are definitely worth making. Sometimes it is as simple as giving yourself permission to say no, or to step away from something that no longer serves you.

It’s also important to mention that the journey of body positivity doesn’t have to be a singular experience. I chose to love myself because I met someone who reminded me that my life was worth living. And helped me see that the small things were more than “enough” and that I was always enough."

One more thing, a special photo to @saftigsexkatzchen

"I try to post all the pics I take no matter how uncomfortable they make me feel. I guess if you don’t mind, I’d share a photo I don’t normally post on my blog. One that’s of me fully clothed. Because sometimes I feel like people can forget body positivity doesn’t just apply when you’re trying to be confident through overt sexuality. It’s an everyday act of self love. I am more than just the photos I post. I’m hardworking, compassionate and passionate about so many things. I’m human and I deserve to love myself too."

Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story and photos @saftigsexkatzchen