ab/dl couple

A southern couple sharing our love for the ab/dl community and diapers! We've been together for a little over 3 years and have opened up to the diaper world, so enjoy the photos of us! Feel free to ask us any questions! 18+

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Hurricane evacuation tip #1: always make sure dot is padded for the road trip

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Do you two ever do watersports outside of dips?

We always pee on each other in the shower! 🙊

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Could you post more videos, please? :)

We'll try 😉

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What size pull ups does dot wear? I'm about the same size and was just wondering. Also where does she buy them?

Dot wears L/XL goodnites. Most of the time we buy them on Amazon for her

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Omg! I've been following you guys for awhile and I just saw you followed me back! I'm sooooooo happy!!! 💕

Yay!! 😊 we're glad we found you, you've got a great blog!

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This may be a little weird to ask, but how many inches are dot's hips/waist? I really wanted to try the always discreet pull-ups but I'm probably even thinner than her :(

Probably 25 inches or so. The always discreet were huuuuge on her. Goodnites L/XL are definitely the way to go!

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Do you love wetting your diaper

Of course!

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We're finally living together!

After what felt like forever, we are finally settled into our first place together! Work has let us cross paths and live in the same city!

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Where in the world are Tot & Dot?

Hey y'all! We are so sorry for not posting in a while. Dot is in the middle of a move across the country, and Tot has been extremely busy with work. We will resume posting once both our lives calm down! Thanks for your continued support and understanding :)

xo dot

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Are either of you bedwetters or do either of you have legitimate accidents at night? I am hoping to become a bedwetter and am not sure how long to expect it to take.

Nope, we’re not bedwetters! Tot being the DL he is, will just wake up in the night, wet, and go right back to sleep.

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Have either of you guys ever made a homemade diaper?

Nope! Might be an idea one day though 😉

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do you guys have a daddy/little dynamic?

No, we don't. We just have a basic relationship that involves diapers when we can physically be together.

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Sorta personal. Can girls wear a diaper while they're on their periods? If so, can they use powder? Thank you!

Yes, they can wear them for periods. Think of them as a giant pad. But just like other feminine care products, sanitation is an issue you run into if you do not change them frequently - depending of course on your period. From dot's experience, I would advise not using powder because you seldom want to wet the diaper while you're on your period (unless you wet it right before changing). Powder protects the skin from developing a rash, and this won't lead to a rash, but rather a UTI if you are not careful. Using powder in this instance will not harm you, so don't feel like you "shouldn't" be using it. It's really personal preference and whatever makes you comfortable!

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dot just decided she'd lay on the floor the other day!

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Have you ever been long distance?

Yes, actually. Our whole relationship has been distance, including right now!

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are you on fetlife?

Nope. Just Tumblr!

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Have you ever thought of doing videos or having your own podcast perhaps?

We like to film ourselves occasionally and post to tumblr, but I'm not sure we'll ever get to a podcast. We're both kind of shy, and this is all still relatively new for dot. Maybe one day though!