Tower Girl

I accept and embrace the changes that are brought by the force of the tower, understanding that everything happens FOR ME and NOT TO ME.Amateur but passionate astrologer/tarot reader and a huge Harry Potter fan. 

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A little list for my posts

Greetins from the Tower Girl Anon. I am not a certificate astrologer yet but I've been studying on my own for a few years, and I hope to become one in the future to help others in their journey to heal, ascend, and discover themselves.

Even though there is not so many posts in this blog yet, and many of them are just personal interpretations, this pinned post, which will be updated with every new post I make, will help you find my readings with ease by just clicking the astrology/tarot/asteroids links down below.

Information

How to create a natal chart

Astrology

Some small astrology interpretations and Karmic connections

Mars and what makes us angry

Planets, asteroids and a glimpse to discover the origins of our traumas

9th house and your experience through university

11th house: our ideal friends and how we are percieved in social settings.

4th and 10th house: how we act in public vs how we act on private

6th house: pet edition

Mercury in signs: how do you sing

Astrology observations

Astrology observations

Asteroids

Melancholia (5708)

Alma (390)

Bless (92891)

Victoria (12)

Agapenor (5023)

Juno: Wedding Edition

Queen's (5457) and King (2507)

Fama (408)

Memoria (1247)

Tarot

Tarot Birth Cards

Pick a Card

Pick A Card: Past Life Edition

Pick A Card: Who is your future spouse

Pick a Card: What can you expect this Aries season?

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Thank you so much for responding about the mars/moon and venus/mars conj synastry question!

Do you have any specific opinion on those aspects synastry in aries?

Hello!! When it comes about the Moon/Mars conjunction in Aries I could say that:

There is a huge ammount of energy sorrounding this mixture of emotional and driven connection.

The Mars person feels confident in this active and driven energy since Mars is the ruler of Aries, but Moon does not since the Moon naturally rules Cancer. The ammount of intensity that sorrounds this connection, that sometimes may seem reckless or impulsive, could be overwhelming to the Moon person, especially if the effort they put are not reciprocated.

Heated arguments could be a possibility.

Despite this, support, care, and a huge sexual appeal is apparent in this relationship.

Now, when it comes about Venus/Mars conjunction in Aries it can be said that:

Just like Moon/Mars, a balance between masculine and femenine.

A natural attraction and interest between the pair.

Even though Venus is not comfortable laying in Aries, her natural signs are Taurus and Libra, he or she may feel attracted to the Mars person since this planet naturally embodies the direct and active energy of Aries while Mars feels naturally at home with the mutual embodiment of the active Mars.

Hope it resonated and my sincere apologies for the delay of the answer.

Tower Girl Anon

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Hey, do hard aspect with Venus make people always unsatified in love or not being able to find good match? My Venus squares Node, Neptune and Uranus and it was always so hard..

Hello!! In relation to your ask, I don't think that all the hard aspects of Venus indicates difficulty of finding a good match. In general, when it comes to that, the Venus-North Node hard aspect indicate a difficulty in finding love. In a similar way to Venus square Saturn, this aspect indicates unlearned lessons for the native when it comes to love (the nature of that lesson will depend on the sign and house this planet and point falls in the natal chart), so when it comes about love, the Venus-North Node hard aspect indicates unfinished business or unlearned lessons when it comes about love, so you will probably had to face sudden and exciting relationship that, on the long term, don't look as good as it seemed in the first place. The hard aspects between Venus and Uranus/Neptune could give a better understanding of the nature of these lessons. From one part, it may seem as if there sudden attraction when it comes to the different people you meet could give a sence of ilussion or excesive compassion towards people, which, in an unbalanced way, could be damaging to you or others. Believing the best in everyone is good, it signals a sensible and emphatic nature, but if it ends up consuming you or affecting you in a bad way, then the relationship is not worth it.

Learning about the true meaning of love, compassion, self care, and, perphaps, that attraction may not always indicate true love, could be some of the themes with these aspects.

Hope this answer served you. Send you lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon.

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Hi. Could you tell me what aspects between planers are the worse for loving, long term relationship? I noticed my parents didn't have many quarters and opposites and yet it was toxic.

Hello! Apologies for the delay on the answer. Here are some of my views in relation to your ask:

This first point could come as a surprise, but one of the elements that could affect a relationship are the trines and sextiles in synastry. Yes, trines and sextiles are positive aspects that, in general, doesn't create difficult situation since those energies are more familiar and easier to the natives, but, despite this, many individuals can take these energies for granted and won't put the neccessary effort to make this energy work. It won't turn the relationship into something toxic, but it could affect it if taken for granted.

Conjunction between Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto to the personal planets: These aspects would depend on the natal aspects, dominant planets, and dominant signs of each sign to know how familiar these energies are for the native, but the conjunction between these outer planets could signal a potential development of toxic traits and treatments between two people. With Uranus, for example, there could be an on and off exchange of energies with the pair depending on the planet that this planet makes aspect to. There could be a sense of friendship and excitement at first, but then, time later, it turns cold and distant. With Neptune, idealization, victimization, or a need to forgive each other's faults could be part of the relationship. Both could lie, manipulate, hide things from each other, or suspect of the other's intentions, creating situations that may not be neccessarily real. With Pluto, obsession and power struggles can be observed. There is attraction and a need to control (Pluto), which can be a situation that the other person may not like at all.

Conjunction of Mars to the inner and/or outer planets

The aspects of the planets with Mars increases the chances of a relationship in which there is a lot of action and competitiveness between the couple. Both could either challenge or inspire the other to make action and intensity/sexual attraction could be a theme in the relationship. On the downside, the competitive nature of the relationship could turn on aggressiveness and fight, creating toxic situations between the couple.

These are some of the aspects I could think of when it comes about possible toxic aspects in synastry. Hope you find it useful and, again, my apologies for the delay on your answer.

Tower Girl Anon

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Any aspects that indicate a slow burn type romance?

Hello! Apologies for the delay. As always, these type of indicators will depend a lot on the individual chart of each person since their dominant planets, signs, and aspects indicates a lot of what type of person they are attracted to or not.

Now, having said this, these are some aspects that could indicate a potential slow burn type of romance

-Overlays to the third house (especially Moon and/or Mercury)

The third house is mostly related to communication and, at the same type, of brothers or sisters, so having these placements could help a couple to spend time talking to each other since both could find that there is mental stimulation and similarities of thought between the two. It won't romantic per se, but it could create, with time, a sence of familiarity and friendship in the relationship, allowing them to truste each other and/or communicate in case that there is a lack of contact with Mercury in Synastry.

-Aspects to Mercury in synastry or composite

Just like the last group, the aspect to Mercury could not be appreciated as much, but having good connections to Mercury (in my opinion, Mercury and Moon are crucial to develop feelings in the pair) could signify an interest on what the other is saying. It could increase the sense of appreciation and care towards each other, along with the confidence to trust each other to listen and talk to, increasing with time the affection towards each other.

-Saturn aspects or Capricorn placements in synastry or composite

This is not a romantic placement per se. Usually, having aspects to Saturn or Capricorn placements indicate a sense of responsability or obligation between the couple. In synastry, the aspects of Saturn indicates a relationship that comes with some type of burden or responsability, which could affect the other person either for the best or the worst since, usually, the lessons mastered or experienced by Saturn could help the other person to evolve, but sometimes the comments or help of Saturn could be seen as a restriction or critic rather than help. Another interpretation of this is that there are some obstacles or restrictions between the couple (apply either to aspects to Saturn in synastry/composite or Capricorn placements in composite). These obstacles could either break or make a couple, but if both are patient enough to face these challenges and lessons the interaction could turn into love and respect on the long run.

These are some of the aspects I could think about, but, again, I repeat that these type of indicators will depend a lot on the individual chart of each person since their dominant planets, signs, and aspects.

Hope you are having a good day/night and send you lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon

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Hi Tower girl, what type of dates and activities would a Leo Mars in 8th house couple enjoy? (in the composite chart). Thanks.

Hello Anon! My sincere apologies for the delay.

Type of dates and activities with a Leo Mars in the 8th house composite

-Extreme sports: that came first to mind since one of the posibilities of having Mars in the eight house wants to put energy in doing powerful or extreme things such as the activity I've just mentioned.

-Board games or competitive games in general: with Mars in Leo in the eight, I feel that a couple with this placement will like to do any game or activity in which they would have to prove their value or they strength, being that to show it to others or between them.

-In relation to dates, this couple will like to enjoy private settings. Being at home, doing unusual activities that may look as taboo or dangerous because these things turn both of them on. Doing these things could be a way of making them feel powerful or active.

-On another note, they could spend a lot of time planning or spending energy on bulding their legacy together.

This is all I have for you. My sincere apologies for the delay.

Tower Girl Anon

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Hello Tower,

I'd like to know your opinion on the interaction between 2 persons who have no aspects between their suns and moons in a synastry chart. TY

Hello!!

Based on this chart, I believe that, despite the lack of connection between the Sun and Moon with each other, there is still an ammount of care and fun in this connection.

With the Jupiter aspects towards Sun, Moon (double whammy), Mercury, and Venus, there is fun and a light energy between these people. Both feel more optimistic and light-hearted when they are surrounded by the other. Generosity, expansion, and fun are themes of this connection.

Along with that, there is a mixture of stable and intensive energy between the two. With the trines of Saturn, the aspects of both Mars's towards the rest of the planets, and the aspects of both Pluto's to the inner planets of the other, it seems as if both can ground themselves while also experience passion, intensity, and a sence of competition between the two.

Now, the downside of this is, despite the harmonious aspects of both Mercuries, there are hard aspects of the vertical person's Mercury to the horizontal person's planet (square Mars, opposite Uranus and Neptune) which could indicate a tendency to lie to the other, to suddenly end up stop talking to the other, or only saying what the other wants.

The hard aspects of both Mars is something to consider too. The hard aspects (squares and conjunction) indicates attraction and also a sense of competition between the two. A competition that could turn into fights very quickly.

These are my thoughts in relation to these aspects.

Send you lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon

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Astrology observations (Mars/Aries and 8th house/2nd house edition)

Hello!! I came back after a while with a small Astrology observations post related to Mars and Aries in the 2nd or 8th house. So, please enjoy.

1*It is very common that people who have Aries or Mars in the second house end up wasting money on things. In many cases, those expenses could end up being totally unnecesary, but these natives could be very impulsive when it comes to buying things, making it difficult for them to save money unless there are other planets or aspects that could decrease this energy such as having aspects to Saturn.

2*The same can be applied to people who has Aries or Mars in the eight house, with the difference that the eight house talks about inheritence or others people's money, so these natives could overspend a lot of money on unnecessary items at the cost of somebody else's wallet or inheritence. Or making impulsive acts in relation to money, which could also affect other people's money.

One example of this aspect relates to the late king George IV, whose Mars in Scorpio is in the eight house. This ruler spend a lot of money in forniture, paintings, clothing, and parties. He probably did that because it make him feel important and powerful. But, putting this aside, he overspend so much money into these things that he went bankrupt and, at one point, had to ask the goverment to settle his debts. They agreed on that occasion with the condition that he had to settle down and produce an heir.

A president or ruler who has this placement could, potentially, end up doing the things that I've just mentioned.

3* Sadly, those who have Aries as the ruler of the eight house or have Mars under the eight house could die violently or due to an accident. The chart of the deceased princess Charlotte Augusta of Wales shows this.

Charlotte Augusta of Wales died a few hours later after her delivery of a stillborn son. That birth lasted 50 hours. She had Mars in Scorpio in the eight house near her Neptune. To this day, the cause of her demise remains unknown.

4. The good part of having Mars in the second house, is that these natives could put a lot of hard work when it comes to their finances. They put energy in the work they do and to build their legacy and self-esteem.

5. The good part of having Mars in the eight house is that these natives could be very good detectives. Finding hidden truths about life itself or others such as their fears could be one of their talents. These are some observations related to Mars and Aries. Hope you have a great weekend and yes, the Georgian period it is an interesting topic for me.

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hi i am a girl from sri lanka.

birth place :kegalle,sabaragamuwa province

birth time and date; 10:54 a.m. 2004 sep 8th

can i know that my future husband will be a foreigner who is so much older than me?

Hello!! My apologies for the delay in your answer.

Well, from your chart, I can see that your future spouse could have the traits that you have just mentioned. That is because of your Juno in Capricorn, Venus-Saturn conjunction, and your Juno sitting in the second house in Sagittarius. Now, these traits are a few possibilities of how this planets and aspects could play out. Take into consideration that maturity doesn't mean necessarily that the partner is older, it could be that it is someone who is emotionally more mature than others. Along with that, you must take into account thatJuno is the asteroids that refers to the godess of matrimony and childbirth, so it has the potential to make reference to these meanings too. With Jupiter in Virgo in the 11th house, your future partner could be very practical, down to earth, hard working, but also social and friendly. Since Virgo is ruled by Mercury, your partner could be smart or likes to talk a lot about different subjects. The ruler of Jupiter, Sagittarius, lies in the second house; the same house in which Juno lies. That could mean that he is someone who either travelled a lot, has different friends from different countries, lives abroad or likes to spend money on travelling or learning in general. With Juno in there, it could mean that your partner has those traits or you are going to spend money on travels once married.

Being a foreigner and older than you could be possible, but there are also another meanings worthy of exploring too.

Again, my sincere apologies for the late response, but hope it serves you. Lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon

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Hello. What do you think about synastry with completely no conjunction between all planets , i also check declination but no parallel, is love still exist here ?

Hello! I truly believe that in any relationship there is a potential of having a loving relationship. Having a conjunction or a especific placement/aspect in synastry doesn't guarantee love. It indicates potential of love or care, and intensity of certain energies, but it can become too strong for some, or too familiar if individuals have those aspects or signs in synastry. It depends on the chart. The same can be applied to the rest of the aspects such as trine, sextile, square, or opposition. There is potential for certain flows or conflict of energies that, despite if it is easy or hard, doesn't necessarily translate to love. Trine and sextile, for example, could be nice in theory but many individuals doesn't feel nothing significant with this aspects or becomes too boring for them since it seems as if there is nothing more to the relationship. Nothing else to spice the relationship or create some situations that could allow them or both to grow (trine are considered lessons or energies that we have already mastered, so having a lot of these could make a relationship feel dull at certain points since we are beings that comes to earth to learn and evolve). The same can be said about squares and opposition. It is often described that squares creates conflicts which, in part, is true, but it is not something that signals that there is not love in a relationship. It just signals an underveloped type of energy or conflict in mannaging an exchange of a type of energy. In the case of opposition, there is this position that says that the pair could complement each other since they have opposite energies but, again, it doesn't necessarily indicates love or hates. It indicates a potential result based on the exchange of those energies. So, despite not having any conjuncting placements in synastry, there could still be A POTENTIAL development of love between the two. Depending on the aspect, it could indicate how easily that feeling could develop or not.

Apologies for the delay of my answer, hope this answer resonates and please recieve a lot of love and light from

Tower Girl Anon

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🧜‍♀️Hello. Can you explain what does Jupiter trine juno and Mercury conjunct Eros mean in synastry?? Thankss 🌼

Hello!! Apologise for the delay, hope you are having a great start of week!!

Juno trine Jupiter synastry

This is a natural combination between this planet and asteroid since, in the Roman mythology, Juno is the wife of Jupiter. Being this asteroid the representation of marriage and chilbirth while Jupiter represents expansion, fortune, and knowledge, having this combination in an harmonious aspect indicates a relationship that grows over time in dedication and respect. The Juno person could as if he/she can evolve and grow under the presence of the Jupiter, maybe he/she will feel more lucky, while the Jupiter person could feel more grounded or as if he/she wants to put more compromise with the other person.

Mercury conjunct Eros synastry

This aspect denotes sexual appeal in synastry. The Eros person could find the Mercury person exciting and attractive in the way they talk, write, or thinks. The intelligent nature of Mercury could be a turn on for the Eros person, who could become sexually obsessed with him/her. If both end up having a deeper conection with the other, dirty talks or sexual talks could be one of the favorites things to do for the Eros person. That and/or talking during sex.

Hope this resonated. Send you lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon

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What do you think about asteroid destinn conjuncting saturn in synastry??

Hello! A conjunction between destinn and saturn in synastry could indicate a fated connection, probably a past life connection, in which you will come to face some obstacles or situations together that may come from past lives or a past life. The person with the destinn asteroid could come into the life of the Saturn person to help them with their evolution by helping them release accumulated energy from the past. It could be difficult, hard, and uncomfortable in some cases, but it could help them to evolve.

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Hello! What are the indicators of foreign travel or settlement in a solar return chart?

Hello!! Apologise for the delay on your answer. Hope you are having a good type.

Unfortunately, I am not familiar in general with solar return charts, but I could guess that, if there are some "possible" indicators of foreign travel or settlement it could be these:

Having planets in the ninth house in the solar return chart (especially Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Jupiter)

Having planets in the solar return chart that falls in your natal ninth house

Having the ruler of your ninth house in Sagittarius in the Solar return chart or in aspect to Jupiter (Jupiter and Sagittarius naturally rules the ninth house).

I don't think this is necessary, but maybe having the ruler of your natal ninth house in aspect to planets in the Solar Return chart

I hope it serves but, as I've said, I am not that familiar with Solar Return Charts.

Send you lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon.

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Synastry Question!

Leo Lilith in other's 11H & Virgo Lilith in other's 7H.

How would it play out ?

Thank youu❣️

Hello!! Apologise for the delay!

Leo Lilith and Virgo Lilith compatibility

Both Leo and Virgo are neighbours in the zodiac table, so they are familiar to each other. Both could really like to talk to each other in a dirty, sexy, or rebellious type of way, or just act and be proud to act in that way, but, on the long term, these signs could clash hard. That is because the Leo Lilith person could be too stubborn and prideful while the Virgo Lilith person could end up being too critical or perfectionist when it comes to the things they like or the way they want to act.

Lilith in other's 11th house

This placement is giving me a friend with benefits type of relationship. In the eleventh house, the lilith person helps the house person to be more carefree, rebel, and sexy. Some people could say that both are having an affair or that the Lilith person is making the house person change for the worst due to the dark and rebellious energy of Lilith, but it is just that they are teaching the house person to embrace and let loose that energy. Freedom, friendlyness, and an invigorating need to explore new things could be a theme with this overlay. The downside of this aspect is that there is some casual and fixed energy between the two that could affect their relationship. Especially if someone wants more than the other.

Lilith in other's 7th house

This placement could give an intimate and powerful connection between the two. It would seem as if they are both sexual partners or partners in crime ready to create a mess. The lilith person would be like the rebellious friend of the native. There is friendlyness, support, and hard energy between the two, but it will be more noticeable to the house person. Now, the downside of this placement is that it is the house of open enemies too, so having this overlay could indicate that, if both Lilith and the house person fight, anger, resentment , and violence could appear, creating a nasty energy between the two.

Overall, I think this relationship has a fun, unique, and intense feeling, mixed with friendlyness, acceptance, and camaraderie, helping the relationship to grow freely. The downside is that, between the two different energies of Lilith, there could be problems with communication and ego, which could increase the fights and has the potential to turn sour the intense energy of the relationship.

Hope this resonated. Again, apologise for the delay and hope you have a great week

Tower Girl Anon

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Hi! Can I ask this question what about the natives having Part of Fortune in Pisces in 3rd house at 28 degree square venus, sun and chiron means? Thank you! 💗

Hello!! Apologies for the delay, hope you have a great week ahead!!

Part of Fortune in Pisces in 3rd house at 28 degree

*Could have a good singing voice full of mystery and hipnotism. *Could experience luck or fortune by using their voices or their communication skills such as writing. *Siblings of the native could experience luck in their lifes, or the native could feel lucky next to their siblings. *Combined with this, the 28° (Cancer) gives the native an emotional, emphatic, and nurturing voice. *Writing or singing could help them emotionally. It could fulfill them.

Part of Fortune square Sun, Venus, and Chiron

*Difficulties in life when it comes about love, self-love, healing, and developing the ego or self confidence of the native. *The native could suffer from insecurities or may feel as if there is a lack of luck in the themes mentioned above. *This aspect doesn't indicate that the native won't find luck in those departments, but it won't be in the way that the native expects, or he/she will need to put effort in order to reach love, confidence and healing. It needs to look within themselves to find the luck they already have in their life, to find where they inner problems or insecurities/fears reside, and heal them to create and find the success they will like to have.

Hope this resonated. Send you lots of love and light.

Tower Girl Anon

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Hi. What are your favorite placements in a composite chart? Thank you.

Hello!! Apologies for the delay, hope you are having a good week! Here are some of my favorite aspects in composite:

Aspects to the Moon, especially the Moon-Mercury link, the Moon-Venus link and the Moon-Jupiter In general, having good aspects with the composite Moon will be beneficial to increase the affection, love, and emotional support of the couple. The first link mentioned could bring a telephatic connection, or a relationship that can oppenly talk about their feelings, while the second link bring a nurturing connection filled with love, and the third one a passionate one. The fourth one brings optimism, playfulness, cheerfulness, and a sincere need to make each other happy.

2. Aspects to Mercury (any aspect).

Aspects with Mercury in the composite could potentially increase the duration of the relationship. Why? Because communication is our basic tool to conect with people and see how compatible we are on a mental level along with seeing if both would have the compromise to talk to each other of their needs and interests.

Now, for me, the energy of Moon and Mercury are one of the most crucial points in a composite to see a potential relationship unfold for the long term. In relation to the rest of the planets and signs, I don't have a favorite since those energies will have a different impact on every person. For example, one of the best aspects to have in composite, according to many sources, is a Sun and Venus aspect (especially conjunction, trine, and sextile) because it grants a natural and genuine affection and love. Since I love to read astrological testimonies, I've found that some people with this aspect never felt something significant as many blogs say, so it's up to, not only the aspects and placements of the composite, but also how it touches each others natal charts to see how the relationship affects each other individually.

Having said that, I will add some things that I like to see in a composite chart:

The aspects and placement of asteroid Alma This asteroid could indicate what type of past life or past lives you had with your person. What you went through in the past. If it touches the personal planets of the chart, Vertex, the Axis, South Node, or North Node, it could indicate that you had an important or significant past life with that person.

The aspects and placement of asteroid Amor/Agapenor/Valentine These asteroids, if it makes aspects to personal planet, could increase the chances of developing love and affection towards each other. We must still consider how the primal planets affect each other, but these asteroids could increase the chances of love.

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Hello!!🥰

Hope you are doing great 🤍

I want to get some information about Part of fortune in 8th house Leo at 29° if you don't mind ? Thank you ✨

Hello!! So sorry for the delay and hope you are doing great as well 🤍🤍🤍

Part of Forune in 8th house Leo at 29°

-There is going to be a significant luck or fortune in relation to money, inheritence, and intense relationships. -If you were struggling to keep the money or if you are planning to start a business, this aspect could increase the chances of being successful due to luck, earning an unexpected income such as an inheritence or lotery. This success won't be inmediate though, it still needs to have a lot of hard work. -Fame could be possible though due to the positive influence of the Leo energy, ruled by Sun. -This possitive energy may come as a form of reward due to good actions in past lives or due to effort.

Hope this resonated 🤍🤍🤍

Tower Girl Anon