Tractor beam on my bed got you acting le freak

27, Queer, Poly, lgDD, FFA Feeder, Sensation/Submission💖

[loopez]

[candycoatedplastic]

[thetulgey-wood]

That feeling when she puts your leash on😍😍

[bratschool]

[nsfw-userboxes]

[clownchronicles]

Your top didn’t top you, you bottomed your top. Use language of empowerment sisters!

[cross-leggeddefiance]

He didnt penetrate you. You engulfed him.

[mercilessmime]

They didn’t eat you out. You fed them.

[onelittlekingdom]

Hi, so I was wondering if I could get advice? My Dom hasn’t been feeling great lately (past few weeks) and we’ve barely been talking, and my mental health hasn’t been great lately either. Ive been trying to deal with it on my own because I don’t want to bother him while he’s trying to get better. So I guess my question is do I tell him I’m not doing well or do I let him focus on getting better?

November 22, 2019

Every time you have thoughts that incorporate phrases like, “…Trying to deal with it on my own because I don’t want to bother him…”, I want you to pull them from your brain, throw them to the floor, smash them with a sledgehammer, and then kick them a few times for good measure. 

Couples who struggle together, stay strong together.

Couples who struggle alone, are pulled apart. 

You tell him what you’re going through. He should tell you what he is going through as well. One of my mantras with Pip is, “We will get through it together, like everything else we have.” At this point we have enough history together that she is starting to believe the idea of it. It’s a good idea to have in the foundation of a dynamic. 

You’re not a bother.

You’re not too much.

JD

[suitcasefullofsoup]

Here’s a little tutorial that people have been asking about, with some booty wiggles.

Tutorial available for download here

I used my 10ft magenta rope from @bdsmgeekshop

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[onelittlekingdom]

What's your suggestions for a first time daddy dom with making rules for my little?

October 31, 2019

Start small. One rule for health. One rule for goals. One rule for pure kinky fun. Let those run for a little while. When you are bored with three rules, or find times where the call for a new rule jumps out at you during your dynamic, add more rules. Let it build organically like that. You will end up with better rules than you would if you tried to block them all out at the start of the dynamic before you know all the things about your new sub. Good Luck

JD

[littleprincesschloe-deactivated]

my toy collect just got super adorable ;3t

[littleprincesschloe-deactivated]

This picture seems weirdly popular atm… my toy collection now is just ridiculously massive 😂

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[sirskia]

Always a reblog when it crosses my dash because there is a lot of good info here.

[lumpylilspaceprincess]

Mood:

I want to be made to feel smol. And vulnerable. Innocent and cherished. Then I want to have all my holes mercilessly fingered and fucked. And then I want ice cream.

[scarerants]

[son-of-cernunnos]

Gospel, dudes and dudettes!!

[crimson-uncovered]

daddied in public

We were waiting for the train and I was being incessantly pouty because he wouldn’t let me go to the other side of the city to retrieve a pair of boots I keep at the office. They’re super sexy and I wanted to wear them, but we had plans and no time to rearrange our commute. His logic was sound, but being told no still made me feel a wee bit petulant. 

He tolerated it for a bit, but then he gave me The Look. You know the look I’m talking about. It’s also called the Careful, Young Lady look, or the You’re Pushing It look. Whenever I’m on the receiving end of it, I get squirmy and immediately feel tiny. I buried my face into his chest. I do that a lot when I’m in trouble or being chastised; I leaned into him as if snuggles were going to save me from a spanking. I mumbled sorry into his shirt and he said, “sorry, what?” I hesitated, not expecting him to prompt me in public, even though the subway platform was mostly empty. “Sorry daddy,” I said. I felt myself starting to throb.

On another day, we were in Zara and I couldn’t decide between two tops. I really wanted them both. I held one up, stared at it longingly, and looked at him. “I can have both?” I asked. I expected either a yes or no, but he said, “How do you ask permission for something?” My eyes widened. The store was busy enough that it would’ve been easy to be overheard. People pushed past us every couple seconds. 

“But we’re in public,” I protested.

The look on his face made it very clear that he didn’t care.

“May I have both, please?” I whispered. He didn’t make me call him ‘sir’ or ‘daddy’, but I still felt like I’d been reminded of my place.

I got to have both tops.

When he daddies me in public like that, it’s always a pleasant surprise. It pulls me out of whatever distracted headspace I’m in and anchors me. Goes without saying that it’s hot as hell, too. I’m still getting used to being mindful of my behavior outside of the bedroom. It’s not that I forget I’m his submissive when we’re out and about; I just don’t usually make a conscious effort to behave like his submissive when we’re not behind closed doors.

It’s a good thing, then, that he’s there to remind me of exactly who and what I am.

He’s there to remind me that, no matter where we are, I remain firmly under his thumb.

[trac7orbeam]

Fuck I need this💦 💦 💦

[spoopybelly]

all the humiliation and degradation i see in the feedism fetish makes me not want to be a feedist anymore. and i’ve been a feedee for…. forever? but apparently it’s the staple of the fetish now and if you don’t like it you’re not a true feedist.

idk. i thought it was about feeding. gaining weight. enjoying food and all the sexual things about all of that hotness. not someone stripping me of my self respect and shoving me on all fours and calling me a fucking greedy pig.

fuck that nonsense.

[fumbledeegrumble]

This is exactly how i feel. Like, fuck, do you people even LIKE fat people?? What part of “liking fat people” somehow translates into “deriving sexual pleasure from the act of degrading and dehumanizing us?”

Because if being attracted to fat people takes you to a place where you feel the urge to rip us into pieces and jerk it over our shreds? To me, you’re barking up the wrong tree.

[spoopybelly]

EXACTLY. and the fact that it’s a staple now in the community????? is really fucking gross. i understand kinkshaming is pretty bad and everyone has their kicks but i have too much self respect to even try and give this a pass and those piggy/slob/greedy posts i see just makes me so irrationally (or rationally) angry i can’t actually help it.

[fattygainer]

I agree.I worry how some men can’t seem to distinguish between fantasy and reality either.Feedism should be about consent,not domination and abuse of women!

[cakeandteasing-blog]

Well there’s a difference between playful teasing and humiliation. Playful teasing is okay in my opinion in public posts, but most humiliation should probably be constrained to PMs. I agree though that too many people are using words like piggy to girls that aren’t necessarily into it. People should be 100% sure that a girl enjoys that sort of kink behavior before calling them names that could be insulting if they’re not into it.

[feederwithbighands-deactivated2]

Getting to bed.

There’s nothing better than getting under the covers

Turning over

And spooning a warm, chubby body.

Feeling your hands and your arms sink into the soft fat.

Grabbing a little just to let you both know that you’re doing a good job.

Feeling all the little jiggles as you both move around.

The only way to get to sleep.

[pinkypiefairy]

All the things i love ❤️