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I noticed I have gathered some followers: I am submissive myself looking for a man to submit to, if this is your cup of tea feel free to reach out. My interests can be inferred from my other posts, but I am open for customisation to yours!

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masculinesheikh3

That mandatory for wifeboi

traditionaldesires

When I marry I devote myself to my husband, substituting my selfish pleasures for his pure desires. His climax is my goal and I will empty my head of dirty thoughts as I offer myself to him.

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He watches your location on his phone and notes that you did not take the most direct path to him.

Who did you see? Who did you talk to? You will answer for this.

traditionaldesires

It is for my own safety. If my husband doesn’t want to see where I am, does he even care?

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masculinesheikh3

Just a Man and his wife

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one-sided monogamy (aka natural monogamy or traditional monogamy)

you are His property. He strictly forbids you from having intimate contact with anyone other than Him. your sexuality is entirely focused on His pleasure and satisfaction.

He is the Man, and as such He has the natural right to fuck whoever He chooses, without restrictions

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allduerespect

your sexual fulfilment comes entirely from His orgasm 🔐

traditionaldesires

This! Sex is to please my husband, when he is satisfied, sex is complete.

A bottom’s social life

I made a post on a bottom’s sexuality before in an effort to put my ideas into words. As said I would possibly follow up with more ”ideology” posts later so here is one about social life. This is written from the perspective of being in a committed relationship.

In a relationship my social obligations ultimately become those towards my husband, which in many ways is a relief. I don’t need to juggle conflicting obligations against each other, when in doubt, it’s always my husband that is the correct answer.

The keyword in any relationship is ”permission”. The only person who can judge how well I’m fulfilling my obligations is my husband so why assume rather than just ask him? It takes no effort and any social activity becomes more enjoyable knowing he wanted me to do it. This means of course that sometimes he will say no, which again means I please him by choosing him ahead of others. Always asking for permission is a win-win!

Unfortunately it has got a bad reputation, but granting him access to my phone and sharing my location are great ways of building trust by showing I have nothing to hide from him. Should something happen he can also easily find me, so it is for the peace of mind for both of us. I just don’t understand this obsession people have with keeping secrets from their husbands, it is a beautiful thing to trust someone with yourself.

As a bottom I am representing my husband when outside. Any embarrassment or bad behaviour will reflect directly on him, so a permission is not a carte blanche for me to go wild. Stay mindful, stay demure.

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collarcage

I told you you'd be a lot hornier once you got caged. You're always looking for it now. I love how sexual you've become. That post orgasm depression you used to get is gone, and of course so are your orgasm's. Haha. You look so good in your cage. This is a much better situation for both of us.

traditionaldesires

I know very well that post orgasm it is easy to feel lethargic and neglect wifely duties. This is precisely why the least I can offer my future husband is to stay chaste.

A bottom’s sexuality

I have been thinking over the years about what it means to be a bottom and I decided I want to try putting the standards I have developed for myself into words. There may be more posts eventually, but I’ll start with the subject that is at the core of being a bottom, sex(uality).

To start with, I know there are people who may accuse me of double standards for not applying the same to tops, but that is a false comparison. There are standards for how planes and cars are built, that are uniform within each category, but they are not the same across. Some basic principles are shared, like that the vessel needs to be safe, but otherwise it would not make sense to apply the plane standards to cars and vice versa. Similarly, tops and bottoms are not identical and while basic human decency should be expected from both, the standards are only uniform within people of the same group.

Below are the bare minimum standards I think any bottom should live up to and that I do my best to adhere to.

Keep the body count low. Staying a virgin until marriage is admirable if one can achieve it, but for most it is unrealistic as one enters at least some relationship before marriage. A good target is to keep sexual contacts within such committed relationships and not date every person you run into. Bottoming is riskier in terms of STDs and if I have been all around town, what does it say about my ability to stay loyal in a marriage?

Masturbation should at most be seen as a harm reduction activity to stay away from hookups while single, not as a pleasant pastime. When married (or in a committed relationship) it is cheating and not to be done, period. Time should be spent building my character to be a good wife.

One way to spend that time when married is preparing for marital duties. Bottoming often requires preparations and there are almost always ways to make oneself more attractive for one’s husband. Understanding one’s husband’s likes and catering to them is a key building block for a successful marriage.

Sex is called a marital duty because it is not about the bottom’s enjoyment. I consent to sex on my husband’s terms when marrying and offer myself in exchange for his affection and protection.

When married, it is ultimately up to one’s husband to set the expectations. From observations I do, however, see how damaging to the harmony of marriages bottoms’ sexual liberation is. A wife that drools over other men, flaunting herself to them and playing with herself rather than servicing her husband is a recipe for divorce. Maybe I’ll edit this later if I find better ways to formulate my ”ideology”, this was just my first attempt to put words on it.

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He doesn't let his boiwife out of the house expect under very special circumstances, always under his male supervision. It doesn't matter if she is covered head to to. He is a strict believer that a man's home is the best hijab for his wife.

traditionaldesires

Why would I need to roam around town unsupervised? It reflects badly on my husband for even making people suspect I’m up to illicit activities. If he deems there is a reason for me to go out he will make arrangements to keep me safe.