Some of these are as hot (or maybe even hotter than chastity). Who needs to lock up a boy’s cock if you can just blackmail him instead?
Or, of course you could always do both.
maleslaveswanted:
Chastity has to be the most common way of keeping a man denied, it requires no effort, its almost 100% effective, and is very easy to use.
It can also be costly.. and some men don’t want to take that step because what if someone accidentally saw? or maybe because of their profession they’re unable. Whether their unable to or they’re just don’t want to.. Don’t worry, I’ve thought of some alternatives that can be just as effective.
you may be thinking “ well then they can play with themselves still ” that is true, however any man who is being denied will become aroused very, very easily. you can hear it in his voice when things get heated, you can see it in his eyes when he gets desperate, you notice it in his attentiveness all day long. If he has fun without you, you will notice it. He cant hide such a significant change not to mention there are methods of punishment for each alternative listed.
-This is most effective for those who like to be denied every once in a while for a week or so but not all the time.
In my experience the most common ways guys will let control go a little farther ( assuming you’re in a very trusting relationship ) is by letting you change a password to something they use frequently.
This could be anything, it could be the password to a website they use a lot like Facebook. some men wont like that because you can access that and read all their private conversations, you can also change their phone or laptop password, they can keep their phone or laptop with them but its useless until you give it use. This can be especially handy because unlike chastity where they can just take the key, they can never just take a password.
! If they cum alone you can keep them from knowing the password until a length of time has gone by you deem fit, you should possibly agree on this length of time before hand.. or maybe not ;)
-This is also mostly effective for shorter periods of denial
This method is simple. you take something they like or need and you keep it until after the power exchange is over, if you have your own car you can keep it locked in there, if you have a small safe you can stash it there, or maybe you don’t live with your partner, you can keep it at your place.
You can get pretty creative with this one, maybe its a collection of his, maybe its something sentimental, maybe its a gaming system or his TV. once someone i was seeing had the week off work and he planned to stay home for the week so i locked all of his clothes except the outfit he was wearing and all of his boxers in my car. the following three days he made it pretty clear he wanted his clothes back ;)
The only down side to this is much like a cage, it only takes a key to end it, i kept it well hid but i also made it clear if he found it and unlocked the car he may find himself with no clothes when he wakes up one morning.
! If they cum alone you can keep the item until you feel they deserve it back, before the session begins you could tell him you will destroy it / keep it / sell it if you figure out he came without permission.
-This can be effective for long term denial. make sure this is consensual. blackmail in any other context can be illegal.
This power exchange is a little more serious then a cage and it should be noted that at any time the sub is not ok with it anymore it should be ended ( like any denial session really. ) but if he wants you to be serious about it then so be it, don’t bluff or hold back.
This can be applied in a lot of situations but the easiest one is to take pictures of your sub doing something they would never want anyone to see or know about, it can be something embarrassing or humiliating, they don’t have to be nude.. as long as it shows their face and its something they would never want to get out. you can download an app to almost any phone to get a digital safe to keep these pictures in so no one accidentally sees them, what i did was make a second fake Facebook account and sent them to myself so they couldn’t be deleted. Making a second account also gives the power of being able to send the pictures of your sub to someone they know, anonymously.
Id recommend taking several pictures each one something he does not want to be seen even more than the previous. that way you can send someone the picture hes embarrassed of the least as proof you’re not bluffing without destroying an aspect of his social life and still having more to threaten with.
You can also simply show a friend of yours the picture so no one has possession of it. you can even lie and say you showed someone he doesn’t really talk to that you do and say you laughed about it and then threaten to show more people or show that person more pictures.
! If they cum alone just show someone the picture, show more people or more serious pictures upon each repeat offensive.
-useful for short term and long term sessions.
Unlike Findom with this you’re not dominating by spending money you are maintaining control by holding on to it. the potential for you to spend it is where that control comes from mostly. ( This is best done between a couple who trust each other completely )
Holding on to a set amount of money is a great way to keep control mostly because you can spend it, lie about spending it to him, and because until he gets it back he is short on cash.
It doesnt have to be a large amount, if youre a not so financially stable couple it can be as simple as 20$ as long as you both agree on it and are ok with it.
Keeping control with this is so easy because you can put the cash in your bank, and there’s no way he can get it back on his own once its in there, this is also a great trust building exercise because once you return the money to them a higher sense of trust is established.
! If they cum alone you can spend an agreed upon % of the amount. Lets say it was 100$ for example and you agreed every offence was 20% and 2x as much each time. the first offence would cost them 20$ and the second 40$.
I hope anybody who does not want to buy a chastity device, or simply does not want to wear one for any reason will benefit from this. Tease and denial can be a lot of fun when you have a good reason to obey.
Please Reblog this so those who don’t indulge in the beautifully cruel power exchange a chastity device has to offer have some alternatives to consider.
Just remember to keep it safe, sane, and consensual. :)
