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@transid--tips
a blog for asking about transID transition tips/advice send in an ask and we will try our best to give help on transitioning note that our advice leans more into social and/or physical transition. but we try our best to give tips for both private and public transitions.
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thank you everyone for the asks! im currently not doing so well so im going to take a break, but ill still be here to message!
hai ! can we offer advice ? i have a lot of transition tips that i dont wanna post on my blog to avoid antis , id love to send them thru anon here !!!
yes, you may send in advice! it would be a big help to everyone. send it in and we will post it!
tips for transjapanese asian indv? we’re using subs but we’d love to do more than that!
got our many transjapanese headmates to help with this one ehehe.
this is our transjapanese advice
consume media from japan or ones popular in japan. anime and manga is the most widely known so you will have plenty of others to converse about it with. jdrama, jpop, japanese radio are also worth giving a try to. googling medias that are popular or have dedicated fanbases is also great.
watch things either in the japanese dub with english subs or even english dub with japanese subs.
eating/cooking japanese foods is probably one of the best ways to get into the culture. restaurants can be great if you can find any good ones locally, or traveling to find authentic japanese food places. but what we recommend is finding a local asian market. even if it isnt ran by a japanese person, most are very knowledgeable about japanese foods and can give recommendations and tips with making meals. plus its an amazing way to get involved with your local asian community.
speaking about community, connect with other japanese folks and asians. online is a good starting point for building your confidence around being perceived as cisjapanese. going out locally where you live is a big step to take but is worth is. local asian communities are generally kind and accepting of all asian people. side note that you could end up meeting other transjapanese people irl, since its one of more common transIDs.
participate in japanese holidays. you can do this in the privacy of your own home or go to any local events if you can find them.
take time to learn about japanese fashions and decide on some subcultures you might want to try out. also getting a kimono/yukata can be very helpful.
watch youtube videos about japan and its culture. like for example, the manors that they prioritize or things they like to do for fun.
learning to speak japanese can be hard but might be worth it if you have plans of moving to japan or just want a deeper connection to the culture. but dont feel bad if you cant! not all japanese people outside of japan know the language, and thats valid.
being out and proud about being japanese is great. some people may question it but just know that race is a spectrum and not all asians will look the same.
if you feel racial dysphoria relating to your body then you may consider cosmetic surgery. we dont have much to say about this one since its something we are still researching, but do look into it if its a goal that you have.
thank you for reading this and we hope yalls transition journey goes well! we did sprinkle some infodumping in here since we are also transjapanese and in the middle of our transition. but thats alright because this is an autism safe space so that means we get to info dump yay.
how would submitting transcharacter transitioning tips work? would they have to say which character specifically?
for transcharacter tips we would need the full name of the character and the name of that characters source.
we will try our best with them, but if its for a source that we know nothing about then we will ask others for help.
Tips for translobotomized and/or transTBI?
getting help with this from one of our transTBI headmates!
our translobotomized advice
suddenly have a shift in personality or how you act with others. how you go about this can depend, but the more substantial, the better.
becoming calmer and aloof along with showing a lack of interest in things. those are the most common things seen in those lobotomized.
watching documentaries about patients who received or the history of the procedure can fill in the gaps on how to present yourself.
telling others that youve been lobotomized. this one might sound crazy but its something we do with our transIDs. its fun to see how they react to that information.
our transtraumaticbraininjury advice
again, a shift in personality is something common with brain injurys so its a nice thing to consider. you can plan out beforehand what you would act like.
forgetfulness is something that can also happen. things forgetting small details or daily activities.
you can act out having motor skill issues or tics. whether you do that publicly or privately is up to you. many who struggle with those might hide it out of shame, but you dont have to if it makes you feel better to be open about it.
some with brain injurys will forget that they even had one. so waiting until others notice your out of the ordinary behaviors can be very satisfying. if you want to take it a step further, you can even make a story about how you got your traumatic brain injury.
sorry if this one isnt too good, hope it helps yall out!
TIIPS FOR TRANSONEEYED PEEPS , OR PEOPLE WHO WANT ONE OF THEIIR EYES TO BE BLINDED ? ?
this one i got help from a couple of our transblind headmates and one of our transoneeyed headmates. heres our transoneeyed (with some transblind) advice.
eyepatches are a good way to hide the eye underneath especially since beings will assume that something is wrong with the eye under the eyepatch which can help with passing.
glasses can also work out. fully black lens glasses can be harder to find, but painting over the lens will work fine to.
contact lenses could give the appearance of missing an eye depending on what you can find. just make sure to use contacts safely!
practice being able to live out your daily life with only vision in one eye. it can be pretty hard at first but will become easier once you figure it out.
watch youtube videos or documentaries about the lives of those who have lost an eye or have became blind. they can be pretty insightful to learning.
seek out others who are also on the blind spectrum. the blind community is generally very accepting of everyone no matter how visually impaired you are. both cisblind and transblind folks can be cool and are worth trying to find either irl or online.
wave !!
id like to ask for tips regarding transition for NPD ?
(also can you request tips for multiple things in one ask or should you send multiple asks with only one request ? i dont want to spam you but i dont want my ask to be overwhelming either)
hello! first off to answer the last question, you can send multiple things in one ask or spread it out to the multiple asks. whichever one makes yall more comfortable. dont worry, neither will overwhelm us! we will answer everything when we feel ready. ^^ one of our headmates here is also transNPD so i got that headmate to help me out here. other then that feel free to add on in the comments if i missed anything. anyway, lets get into the transNPD advice!
putting yourself first over others! this can be small things such as making sure to engage in self care before caring about others, or larger things such as being firm with your boundaries with no compromise.
make a big deal out of your achievements. even if they are small, they are still very important!
only be around others who see your value and care about you. bonus points if they also have npd or are transitioning, then its like mutual aid.
look down on and be critical of others for tiny mistakes. though its better to keep any rude comments in your head.
show little care for anyone other than those outside of your social circle [and yourself!]
strive to have the best of everything. whether it is material goods like expensive foods and electronics, or more abstract things such as the best connections or the best life you can be living right now.
expect others to be thinking about you and to prioritize your needs.
feel angry or upset whenever things dont go the way you wanted/planned them to. also feeling shame for yourself but keeping that fact away from others.
put on your profiles that you have NPD. if you want to specify trans or not is fully up to you, either way is alright.
becoming transtrauma or leaning into cistrauma could help, since NPD can be caused by childhood experiences and trauma.
hope that this helps! let me know if i missed anything since this is my first time doing one of these.
somebeings please send in some asks :< /nf