before you can feel at peace and before the storm in your heart can give way to calm, you have to want to heal. if you do not face whatever it is that still has a hold on you and if you do not consciously decide that you want to be free of it, you can’t fix yourself. healing is a process and there is only one person with the power to decide when it’s time to lay down your weapons, shed your armour and let yourself heal: you.
you have to want to heal / n.j. (via ninasdrafts)










