what if?

My name is Constance, I'm a 20 years old frenchie. I suffer from several mental illnesses and decided to get on the journey to recovery not so long ago. There won't be any triggering things here, only positivity and kindness. It's going to be a long road, but I'll get there.

[gogh-save-the-bees]

Recovery is not about never being sad again or never relapsing again or never struggling again.

Recovery is a mindset. Recovery is changing the way you think so that when you feel sad or relapse or begin to struggle again, you know how to cope with it.

So when we talk about recovery, we’re not talking about being fixed , we’re talking about modifying the way we process our thoughts and ‘failures’ in a healthier way. This way when we have bad periods they don’t consume us.

Recovery is a mindset.

[minuty]

[warm-positivity-deactivated2022]

Keep going because you will recover. Eventually the world won’t seem so horrible, you’ll enjoy things like you used to and have actual hobbies, and you’ll feel excited for your future. You deserve to be here to see it happen.

[lightheartedsuggestion]

Stop being so afraid to be confident. There’s actually a lot of great things about you. Don’t deny those things, embrace them. You’re beautiful and smart and kind and you need to stop punishing yourself for acknowledging it and trying to believe it.

[nerdjpg]

[purplebuddhaquotes]

“There’s no such thing as ruining your life. Life’s a pretty resilient thing, it turns out.”

— Sophie Kinsella

[kyecheng-deactivated20260512]

🏄🏻‍♀️✨

[minuty]

[autoimmuneamy]

“Do you want to talk about it or be distracted from it” is honestly the best thing you can say to me when I say im sad/in pain etc.

[luckytwodollarbill-deactivated2]

this is really good advice to say to anyone who is upset

[haleyincarnate]

Quote by Rainbow Rowell

[jehovahhthickness]

Repeat after me: My self respect will always come before my feelings.

[officialaudreykitching-deactiva]

Know in your heart that you will attract everything that is meant for you.

[minuty]

[daydreams-and-sunshine]

[positivi-bees]

Friendly reminder to take your meds if you haven’t already today, make sure you’ve had enough to drink and eat, straighten your back if you’re slumped over your laptop, and get a little sunlight before it gets dark today! Take care of yourself.

[parentless-suggestions]

to everyone with shitty parents, please hold on. Don’t lose hope. I spent the first 18 years of my life wishing I was dead and the moment I left home my life changed. It gets better. So so much better. You’ve gotta trust me, the worlds worth holding on for. You’ll see amazing things, create beautiful memories and better yet find friends who become your family.

[hotboyproblems]

Anyone else only in their 20s but feel like they are running out of time to get their life together??

[threehoursfromtroy]

Don’t. I felt this way too, in my twenties, but you know what? I began transitioning at 30. I went back to grad school at 32. I’m living my best life, and while I’m a little behind the curve compared to some of my classmates on some things, I’m also so far ahead of them on others. You need follow nobody’s schedule but your own. Life is hard and the world isn’t doing any of us favors. Be kind to yourself, and remember that you still have plenty of time. The only difference between starting now and 5 or 10 years earlier is now you have more experience.

[happilynever-deactivated2019031]

I needed to hear this so badly