Hello, my name is Julia. I'm a stuffer/bloater/ FA. I post feedist related content, but I’m not interested in gaining weight. I enjoy engaging with others, so feel free to ask anything.
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To all the SFW blogs I like and follow from- ignore my account! I sometimes forget I'm looking at fandom stuff on my kink blog. My bad. DAWG PLEASE DONT FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE IM JIST A FATTY WHO LIKES TF2, MLP, ECT OKAY???
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As of June 2025 I had liposuction, Im not nearly as fat as I used to be. I don't need to explain or justify why I did that. It's my body and it made me happy. If you don't like that simply don't engage.
I post short Feedist Fiction, vids and pics and i love taking requests!
I've been seeing feedees and feeders younger than me around, and in general I've been itching to make a post like this for a while now, when I was a baby feeder back then, I made many mistakes that cost me a lot. Please don't be like younger me and prioritize yourself.
• If you're gonna be someone who's gonna post your gaining journey or pictures of yourself at all, don't associate your tumblr account with a personal email, just for safety since there are creeps who have doxxed people before
• When your posts start getting more traffic, especially pics and such. You'll get a shit ton of dms, don't answer them all and don't feel pressured to dm or talk to anyone, a good number of them will be creeps or people who don't respect you, take your time and if you do wish to interact with them, choose wisely, everyone and anyone can be nice at the start of the conversation
• There's a reason why many feeders/feedees (such as me) have their dms closed
• Don't feel bad for blocking someone, if they disrespected you and they're still being an asshole, don't hesitate and don't overexplain yourself
• Be critical, just because this is a fat positive space compared to the outside, doesn't mean there's not fatphobia
• Just because someone might seem a "politically correct person" that seems to stand for what's right, doesn't necessarily translate to respect towards you
• I would suggest that you don't show your face or any identifying tattoos, cover them or photoshop them out if necessary, people have been doxxed this way
• There will be people who will only look out for you because of the free content you provide them, and when you stop giving them that, their communication with you will stop as well, my suggestion would be to not give out free content like that, at least not without knowing them
• There's misogyny in this space and quite a lot at times
• People can and will treat you in dehumanizing ways, your well being and mental health should always come first, take a break from this space if it's needed
These are just some tid bits of knowledge that I have learned from my personal experiences, stuff that feedist friends have told me and things I've seen in the community occur. This kink is fun when you engage it safely and with your own boundaries, darlings, please stay safe out there 💖
Hi! I love the blog, what do you recommend for someone with diabetes history in the family for gaining?
Hi there!
That's a good question. Look, this is something a doctor would best be able to advise about considering diabetes is a medical condition.
How ever my personal advice, is someone who wants to gain needs to be on a caloric surplus for an extended period of time. That dosnt mean they need to go over a dangerous sugar level. Balance is key.
Feeder tip that apparently isn’t “clear” to some people. If a feedee loses weight cause of health, THAT IS OK. If a feedee has self image issues and loses weight, THAT IS OK. If a feedee is struggling financially and loses weight, THAT IS OK. If a feedee accidentally loses weight, THAT IS OK. If a feedee is steady at a weight, THAT IS OK. If a feedee loses weight for a transition, THAT IS OK. If a feedee loses weight for any reason, THAT IS OK. This is their body they live in, stop fucking shaming, guilting, and acting entitled to anything about a body which isn’t yours. Sometimes you have to separate fetish from reality. Honestly I didn’t think this needed to be said but with the treatment I’m seeing in the community constantly maybe it does
Gentle reminder odds are like 90% of the sex workers you follow and jerk off to are perpetually broke and struggling to pay for food and housing. If you appreciate their work, tipping or subbing to their paid sites is literally the best thing u can do. (Short of a million dollar check that is)
launching feedism.neocities.org - an indie web project documenting, archiving, and sharing everything about (and adjacent to) feedism!
hello fellow feedists! so uh… my girlfriend (@doughyfatfox 💕) and I have done A Thing - a fun (and most importantly, ethical kink + fat lib-informed) website that collects and archives everything about feedism! from a community-centred wiki about the kink and the history of feedism + fat admiration, to practical resources for feedists and even cheeky memes, we’re hoping for this to be both a personal + community-driven space to celebrate this wonderful kink of ours 💕.
so what inspired this?
well apart from life being a lil overwhelming, another reason why I’ve been a little inactive on here is because I’ve been inching away from traditional social media and revisiting my love for the old/indie web, a lil passion that me and my girlfriend both share 🥹💕.
another thing the both of us share is that… obviously… we’re feedists. Finding community was what brought us together in the first place, and talking at length about how we’ve discovered and explored this kink throughout our lives has brought us even closer. what the both us (and many others in the community I have spoken to) have come to realise is that - finding community and resources surrounding feedism is hard.
from examining what this kink really is and what it means for us, working through shame and internalised fatphobia, navigating what it means to practice feedism ethically and in alignment with fat liberation, and of course, the fun stuff of actually practicing it, of building our own relationship with pleasure and hedonism. to answer these questions often requires many great resources that are scattered all over the place. every time I encounter a Cool Feedist Thing I’ve always thought - damn I wish I had a place to store, categorise and even talk about it in a way that doesn’t get lost in my blog (shh, I know tagging is a thing, it’s not organised enough for me!!!) amidst tighter cens*rship.
so here we are! after about a week of combining our coding, art (especially @doughyfatfox’s, look at our cute background!! 🤩) and writing skills, our site is live!
NOTE: It is still a huge work in progress, and I think it always will be. we want the site to continuously grow 👀 as our community grows, as our collective history gets richer.
what do we have right now?
an entire about page on feedism! (still a wip)
essential feedism resources (e.g., kink jars, RACK worksheet), mostly stuff me and @doughyfatfox used/are using as we explore this kink together
feedist and feedism-adjacent memes, credits to @doughyfatfox’s elite collection
a page about fat liberation (also a wip)
what are we working on?
the whole website essentially 😅. It’s still quite a big wip, but I think we do already have quite a cool selection of stuff on there, enough that we hope it’ll be a fun browse!
happy browsing! 🍩 and stay tuned for @doughyfatfox’s reblog for more info, especially if you’d like to contribute to the site!
