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This post was shared in our Psych2Go Facebook Group by Izze Francesca Eshman. What do you guys think of it?

[psych-facts]

Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.

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[lifeisthefight-deactivated20190]

You fell in love with my flowers but not with my roots, so when Autumn arrived you didn’t know what to do.

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25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• Choose your battles. There are things you won’t be able to convince him of.

• Research sex; watch porn; experiment. Know your limits, know what you’re willing to try.

• Expand your mind - listen to podcasts in your car, learn a second language (like French, Italian or Chinese) and research a few key topics that interest you so that you always have something to talk about.

• Practice good penmanship, always.

• Go to yoga classes which will help you centre your mind, be conscious of your posture and maintain your physique. Many cities have free classes if you’re willing to look.

• Text in full sentences, with accurate grammar.

• Learn how to cook a few ‘fancy’ meals well. Should you spend the night at his house, be prepared to cook one without making a fuss.

• If you’re a smoker, keep gum and perfume on you at all times. Buy a decent lighter, one that you have to refill with lighter fluid. Never light your own cigarettes - pull your lighter out, put your cigarette in your mouth and look at him expectantly.

• Swear less. People will be shocked when you do swear if it’s a rare occurrence.

• Look in the mirror every morning and identify one thing that you love about yourself and your appearance. Throughout the day, remind yourself of this thing.

• Be consciously aware of how fast you’re speaking. Take a second before you speak to collect your thoughts and consider your phrasing.

• Know good dinner etiquette.

• Travel whenever you can, even if it’s only to cities adjacent to yours. 

• On dates, go to the bathroom and take a moment to freshen up your makeup, gather yourself and take a deep breath.

• Learn how to mix a few basic cocktails like martinis, Manhattans and mojitos.

• Know this sentence structure: “I understand that _____, is that right?” People want to feel they’re being heard, first and foremost. For example, “I understand you’re upset that I can’t be available short notice. Is that right?” Follow up with: “Let’s work together on a solution.”

• Remain calm, no matter what.

• Learn a sport - tennis, golf, it doesn’t matter.

• Spend time alone; be independent. When you are comfortable with your own company, you will settle for nothing less than good company.

• Build a list of goals for yourself, long and short term. Know them inside out.

• Watch classic movies: Sabrina, All About Eve, Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Study the starlets and pick characteristics, gestures and the like that you can emulate in your own actions.

• Learn to give a good head rub, back massage, etc.

• Subscribe to newsletters for local galleries, art cinemas, fine dining restaurants, etc. Email your SD with suggestions of things that you come across which you think he might like. Don’t be afraid to make the effort, as long as you’re not the only one who is.

• Make reading the newspaper part of your daily ritual. Do the crossword, too.

• Read more - The Life of O, The Awakening, A Handmaid’s Tale, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, The Optimist’s Daughter, Lolita. Reading will become a part of your daily meditation.

• Be punctual, authentic and consistent.

[tuffinmuffin89]

#bass #idonnowhy #nickjonas #jealous #jelly #jellyschool #donkindonutsauroracolorado

[janefriedman]

A Map to Get Out of Writer’s Block via NY Book Editors

[lzy-monkey]

5 Interesting Summer Reads

1)  Top 22 Most Epic Places To Go Swimming This Summer!

2)  12 Strangest Things You Wouldn’t Expect To Find Underwater

3)  This “UFO” Looking Resort Was Abandoned For The Spookiest Reason

4)  The 33 Other Worldly Places On Earth

5)  10 Weird Facts About Dreams Everyone Should Know About

[kushandwizdom]

You don’t truly want it if you’re not willing to give up weekends to get it. Not willing to put in more work than the person next to you

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Good Vibes HERE

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[fuckyeahsexeducation]

List of Non-sexual forms of intimacy

[incapableofgivingup]

watchingtv/movies together

going to events together like carnivals, festivals etc.

going on dates like to the movies or shopping

sharing secrets

hugs

sharing drinks

phone calls

talking

touching noses

cuddling

philosophical discussions

hand holding

sharing jokes

sharing smiles

laying your head on someone’s shoulder

linking arms

massages

tickling

playing with hair

scratching backs

tracing designs on arms

talking about the future

a hand written note

moving your head to their chest and listening to their heartbeat.

singing together or playing instruments together

dancing

feeding each other

drawing/writing on one another

brushing your partners hair

sharing food

sitting knee to knee across from each other

doing beauty treatments like facials or manicures, hairdying or face masks

reading books together

take care of your partner when sick

talking about the relationship (how I feel with you, How I feel w/this relationship)

cooking together

head-scratches

hugging

discussions about yourselves (like flaws, shortcomings, passions,stuff)

being physically/emotionally vulnerable

just sleeping together,

an actual open honest conversation

bathing and taking care of hygiene together

butterfly kisses

nuzzling

telling on-the-fly stories

meditating or sharing spirituality

grooming

sharing hobbies

studding

sharing personal stories

summoning Satan

seeing each other without make-up or all dressed up

moral support for major events

crying, sharing emotions, comforting each other

listening to someones heartbeat or breathing

camping/hiking

sleepovers

being with animals together

going on trips together

sharing clothes/jewelry/personal items

sharing online social media

cleaning someone else’s living space

going with them to a doctor/therapist

doing art together

kissing different body parts

making out

volunteer together

work together

talking about wants and desires

experience new things together

do an extracurricular together

play games together

play sports together

walking together

being respectful and kind to one another (helping them do things,open doors for them etc.)

sharing responsibilities (chores, babysitting etc.)

giving each other presents, special things from the heart

talking about and respecting each others boundaries

public displays of affection

grooming in front of each other

wrestling or play fighting

texting/talking online

looking in each other’s eyes

complimenting each other

falling asleep over skype or chat

making faces at each other

sky watching

write poetry

inside jokes

respect each other

tell them how you feel about them

get to know each other better (playing 20 questions)

go for a ride together

close your eyes and memorise each others faces with your fingers

walk arm in arm

make a playlist together

make up your own words or slang

go out to eat

list each other’s best features

bring your faces close without touching and feel each other breath

go shopping together

throw a party or other event together

leave love notes

exercise together

exchange something meaningful

try to have a whole conversation with only eye contact and facial expressions

sit back to back and feel each other’s heartbeat

learn their favorite food and make it

run errands together

look at photos together

take photos together

go people watch

have a staring contest

learn something new together

take turns leading each other on a nature walk blindfolded

get to know each others family and friends

draw or sculpt each other

paint each other’s bodies

play with kids together

practicing a skill together

sharing food

being in comfortable clothes together

waving goodbye

being comfortable with each other’s bodily functions

any others you can think of?

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For aces everywhere!

[electric-sheep-music]

Hold on a fucking second… Summoning Satan?

[fuckyeahsexeducation]

I actually had to go back to my original post because I was like “I’m pretty sure I did not put summoning satan on that list”, someone at some point took out “shaving” and put in “summoning satan”

whatever floats your boat?

Also, I’m really pleased to see this post take off.

[tuffinmuffin89]

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[kindaskimpy]

Chris Pratt on the cover of the latest issue of GQ.

[fitnika]

i have quite a large crush on him 

[madisonhshapiro]

[tuffinmuffin89]

#Youngandbeautiful #lanadelrey #piano

[tuffinmuffin89]

#youngandbeautiful #piano #lanadelrey

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