Twinflame advice for those in seperation. Please share, someone needs this
So I had a conversation with someone who thinks they may have possibly found their twin. She's got all the flags for it, and she feels this overwhelming desire to settle down with this gentleman. Problem is, he's the proverbial rolling stone, his occupation has him on the road, traveling from City to city, and he has been honest in telling her he has multiple partners in various places. My first reaction to this was that her love would be better spent on someone who was seeking the same type of relationship, and wasn't opposed to taking things seriously. We all deserve to be loved in the kinda way where when the connection is real you put that first, changing patterns and habits to accommodate your partners wants and desires. A loyal woman is a thing of immense value, and I'd call the gentleman in the audience to step up and recognize that, and give it the respect it deserves.
That's a lady of class. So my initial reaction to her was to cut him loose, to keep looking, but it seems she's too taken with him to consider that, even if she knows she should. As a twin I understand that. It's engrained in us. Even if it doesn't make sense, we can't let that go. It feels more important then breathing. Some of you are probably about to leave a comment about karmic relationships, soulmates all this, and i understand all that of course, but I can't say whether or not they're tf or kr or sm,so I'm inclined to leave that be. she has to decide that for herself, what I will say, is if this is her tf and he's the runner and she's the chaser, she ultimately has to do something counter intuitive, and emotionally detach. To release all expectations and desires.
Without getting all... Etheric about, love and light and inner peace and acceptance, (not that there's anything wrong with that, if you achieve that Nirvana peaceful acceptance good for you, but then you probably don't need my advice) for those of us existing in a grounded physical plane that want a formal relationship with that person, it's absolutely devastating. It breaks your heart. It breaks you. You start to crack, start to crumble away at the edges wondering what you're doing wrong, why they wouldn't stay, why you aren't good enough. It hurts, and those feeling are real and valid. There's nothing wrong with being hurt by that rejection. You aren't less of a twin for having feelings. It's fucking normal.
So real talk advice? Meditate. As often as you can. There's something really important to remember, and when it hurts like you can't breathe, this one thing may save you, you're not another person. They are you. You are them. They could run from you to another Galaxy, and you'd still be just as connected. The spiritual interconnectivity supercedes the physical. It just does, that's the physics of it. The quantum entanglement. The pure science, you are them.. the seperation Is an illusion native only to the third dimensional plane, and if you'll meditate on the reg, and work on that, and strengthen your third eye and crown and heart, you'll FEEL that. You'll feel them, and know it. It may not be the same as having them in your arms, but it'll take the edge off and make it easier to face the day. You're going to be okay. Take a nap deep breath. Try to practice active gratitude for every moment, however imperfect. Take time for self care, do something fun. Take yourself on a date. Your twin will ALWAYS be with you. Even if they don't want to be, they are. Don't be afraid to smile on your own. Believe it or not, your inner peace, your inner happiness is like a fucking magnet. They'll be drawn back to you like a moth to flame. They won't even know why, without you saying a word they'll start thinking about you. You have to trust it. It works, really it does.
