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y'all need to relearn the word erratic and stop using schizophrenic/bipolar/psychotic as a replacement
y'all need to relearn the word particular and stop using ocd as a replacement
People need to relearn the word "egocentric" and stop using narcissist/narc as a replacement.
People need to relearn the word "impulse" and stop using "intrusive thought" as a replacement
hey guysŲ how can i get my spark back?
Itās epilepsy awareness month and Iām seeing people tagging stuff incorrectly so a reminder: the epilepsy tag is a tag for the epilepsy community to talk about having epilepsy. You are endangering people by tagging your videos and gifs that contain flashing lights with epilepsy. Also, anything with the word epilepsy in it appears in the tag search so please also avoid tags like epilepsy warning. Just tag with flashing lights.
I will never say that people who fetishize fat people or trans people are like universally harmless but acting as though the problem is with a specific inherently harmful type of person rather than a set of harmful behaviors does the entire conversation around these desire politics a huge injustice. is the root of the problem and myriad abuses really that Deviant People Want Them too much, or are you, personally, grossed out by stigmatized bodies and call any open intentional attraction to them harmful because you donāt want to have to see it? can we acknowledge that finding people attractive, or even actively preferring and pursuing people like them over others, is not some kind of red flag or mark of sin?
so my best friendās grandfather died yesterday and sheās doing. well. maybe not okay but sheās there
Keeping her abreast
As a lesbian i will always relate more to trans women than cishet women. Made to feel disgusting and predatory in women's spaces? Check. Berated and mocked for our relation to sexuality and womanhood? Check. Hated for our "deviancy from the norm"? Check. Every single essay about womanhood by a trans woman--and especially, especially by trans wlw--has spoken more to me than anything written by a cis straight woman ever could. T*rfs can take that to the bank.
also, may I add because it's not just the negative stuff. there's so much positive connection:
gender euphoria experiences with a self determined approach to womanhood, attraction and sexuality
celebration of bodies beyond the norm
creating our own culture of appreciating complex and intertwined expressions of gender and sexuality
destigmatization and newfound respect of and for our bodies
true sisterhood based on choice not force
the inherent revolutionary nature of our existence and our love and community
creating space for exploration of pleasure and identity
the hunting wives is the definition of "i support lesbian rights and lesbian wrongs"
when i say āgirlā randomly as an interjection iām speaking to the omnipresent all knowing being of Girl. asking her for mercy. taking girlās name in vain
"youd do numbers on tumblr" girl i am on tumblr and the numbers? 4
sapphics do yourself a favour and go watch the hunting wives and i mean donāt walk runnnnnnn!
to posit that someone who begins transition (changing medically, socially, whatever) and then decides that they are unhappy with their new specific presentation, reception, body, &c. and chooses to make new changes in light of that realisation is "detrans/detransitioned" implies a 'one way only' theory of transition--that there a hegemonic, ur-body that one can progress further from or closer to against which all presentations are measured--& that there is always a potential 'reversion' to 'normal' within every transition that consists of bringing your presentation and body in line with what is expected from your assigned sex at birth, which is fundamentally different to making these changes in any other direction because it presents some sort of return (retvrn, perhaps!)
some people seem to derive a positive motivation from their desire to travel when there's like genuine curiosity about the world or particularly specific places and cultures but at the same time a vacuous wanderlust seems to be behind so much evil in this world. the cycle of working some evil and/or nothing job in order to make enough to vacation in some imperialised nation or even worse to get some evil government job that allows you to travel as part of it. I'm thinking of that one article about ICE agents.
I do sort of think the way drag queen characters are used in a lot of Queer Media is really OFF, in a similar way to how it would be OFF if your diverse cast of characters included Sproingo the Clown, who's a clown 100% of the time, always fully in character as the clown, and this is just not remarked upon by anyone, as if Clown is a distinct type of person and not a performance put on by the actual real person who's playing the role
And also Sproingo was treated as a preferable substitute for like, an actual minority demographic
Ah, Trans Representation:
Jumpscare! That hot chick had a cock! This incident is about how everyone except her feels about it.
This is Fern, everyone exclusively refers to them with they/them pronouns, it will never be elaborated upon narratively, they are a static character outside the main cast
Tee hee, I'm an anime girl who's actually a BOY. Have I mentioned I'm a boy today?
Critically acclaimed subplot where a trans man self actualises and then does nothing else for the entire rest of the series. Everyone has long serious talks about his identity in vague terms that are perfectly useless for anyone to reflect on themselves or relate to him in any way whatsoever.
Critically acclaimed story about the tragedy of a 40-year-old trans woman who's so, so brave. Just so incredibly brave. The cis man playing her sacrificed so much of his dignity for this role where he put on a wig and said "respect my choice to live my truth".
Today on Copaganda we ask the important question: Is the murdered sex worker in the wrong sometimes? It's complicated, because penis.
This entire story is a metaphor for transness but somehow not a single trans woman had creative input on it, so we're sitting here awkwardly trying to find a way to bring up how That scene sort of undermined the message of tolerance and inclusion. Not one character has literally transed their gender
something that made me sit down and stare at my wall for an hour