I started my blog, Abysitter.com, 10 years ago last month.
I’ve talked about the reason I started my own blog many times over the years. It was because the ABDL websites popular back then all seemed to be going out of business. Remember DPF.com? Remember? Aby.com? Remember Diaperspace? Remember RUPadded? Probably not - and some of y’all aren’t even old enough to have been around for the first one lol. Anyway, they’re all websites that had gone out before I began my own blog, or were rumored to be going out at the time I started. (Sure enough… all gone).
I’d made so many friendships and connections on those websites in those years, and the idea that I might lose them all because a server couldn’t be kept online was disheartening, to say the least. So I spent $20 and reserved the domain Abysitter.com, and then pointed it to a blank Blogger.com site, and began blogging. At the very least I figured if websites went down, at least a few people might remember the domain and come and find me when our connection went dark. Ten years and more than a million views later, it’s become much more than a mere link!
Now word has come out that Tumblr will be blocking out ‘adult content’. None of us know, yet, whether that will include our content - but we all know people who have already had their Tumblr blogs deleted, so… just in case we are forced to say goodbye to each other here, I wanted to be damn sure that I gave you my main link, and all of the other ones, too.
I’m less active on most of these than I am on my main blog and my Tumblr, but it sounds like that may be changing soon. Anyway, if you’re on the following platforms, please please please connect with me there - I don’t want to . And if you’re not, consider checking them out, just in case we need them…
Abysitter.com is my main blog.
It’s where I launched my ABDL survey from, and where all of my contests are hosted. You’ll find stories I’ve written through the years, and some commentary on the ABDL community, among other things.
You’ll also see a ton of Q&A’s and a lot of guest entries from members of the community. Before everyone could have their own Tumblr blog, Abysitter.com gave people a place to have all of their pictures featured in one place. Use the sidebar to go back to 2008, 2009, 2010 and you’ll see some of the folks who have big Tumblr accounts now in some of their first posts on the internet.
ALL ARE WELCOME, STILL - so if you’d like to do a Q&A, write a story, or send me some pics - as always, 18+ - please do! Just click ‘email me’ from the blog, or message me here!
And be sure to check out the right sidebar on my blog, where you can sign up for my mailing list, or follow me if you’re on the Google platform, among other things. Hope to see you there… Abysitter.com
FetLife is an awesome website for making local connections, with joinable groups for many areas - and probably your area - as well as a great messaging feature that actually works. Cons include no iPhone app, but that’s not unusual. I’m not particularly active there, but it looks like that’ll be changing. If you’re already on Fetlife, follow or friend me. If you’re not, consider joining. Fetlife.com | Luvs Boat Group Page
Diaper-Bois has been around for 15+ years. It’s a decent place to check out photos and videos - the latter requiring a paid membership - and it has a local search feature, and decent messaging features, too. No apps, like most of the others, and I think it has way more of the ‘small talk’ and ‘change my poo poo dipey?’ messages then others. Still, good platform. Join. Diaper-Bois.com
I feel like Twitter may become the next platform for ABDL. They don’t allow hardcore porn, but most of our content seems to be acceptable - I’ve been tweeting for years and have yet to have content deleted. It’s not as rich as Tumblr - text posts are limited, for example - but folks who want to fit more text in just post pictures of their notes in the Notes app and sneak stories in. Twitter has, in the past few years, allowed for longer DM’s and more photos in posts, so it may be the closest thing to Tumblr that we have. Follow me! Twitter.com/abysitter
ABDL FACEBOOK (& VANILLA FACEBOOK)
I have a vanilla Facebook - I give that link out to people I get to know really well. For my ABDL stuff, I have an ABDL profile on that platform. I’m not a huge fan of Facebook for ABDL stuff, since it’s rife will stolen pictures, there are underage folks abound, and it’s very poorly moderated. Still, if you have an ABDL profile there, I encourage you to friend me. ABDL Facebook
Are we friends on Facebook with our vanilla profiles? If so, message me there and ask me about the Facebook ABDL ‘secret groups’ - they’re amazing, filled with awesome guys who are so supportive of each other. They’re invite only. If we’re not already friends on Facebook but we’ve talked a lot here, message me here with your profile link, and maybe I’ll add you up.
My mailing list has nearly 1,000 followers. I’m not really active - I don’t send a ton of mail, although that number jumps up during contests, surveys, and other events. I try to send at least a few a year, so if that interests you at all, click the link and join the list! Mailing List
Note: you can also join the mailing list from my blog.
I’m not on Instagram anymore, and I can’t think of any other websites that I’ve been using at the moment, but I’d love to hear the ones that y’all use. Please comment below with suggestions and/or your own links, or message me with the same.
Definitely want to keep these connections going. This platform has been nothing short of amazing for our community, and we owe Tumblr a huge, huge thank you. In the meantime, let’s connect up before the opportunity is no longer available to us. Click the links above, or comment your links below.
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