questions ->
why this project? why this medium (source code to rug), what is the meaning in that re: digital, grief, labour, learning a new language, new skill.
what does it mean to make something digital that cannot be shared publicly in the way we're now used to sharing?
in memoriam posts/"really missing you today" posts/tribute pages/forever online/last seen/tagged photos
not getting into the territory of "grieving digitally is bad" but rather grief is a language we don't understand/people can see it but it is also kept private/grief takes work to feel and understand/we can be met by grief at the door/when we log on/when we open messages/we can use grief/we can make grief/we can show our work and be vulnerable/we learn grief/we consume others' grief daily/we decode and recode grief to understand it/we share it with others by publishing it digitally/

















