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ιt/ιt᥉, 22ᥡ | "...ᥲᥒ ᥲᥒgᥱᥣ b᥆rᥒ t᥆ fᥲᥣᥣ fr᥆꧑ grᥲᥴᥱ" (dr᥆ρ dᥱᥲd bᥡ fᥱᥲr ᥴᥙᥣt) ᥲ g᥆th ᥒᥲrᥴ ιᥒ ᥲᥒ ᥲᥒgᥱᥣ ᥲᥱ᥉thᥱtιᥴ 🕯️

[unholy-angel]

ᥫ᭡ Hi! I'm Nastri and this is my NPD side blog. ᥫ᭡

22y | it/its | loveless aro | artist

I'm self-centered, a little delusional and i have low empathy, but I'm trying my best to be kind with people. I love postpunk, new wave and visual kei, despite my white coded blog i'm goth with a fascination for angels and morbid things.

⚠︎ Don't try to argue with me or criticize me (even with good intent), i take things personally and i will be cruel in response (if i don't just block you lol).

[92fs]

Apologizing with ASPD and NPD is actually so fucked up, like I can’t express how difficult it is to explain to someone that I’m only apologizing after I was told what exactly hurt them not because the apology is fake, but because I have no comprehension of empathy and I do not feel emotions the way they do. 

[autopsyfreak]

‘the evil, abusive cluster b’s are trying to invade the ptsd and cptsd communities.’

or maybe cluster b personality disorders tend to come from a place of extreme trauma, which therefore means that a lot of people with these disorders may also have ptsd or cptsd.

it’s really not that hard to understand.

[autopsyfreak]

‘ordinary’ flirting doesn’t work on me.

tell me how obsessed you are with me.

tell me how you worship the ground i walk on.

tell me how i matter more to you than anyone else in this world.

tell me the things you’d do just to be with me.

if you don’t stroke my ego or share my obsessive nature then you have no value to me.

[psychopathicfreak]

I hate going through cluster B tags sometimes, I don’t need some bitch to tell me I’m “ valid ” . I know that . I also don’t really care whether or not a stranger thinks I’m morally upstanding . . . Now, where are my silly little relatable posts ?

[npd-narrator]

person: i love cats

also person: i hate narcissists

hypocrisy at its finest...

[deceiver-of-god]

Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd + low empathy culture is "i'm sorry but i don't know what to say. i have no intention of hurting you with my indifference, i just don't feel anything. i can fabricate some answer and rely on cognitive empathy, but it'll only take me so far. i don't know how to comfort you, nor i want to bc honestly i can't really see past my own nose sometimes when it comes to feelings. i just don't feel anything, i am really, really sorry"

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[yaoiboypussy]

cis women do not feel safe around you i promise lol do you know how many cis women plan on voting for trump this time because they cant stand people like you

BWHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA

[yaoiboypussy]

Thisss I think this is something more people need to just realize.

There’s such a push for trans people to make themselves ‘safe’ or ‘palatable’ for cis women.

Trans men can’t be too masculine bc it makes cis women ‘uncomfortable’. Trans women can’t use women’s spaces bc it makes cis women ‘feel unsafe’. Trans men can’t use gender neutral langue for reproductive/menstrual care bc cis women feel ‘uncomfortable’ with it. Trans women can’t call themselves lesbians bc cis women ‘dont feel safe’ .

Like who cares. Cis women aren’t the center of the universe. And there’s nothing I can do to make cis women feel ‘safe’ around me without being a doormat they can walk all over. Me just existing as a trans man who is open about it and doesn’t let them misgender me makes them ‘uncomfortable’ so I’ve decided to just not care what cis women think about me.

[genderkoolaid]

Its transphobic security theater. Being safe isn't what matters, feeling safe is. And it's only (White) cis women's feelings that matter because their victimhood justifies patriarchal violence against queer people & people of color.

[aura-bug]

barely even had to scroll down for this one lol

anyways daily reminder that pleasing a narcissist is NOT thankless. it is very very very much appreciated and basically needed for us to survive, so if you have friends with NPD make sure to tell them they’re doing a good job <33

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd culture is getting upset when someone higher up on your hierarchy goes on a date with someone way further down bc nooooo you’re better than that, don’t get in a relationship with them or my mental rank of you is gonna drop :(

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

NPD culture is this image

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[indeosperamus]

(I’m working on it)

[familiarrplace]

[smartestgirluknow-deactivated20]

narcs with their own trauma

[syko-raccoon]

Narc bingo i made ! + my results. Tried to include both ones on the “higher” parts of the spectrum as well as the “lower” ones

[unholy-angel]

🎉🎉🎉🎉

[secretary-stars]

Inspired by @arrgh-whatever's post on helping ppl with BPD

Edit bc I forgot to add this: Being vulnerable means smth different for different ppl, something that could read as being vulnerable to you can read as just another Tuesday for someone else