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Being a femme fatale isn’t healthy for wounded femmes, as it’ll put you in a loop of constantly seeking external validation and feeling worthless without it. Heal yourself first.

dreamgirlvibes

A blessed girl, a grateful girl

kangarookawaii

which of these dating dealbreakers 🚩🚩 would make you shove breadsticks in your purse

into guns

never had a passport

doesn’t like dogs

doesn’t like cats

picky eater

Voting ended onFeb 11, 2023

kangarookawaii

I was fully expecting to read braindead american takes on guns after posting this but i was not expecting those very same people to say that not liking cats is suggestive of a proclivity towards violence while owning guns is … not?

yuki-the-gatekeepy

If this is against me, then I can fully explain my position here:

I am pro 2nd amendment. There's nothing wrong with liking and owning guns. I think that while women shouldn't even HAVE to use it against the males who oppress us and attack us, the reality of it is that most women will be harmed in a way that only a male can harm us.

Until we reach the ideal of being in a female separatist society and have our own militia that we can utilize sparingly against the oppressive government forces and any male intruders, I find it's best to have ample protection against these forces now in case there are women who are unable to or do not wish to gain the physical strength to take down men by force.

As for disliking cats, it's a given. The people in my life who hated cats the most were the same ones who condoned and even engaged in abusive behaviors toward me. My family. Why? They find that cats are harder to maintain control. Dogs can be trained more easily due to their nature, while cats tend to be aloof but willing to express affection with more trust gained. It's a given. I didn't say they're more likely to be violent per se, but I did say that these people who hate cats tend to be the types of people who DEMAND control and/or will not take consent into account. Whilst I do believe correlation is not causation, I would rather be into guns with a better understanding of protecting the women in my life and of the world from abusive maniacs than to allow them to directly act like my future owning a cat will always piss them off in some way.

If this is a "braindead" take, so be it. There's always exceptions (gun zealots and allergic to cats) and this is what I was trying to outline in my take: always be wary of those who want to abuse you in any way. It never immediately starts with responsible gun ownership. It starts with these little behaviors such as vehemently hating cats and oppressed people that will lead to horrible actions. I am pro gun to protect my future female lover and cats from abusers.

kangarookawaii

you know when i want to play pretend that i am a big hero with a gun i just play video games. because here in the real world you’re actually more likely to get you and your loved ones hurt/killed when you have a gun. good luck with that tho.

unholydelights

👆🏽 tell me you're white and trust the state monopoly on violence while disavowing people like Malcolm X without telling me

#cold takes tbh

jaw8jaw

"You've got to invest in the world, you've got to read, you've got to go to art galleries, you've got to find out the names of plants. You've got to start to love the world and know about the whole genius of the human race. We're amazing people." - Vivienne Westwood

driedrosy

Don't sabotage your identity trying to name it. Let it be undefined, permeable, mixed, peculiar, unapologetically authentic. Be in peace with being unprecedented, with not fitting anywhere, with being adrift. Before flight, there's a free fall.

lux-13

#fashion

sayhoneysiren

embracing your dark feminine energy is basically saying fuck being obedient. feminines have been taught for so long to hide away, cover up, be silent, banish witchcraft, ignore your intuition, stop creating, be less selfish, be thoughtless.

but the dark feminine energy is about embracing the forbidden and not giving a fuck about being ‘good’ in the eyes of others.

it’s embracing your naked body. it’s indulging in your pleasures without guilt. its speaking your mind with boldness. it’s trusting and following your gut, even when others may think you’re dumb. it’s saying no. it’s setting clear boundaries. it’s protecting your energy from manipulation and harm.

the dark feminine energy is a force that is cunning, unpredictable, wild, magnetic, intuitive, pleasure seeking and limitless. it is both a creator and a destroyer. it is god.

don’t be afraid of your dark feminine power or influence because others are intimidated by it. ignore those who deem you ‘bad’ and continue to own your divine power.

follow @succulentsiren for more dark feminine energy posts♠️

#dark feminine

onluxe

ONLUXE 👠✨

femme-dor

𝑀𝓊𝓈𝑒𝓊𝓂 𝒟𝒶𝓉𝑒𝓈, 𝐹𝒶𝓃𝒸𝓎 𝒫𝓁𝒶𝓉𝑒𝓈, 𝐻𝒾𝑔𝒽 𝑅𝒾𝓈𝑒 𝒮𝓊𝒾𝓉𝑒𝓈, 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐸𝓁𝑒𝑔𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝒯𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓉𝓈✨

thebeiges

#fashion

malusokay

A happier life in 2023

Health

Nourish your body properly, drink enough water, eat your greens, and take vitamins.

Don't punish yourself if you're having a bad day, are upset, or had something negative happen in your life, dont take it out on your body by depriving yourself of your daily needs.

Aim to become the healthiest version of yourself. Exercise and eat to feel your best, focus on your education, read, and be social.

Try therapy. Talking to someone helps you organize your thoughts, especially if you struggle with overthinking or anxiety. It's 2023; there is no shame in asking for help!! <3

80/20 rule. Find balance in your diet and lifestyle.

Mindset

Treat yourself with care and love. You deserve to feel good; start by appreciating yourself more and aim to feel comfortable within yourself.

Stop comparing yourself, your life and your accomplishments to others. Everyone has a different back story, don't compare your beginning to someone else's middle.

Ignoring negativity. Maybe delusion truly is the key to happiness. Remember the brightest moments, write them down and keep them close to your heart. :)

Smile at people. If you start sending good vibes, they will eventually come back to you.

Be kind. Small acts of kindness can truly mean the world. <3

Lifestyle

Spent more time in the sun. Try reading, studying, or exercising outside when it's sunny!

Be organized. Buy a planner, try notion, start using your calendar more. Staying organized is a great way to reduce stress in your day-to-day life!

Small daily comforts, a nice perfume, your favourite tea or coffee... simple small things that you can look forward to every day <3

Establish routines. Getting up earlier, open your curtains, some simple stretches, having daily routines can be so relaxing and fun!

Save money not just for emergencies but also to treat yourself! Set yourself saving goals for things that you've been wishing for :)

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

#notes #pretty much all my goals for 2023

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aturinfortheworse

I've been thinking about how, when you're little, you're surrounded by adults who adore you, who you're never going to remember.

I don't mean like your parents and stuff, but like — I work in after school care, and I'm forever meeting five and six year olds who seem like the most incredible people on earth. Kids who painstakingly explain the rules of handball, kids who ask me to help them colour in, kids who feel really deeply wounded by a classmate's behaviour, just an endless stream of them.

Or like my friends' kids who I've babysat once or twice. A kid who played with me in a creek, a kid whose mannerisms are etched in my mind. Cousins' babies who I held for a while. Even just stranger's babies in shops who stare at me the way babies do.

One of my best friends has an online friend who's recently had a baby, and he tells me - someone who doesn't know the friend's name even - about that baby having their first bath. Because that's the kind of love and excitement that little children inspire.

None of these children will remember me.

I literally don't have a greater point here, it's just blowing my mind to think about how much love is directed towards people who can't remember any of us. They can maybe, I guess, if everything goes well, remember the feeling of safety that ought to go with that love.

aturinfortheworse

My cousin had a baby a while back and I visited her, recently, and she had a nap while I ended up holding the baby. This like, two month old baby. She can't even smile yet. I do not have a lot of experience with infants - my mum had to show me how to hold the baby, and she cried a fair bit until we found a system that worked.

And then she slept in my arms, resting on my chest, for two or three hours.

It was at least an hour before I even thought about doing something else. Holding a sleeping baby, it turns out, can be a completely absorbing activity, even if you have ADHD. (Baby also enjoys the inherent leg-bouncing that comes with the ADHD.)

Now I can't stop thinking about how when that kid is five or six she's gonna run into me at Christmas lunch or some such event and - even if I see her on every holiday between now and then - I will basically be a stranger to her. But to me she will have the starring role in a memory I'm gonna treasure probably forever.

I can't stop thinking about all the aunts and uncles and family friends and second cousins once removed that I was routinely introduced to at Christmas lunches or weddings or funerals, who would say "You're so tall! Has it been that long? You probably don't remember me haha."

and how im gonna be saying the exact same thing very soon