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Navigating death
Last night the most terrible thing happened to you and I have no clue who you even are!
This tragic event happened when two cars bumped into each other on the high way. The one car spun around and came to an abrupt stop as it hit a tree; the other car flipped over and over and landed on its roof on the opposite side of the road.
My son was close behind and stopped to help. There were many kind, clear thinking people who stopped. They managed to turn the car, with your loved one in, back onto its wheels and proceeded to break the back window in order to get him out. My son knelt down at the door as he could see that the man inside would fall out once the door was opened. The driver did slip out of his vehicle into my sons arms. My son did what he could to help and even after your loved one stopped breathing he proceeded with CPR until the ambulance arrived.
Sadly your loved one’s injuries were too great and he passed on. He did not suffer before the time came.
This morning as I washed my sons clothes, drenched in blood, and I saw the blood fill the basin, my heart broke. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could hold you today as my son held your son/father/brother/uncle/husband last night.
My son is kind and compassionate and I wish that I could tell you face to face that your loved one passed on in the arms of a very caring young man.
So to a family who is grieving today, a family I will most probably never meet. I am crying with you, and I am so sorry that this tragedy has struck your family.
Navigating kindness
A little, drunk, toothless man stood back and allowed me to go in front of him to pay for my bread at the Pick n Pay the other day. He gave me the cutest grin and this got me thinking as to how kind and considerate am I as a sober person.
Be kind to someone today, it is not going to cost you anything and if it does so what there is always someone with less than what you have.
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Click here to read the full post: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/truth-trust-crap-how-jack-welch-looks-leadership-today-daniel-roth Former CEO of GE Jack Welch…
By definition a leader is someone who can foresee a possible future. Leaders usually then equip people with the strategy and motivation to achieve that future. This is why people who speak about leadership talk so much about the capacity to focus on the (possible) future. It really is that important. Without it, you're not a leader; you're a "status quo-er." You're a survivalist, a maintenance-keeper. This kind of person isn't necessarily bad. In fact, the person who takes care of the way "things are" and maintains the status quo is called a steward. This role isn't worthless or bad at all. It's just that they're not leaders. Not at all. Why? Because they're not focused on the future. And there is one thing that leaders must be able to do in order to focus on the future: Let go of the past as soon as it gets in the way. If you, as a leader, can’t let go of “the way it used to be” or “the way it worked last year,” then you will almost certainly ruin your organization. You will. Embrace that fact. Let that sink in. Not being able to let go of anything that gets in the way of your projected future is one of the most devastating things a leader can do. Why? Because the world around you is changing right now. The future is on its way whether you're prepared for it or not. A popular expression used among certain leaders is "healthy things grow." As usual, these aphorisms are always somewhat true, but in their application, must be nuanced. This is why I don't use them. You have nuance them so much that it's useless to begin with. But, whatever. Let's think about how growth works in living things. . .say, plants. It's amazing how it relates to healthy leadership. First of all, nearly every living thing has a genetic limit. It's limited by DNA. Grass doesn't grow to the moon. Elephants don't grow to the size of apartment buildings. My stomach doesn't grow as big as. . . well, I'm working on it. So, the assumption that "healthy things grow" means that they must keep on growing indefinitely is simply false. This is exactly true with organizations. They don't grow forever. It's certainly possible that yours can grow more than it is right now. I don't know. But, eventually, it will reach its limit. Your organization won't grow forever. It will have a stopping point. Hopefully, that stopping point is much farther away than you fear. **Your organization might be extremely healthy and strong, but not expanding in a significant way. It doesn't mean you're a failure or horrible leader. It might just mean that you've reached your "genetic limit." This means you can't equate "healthy" with "growing in numbers." Has your organization reached that limit? If not, get to work "growing" it. Otherwise, increase the quality of what you offer or begin offering other services. Second, nearly all living organisms excise parts of themselves in order to grow. Humans constantly shed dead skin cells. Plants of all shapes and kinds practice something called "abscission" in order to grow (this is my new favorite word). They drop leaves, branches, flowers, fruit, and other things all the time. To say it once more, they let go of part of themselves in order to grow and be healthy. There are four main reasons why living things cut off parts of themselves (I had to do some botany research for this, so this is golden): (a) some things get corrupted, poisoned, or die; (b) some things (like damaged leaves) take up too much energy or resources for the remaining needs of the plant; (c) sometimes it actually defends the plant (like premature leaf abscission to fight aphids infestations) and (d) some things are simply unnecessary if their environment has changed. In order to survive the future, they must let go of things that get in the way. Interestingly, these are the exact four reasons why healthy, successful leaders let go of the past and focus on the future. Using the four main reasons concerning plants I just gave as a helpful analogy, let's think some more about this: (a) Some people or plans or groups get corrupted or poisoned. These always--always--drain your leadership and organization of energy and focus. Worse still, they infect others. Gangrene spreads and kills; it never spreads and invigorates and causes new life. **Who in your organization is toxic? Who is pessimistic? Who gossips and tears down? Who changes the mood in the room for the negative when s/he walks in? What project or division needs to be cut off? Is it you? Are you the toxic person? If it can't be fixed (and you've already tried), it's time for abscission. It's time to let it go. (b) Some people or plans or groups take up too much energy or focus. Don't ever forget: your energy, time, and focus is limited. It's like a pie: when you give away slices of yourself, or when your company gives away a slice of its resources, it's at a cost. A part of the pie is now gone. You can't focus effectively on the future of the company if you're constantly bogged down. You need the most amount of resources focused on the vision. **Is there a person who requires constant supervision or management? Is there a group that constantly needs resources and encouragement but is distracting toward your vision? If it can't be fixed (and you've already tried), it's time for abscission. It's time to let it go. (c) Some people or plans or groups make you and your organization vulnerable. They are done "half baked" or "half led." They might be helpful a little bit, but leave you and the organization at risk for going in the wrong direction. This is especially true when companies add new products or services when they don't really have the resources to do so. There's a reason why Steve Jobs cut off so many unnecessary projects of Apple when he returned: he needed the company to get focused on its strengths and the future. Look how that turned out for that company. . . **Is there a person or group that leaves you vulnerable to wasting time, energy, focus, money, drive, lawsuits, or anything else? If it can't be fixed (and you've already tried), it's time for abscission. It's time to let it go. (d) This last one will take another essay to develop, but it's enough now to emphasize that when environments change, it's time to let go of the "way it was." Organizations and people can change, yes. But also, communities change, the economy changes, worldviews change. It's like a river that's flowing underneath everyone and no one can stop it. Something that was cutting edge and effective last month now might be passe. **What in your life or organization is simply no longer necessary? Is there a person or group that did fulfill something vital last decade or last month but is no longer necessary? If it's no longer needed, it's time for abscission. It's time to let it go. Why let go of the past? It might have (a) gotten corrupted, (b) begun taking up too many resources, (c) made you and your organization vulnerable, or (d) simply become unnecessary because the environment has changed. Let go of the past as soon as it gets in the way. Think about all the things that have changed in your organization: people who have come and gone, hardware and software that has come and gone, systems that used to be in place that couldn't possibly work now, the economy, your staff, your volunteers, your experiences, and on and on. Change is inevitable. If you, as a leader, can’t let go of “the way it used to be” or “the way it worked last year,” then you will almost certainly ruin your organization. Not being able to let go of anything that gets in the way of your projected future is one of the most devastating things a leader can do. Is it really difficult for you to let go of the past, even if it gets in the way of your future? What drives that reluctance? Why is it so hard? What about your people? Are they clinging too hard to the past? How do you lead them to focus on the future when the past gets in the way? We'll discuss that in a future essay.
Navigating effective communication
‘All great things are simple, and many can be expressed in single words: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope.’ Sir Winston Churchill.
I have always thought of Sir Winston Churchill as a great communicator. If I am looking for something apt or with some humour I always go to find one of his quotes to illustrate what I am trying to communicate. The quote I used to open this entry with, pretty much summarises his style of communication and made him a great communicator.
Churchill was not a natural orator and had a speech impediment. Due to this and his desire to communicate effectively in order to get the desired results he sought Churchill was extremely dedicated in rehearsing and editing each of his speeches for many hours. He knew that hard work and practice were key components together with thoughtful preparation and sincerity in effective communication.
Having strong communication skills can sometimes override the fact that there is nothing else a leader can do in certain situations and I am sure that Churchill’s excellence in communication gave many a heart a sense of security.
Having wisdom, good judgment and solid principles are also essential in communicating well. Churchill’s wisdom, judgment and principles would never have been brought to the world stage if he had not been able to communicate them effectively.
On a personal note I have three favourite quotes from Sir Winston Churchill, two really witty and one deeply thought provoking.
1. ‘I may be drunk, Miss, but in the morning I will be sober and you will still be ugly.’
2. ‘If I were your wife I’d put poison in your tea!” “If I were your husband I’d drink it.’
3. ‘We are masters of the unsaid words, but slaves of those we let slip out.’
I have included an example of Churchill’s communication approach.
Churchill had six communication strategies which enabled him to be a great communicator:
1.Be clear about the audience you are addressing, who they are what their needs, worries and concerns might be.
2. Make sure that your communications have a well-defined purpose, have a well-defined objective.
3. Be aware of all the facts before you speak. Do your research to make sure that you have all relevant information available.
4. Use simple but precise language.
5. Use humour to make your speeches easier to understand and to remember.
6. Be sincere, speak from your heart. This was perhaps Churchill’s most significant tactic – his audience realized that he believed in what he was saying, they believed it too and very often acted on his words.
Navigating life to the full
I am a boundary pusher, I freely admit to that! As I look at life and people I often want to push those who are lethargic and negative into action and positivity. When I cook meat still on the bone in the slow cooker my husband and daughter love to suck the marrow out of the centre of the bone. To me this picture stirs thoughts of 'sucking the marrow out of the bone'. These ladies seem to have such a good attitude to life. A number of points stand out to me:
They own a costume and are not afraid of wearing it in public. They own (I presume) a surfboard and the surfboards are not stored away in their garages, they are using their surfboards. I can only imagine that these three ladies have been friends for sometime and they enjoy spending time together. They are living life and a life of abundance. Something about these three ladies gives the impression that very little will get them down and they would be willing to take on just about anything. In navigating your own life capture the attitude of living life to the full as this picture indicates.
Navigating negativity
We all know the saying 'when life gives you lemons, make lemon juice'. As a South African nation we have the unique ability to see the best in our country. There are many things that happen in our country, or have become a part of our country, that the general population have had to learn to deal with and find the positive rather than the negative.
This advert/clip has depicted our nation so well. When watching this clip and seeing how foreigners see our nation, the focus is taken off the negative and as you see the wonder on the people's faces as to being able to fit 15 people into a taxi or the fact that we have our electricity cut and there is even a name for it 'load shedding' makes one realize that we are actually quite a unique nation.
For those of us who actually live in South Africa, some of things are really frustrating and even heartbreaking but we have the ability to spur each other on to make life better.
Yes there are those who are very negative and destructive and who try to bring disunity amongst the different races but I have the absolute privilege of interacting with people who have decided to make the best of their circumstances and the circumstances of those around them. We have a lot to work on and at the same time a lot to be thankful for.
I have a passion to see the people of South Africa navigate through their differences and join hands, ideas and energy to make this nation one that lights up the rest and Africa and the world.
Compelling Vision
‘I have a dream …’ are four words that flow through my mind on a daily basis. When driving my car, I have a dream of driving a better one; whilst standing in a queue, I have a dream/idea on how to bring about efficiency; when looking in the mirror, I have a dream of being thinner; and when I sit still and contemplate, I have a dream of making a difference in people’s lives.
My life has been impacted by two people; Princess Diana and the Lord Jesus Christ. You might wonder why someone who ‘had a dream’ of living the life of a princess yet has such a sad but memorable story would influence me and how I could possibly link her impact on my life to that of the impact that Jesus has had on my entire existence.
Well as I have often thought about it Princess Diana and Jesus Christ were able to reach the hearts of people that others would not even think of reaching out to. Princess Diana was not afraid to sit at the bedside of a person dying of HIV/Aids, nor was she afraid to walk across mine fields in Africa and hold the children on her lap whose lives had been devastated and Jesus was not too perturbed at dinning with a prostitute and a tax collector, He even broke the ‘rules’ of the day to heal the sick and raise the dead.
I have always cared very deeply for people and this was increased by a trauma debriefing course I attended. If I drive past an accident I want to stop and help; if someone is in hospital, I am there; when I have a friend with cancer I am relentless in caring for them until their healing comes or they breathe their last breath.
I have a task of writing a ‘compelling vision for my ministry’ and I find the word ‘compel’ very apt as I ponder on 1 Corinthians 9:16 ‘For when I preach the gospel, I cannot boast, since I am compelled to preach. Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel!’ I feel exactly the same about caring for people - woe to me if I do not reach out to those who need a special touch!
So my vision for my ministry is to continue to reach out to people, to be more intentional in taking note of those in need, to touch lives and make people feel special just as Princess Diana did and to offer the gift of eternal life by sharing the story of Jesus with those that come across my path.
Navigating life from Trudi Joynt