Everything Is Beautiful

Smilebecasueyoumeanit is my somewhat sfw blog. This is my nsfw blog! This space is where I express my kinks, interests, and thoughts. All I ask is those who enter please leave any negative vibes, unkind thoughts, and bullshit at the door. :) Keep it kinky, keep it kind. #me

[livingdeliberately]

anyone want to run away with me to a cottage by the beach and spend the rest of our days collecting sea shells and sleeping with the windows open and painting the sunrise?

[loveandpassioninmarriage]

[purplebuddhaproject]

“There is no need of any competition with anybody. You are yourself, and as you are, you are perfectly good. Accept yourself.”

— Osho (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[boarcriminal-deactivated2018052]

your 20s are for sucking dick and traveling

[fatmanda]

I can only financially afford one of these things

[sirsgoodlittleslut]

Kink rating: throat fucking

no | rather not | I dunno | I guess | sure | yes | FUCK yes | oh god you don’t even know

Fuck. Yes.

Send me kinks/fetishes to rate! no | rather not | I dunno | I guess | sure | yes | FUCK yes | oh god you don’t even know 💜

[sirsgoodlittleslut]

Sub drop

Recently, I experienced sub drop for the first time. For those who aren’t sure what that is (I didn’t before reading about it on tumblr), sub drop is something that can happen after intense play. Here’s a quick definition taken from a great post by submissivefeminist (link to the post at the bottom):

Sub-drop is categorized by a feeling of depression or guilt after engaging in a consensual BDSM scene. It comes in many forms, from a silent and distant moodiness to a full-fledged panic attack. 

Because of how much I appreciated learning about this from tumblr, I thought I would share my experience.

Sir and I had just had a great, very intense sex. He used my body hard past the point of it being sore, and I loved it. I was in basically in a frenzy by the time he came and then rubbed my clit. I wanted to cum, and I was deep in subspace. My whole body tingled from all the places that were extra sensitive from horniness and desperation and from growing bruises and stinging red marks. Sir had me lie down between his legs and he stroked my hair. It was taking me a while to come out of subspace, but I was comfortable and maybe just a bit sleepy. After a little while though, I started to feel weird. I felt removed and alone, separate from Sir instead of closer to him like I usually do after we have great sex. I was sad and empty feeling, and I was having trouble processing exactly what these feelings were. I was quiet, and I wasn’t sure what I needed or how to ask for it. So I just got out of bed and went into the other room to watch TV while Sir stayed in bed. 

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[unrefinedexistence]

This topic is so important to have a good bit of knowledge on, especially for doms, and this post does an amazing job talking about it and describing it! 👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻

[h4te]

Reblog if you want your followers to ask you anything they're curious about.

[secondh0rse-deactivated20190424]

Pleeeeease.

I want the distraction.

[classichorrorblog]

American Psycho Directed by Mary Harron (2000)

[anxiousbutconfident]

when lazy kissing gets intense with that deep breath and hip pull

[yougottabeniceforwhat]

[purplebuddhaproject]

“If I have learned anything over this last year it’s that you have to live your own life too so that if something we hoped for doesn’t work out, you still have two legs to stand on, you still have your own path.”

— T.S. Krupa (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[nagask]

[gentlemanlyesque-deactivated201]

Q

[cumdolli-deactivated20230305-de]

u ever get real sad & need to be violently fucked bc me too

[food-smut]

Churros ❤️

[unrefinedexistence]

@maddigans

[purplebuddhaproject]

“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”

— Nicholas Sparks (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[pashionforfashion21allday]

[stonedguatemalan-deactivated201]

The type of nasty I like

[perrfectly]