The Essential Guide for the New or Potential HotWife
1) Learn to take control. This can take time to master, but the more you do it the easier it will become. Eventually it will become very enjoyable and second nature.
2) Contrary to what you may read, sex with your cuckold is perfectly fine during times when you’re not seeing other men, provided you keep the cuckold theme burning. However, sex with your cuckold should slow down whenever you’re actively seeing other men (or a man). To secure the psychological impact of the husband’s cuckold status, it’s important to establish him as a secondary sexual provider when you're seeing others. When other men are in the picture, they should be the primary source of your sexual satisfaction. Your cuckold’s involvement should occur primarily AFTER your encounters with other men. When having sex with your cuckold after another man, it’s important to be verbal, reminding him that you prefer the other man, because your cuckold doesn't satisfy for whatever reason (small dick, cums to fast, poor lover, etc).
3) Sex with your cuckold husband should be mostly acts other than intercourse, which you should rarely give. You want to establish that you are the source of his pleasure, and you decide when to dispense that pleasure. This includes timing, frequency, sex acts, etc. Intercourse should be reserved as a special treat. handjobs, ruined orgasms, oral and even making your cuck masturbate, need to be the normal methods of his release. Penetrative sex should be reserved as a reward, or for special occasions.
4) Include regular teasing in your daily routine. Use opportunities to drop hints and teases. Use nudity to tease, letting your cuckold husband see you nude often. Technology provides wonderful tools to keep your cuckold excited, including suggestive texts, emails, pictures, videos, captions, etc. Make it part of your game. Let him know that you have told other friends about his performance and inadequacies.
5) Occasionally have your cuckold wear nothing but a shirt or T-shirt around the house. When passing him, GENTLY flick, poke or slap his penis, and comment on his small size. Say aloud how you need a man with a bigger cock, and that you'll never be happy with ‘just that’. Make it clear to him that it’s inadequate and couldn’t possibly satisfy you. Compare it to your lover’s cock. Hold his penis in your hand, giggle and remind him that you prefer men with ‘real cocks’.
6) If you know you have an upcoming date, be sure to tease your cuckold husband with suggestive comments, to let him know you're excited, but don't have sex. Remind him that you’re saving yourself for your lover.
7) The day of your date call your cuckold to the bedroom to undress you and help you prepare. He will love this. Remind him constantly of your excitement. If you shave your pussy, before a date have your cuckold do it. Tell him you want it to be smooth for your lover, and so your cuckold can better clean you up after you get home.
8) Have him dry your body after your bathe or shower, perfume you and even paint your toenails. Remind him that it’s all to please your lover.
9) Make him help you pick out the outfit and get dressed. Make sure to select sexy underclothes. Dress in extra revealing clothes than you wouldn’t normally wear for your husband. Consider going without panties, telling him these are the things your lover wants you to wear, and you’re doing it for him.
10) When out on your date remember you are in control. Have fun and enjoy a few special hours with your lover, and your cuckold (if he’s present). The importance of your dates cannot be understated as part of the cuckold relationship. Much of it comes down to the dates themselves. Savor the moment and be prepared to tell every detail later.
11) If your cuckold is present when on a date, be sure to sit next to your lover and across the table from your cuckold. Make contact under the table. Run your hand up and down your lover's leg. Venture into his crotch if the covering allows. This will get your cuck’s imagination going.
12) After dinner let your cuckold play chauffer and drive you around a little before going to the motel, or home if that's what your plan is. Sit in the back seat and get to know each other. Allow your hands and lips do the talking. This will drive your cuckold wild, and will also get you and your lover hot and horny.
13) Assuming you’re allowing him to watch, when you get to the hotel room or your bedroom, make your cuckold undress you for your lover. Make it clear to everyone that your cuckold is there only to watch how a real man makes love to a woman, and also as a cleanup boy.
14) Whenever your cuckold is watching you make love with someone, remember to be extremely verbal. Let your cucky know how good a ‘real cock’ feels inside you, how much bigger it is, how much more you like it than his, how much you love being fucked by someone different, and be sure to make it obvious when you cum. Talk about how small and undesirable your cuckold’s small penis is, now that you’re with a man with a real cock.
15) After you finish, make your cuckold go down on you for cleanup. I will leave it to you as to how you go about it (ask or demand but either way he must do it). It’s extremely important to talk to him as he cleans you, telling him how great the sex was, how satisfied you are, how good it feels to be cleaned and that this is his new role as your cuckold. Now, don’t forget your lover. An experienced lover will present his dripping cock to you cuckold cleaning of the cocktail of his semen and your juices, and it is important that he performs well at this.
16) If you are leaving your cuckold at home, consider a chastity cage, locking him up a day or two before the date and keeping him locked until a day or so after. This will ensure that he remains horny throughout, and most importantly, compliant to whatever you want him to do.
But most of all - enjoy!
