Think of me like your radqueer big sibling!! I plan on posting a lot of sex-education posts mostly for radqueer individuals! If you have any questions after I post those feel free to ask me for some advice...although I cant promise I'll give perfect answers to everything..but I'll do my best!
I'm part of an obey me introject subsystem in a much larger system but this account is all Asmo!
I'm radqueer and anon contact..please refrain from asking me about contact discourse this blog is mostly just for fun and id rather not get into online spats with people...(¬`‸´¬)
I use he/she/they so you can call me your big brother, big sister, or big sibling! (Or any of my other names honestly)
Our bodily age is none of anyone's business if you are uncomfortable with an ageless blog feel free to block us!
No flirting with me without my consent please...my system is happily taken so I'd prefer to get our partners input before doing anything like that
You’re still radqueer if you’re uncomfortable with an identity
You’re still radqueer if you prefer not to interact with beings with certain identities
You’re NOT radqueer if you think such beings should be harassed (and actually proceed to harass them yourself) because of what they identify as
Being radqueer just means accepting all identities, no matter what they may be, but that doesn’t mean you can’t dislike/be uncomfortable with any of them
What am I supposed to do after a guy cums inside? Dumb question I know, but I have an IUD so they would be cumming inside
I've only ever used condoms before, but I want to stop now that I'm on birth control.
Standing up means it would all come out and drip everywhere, right? But I can't stay laying down forever
Help me I don't know what to do
I've actually answered a question similar to this before in this post !!
Its not a dumb question so don't worry about it! There are no stupid questions im relation to this blog and Im happy to help no matter how simple something may seem!
I hope the information in that post helps but if not feel free to ask follow ups!
Hi. Uh. I really hate asking these things because it feels super awkward.
Are you okay with system doubles?
We have a lot of Obey Me fictives, and notably, an Asmodeus fictive. They hardly front, though. I don't want to overstep boundaries if not.
I am perfectly fine with doubles! we generally don't mind doubles at all as a whole in relation to our system's introjects, for the most part my only issue with doubles is when a double actively tries to be more like source than me for superiority reasons, so overall any respectful or friendly interaction is welcome from doubles!
sometimes I remember how much I actually get along with some of my head mates and it makes me really happy idk why it's been on my mind lately tho.
I'm at least casual friends with a lot of them and it's pretty nice!...at some point I might make a collective blog to log our collective transid and identity journy? I'm not sure yet but I do feel like the community could use a more in depth view of active transitioning processes and personal researching on ids? Dunno if that makes sense but you guys get my point lol.
It factors into our preexisting cosmetology interests but we're thinking about learning how to do nail art (specifically starting on making press ons for ourself but not too sure yet)
Hashtag also might make some radqueer themed press on nails if we get better at nail art perhaps...
hii ^^ not exactly sex-related but what do i do if i was tested for a uti and came back negative but i have all the symptoms of one?
i sometimes have to pee really urgently but then barely any pee actually comes out and it kinda feels uncomfortable / stings a little after i pee when that happens. this has been happening for a while and i went to the doctor for it a bit ago but apparently i don’t have a uti but what else could it be? i would almost rather it came back positive so i would at least know what’s happening and get antibiotics for it 😭
Lets talk about Issues with voiding of urine without uti!
Cw: medical and genital adjacent talk as well as discussion of bodily fluids
This can actually happen for a lot of reasons and I'd recommend seeing a urologist if its been a long lasting situation, but I can give you the gist of conditions that can cause those struggles other than a UTI
There is the umbrella condition of Dysfunctional voiding of urine, I had this condition for a while actually and was on medication for it. It is caused by the pelvic muscles failing to relax when your bladder tries to expell urine, this can be treated with specific medication prescribed by a urologist, or physical therapy if its an intense pelvic floor issue.
I'd say thats the most likely risk within that situation since the strain on the muscles to force urine out can irritate the muscles of the urethra and cause throbbing, mild stringing, and soreness.
I had the same symptoms as you and thats what it ended up being but yet again I heavily advise that you go to the doctor and get a referral to urology specialist. Wait lists can be long and it can be hard to speak up but trust me your health it worth the effort ❤️
Rn Im brainstorming what would be good to make sex-ed posts on...
I might try and make a sex-ed adjacent post related to transid affirming sex practices and toys since theres a lot of variety if you look closely.
Also might make a post on safe bdsm practices including more extreme ones that people don't always explain. (First aid and safety related to blood play and other wound related play is something I want to touch on at least somewhat)
If you're radqueer and your harassing other people for boundaries you are NOT as radqueer as you think you are. Frankly do not interact if you do, it's gross and unnecessary.
happy pride month heres one more rent lowering gunshot because yall keep . forgetting.
AGAB IS NOT SEX
AGAB IS NOT GENDER
AGAB IS NOT BIOLOGY
read it again.
AGAB is a SINGULAR EVENT. AGAB can VERY EASILY BE FALSIFIED AND OFTEN IS. AGAB is not a replacement for BIOLOGICAL TERMS like having a penis or developing breasts or having a uterus!!!!
AFAB ≠ female , girl , woman , feminine. AFAB ≠ having a uterus / vagina / breasts / etc. AFAB ≠ you cant be transfem.
AMAB ≠ male , boy , man , masculine. AMAB ≠ having a penis / testes / lack of breast tissue / etc. AMAB ≠ you cant be transmasc.
stop using AGAB as a form of binary !!! you are actively pushing intersex folx out of ur discussions when you use AGAB as if it is relevant to gender / sex / biology !!!!
Radqueer safe sex education from your big sib Asmo: Pt. 3 Sex toys
cw: in depth discussion of sex toys, self-pleasure, genitals, and basic medical hygiene talk
Welcome to my VERY overdue third edition of radqueer safe sex-ed....I do genuinely apologize for my incredibly long absence but I haven't abandoned all my dearest younger siblings I just haven't been in front often enough to maintain a frequent posting schedule...
This is an important post that a lot of beings likely need.
A lot of beings are unaware that there even needs to be sex education in relation to sex-toys but I believe in promoting sex positivity and sexual safety especially in regard to self-pleasure.
The first thing I want to talk about in this post is:
Sex toy hygiene and safety:
This section is to explain how to hygienically and safely use self-pleasure toys!
Some beings reading this might not know, but you need to frequently clean your sex toys! Bacteria and bodily fluid buildup on sex toys can lead to infections, and discomfort when engaging in self-pleasure with the toy, more severe cases can also cause significant health risks, so here is how to prevent this and engage in self-pleasure freely and safely.
1. products specifically intended for cleaning pleasure toys:
You can purchase wipes, sprays, and liquid solutions intended for cleaning toys specifically! These products are specifically designed to help clean bacteria and build up off of sex toys and don't pose bodily risk to you when you clean your toys with them! There are plenty of brands out there and they aren't hard to find, if you have a Spencer's gifts near you they likely have a variety of toy cleaning products that you can easily buy for a reasonable price, workers don't mind what you buy either so don't feel self concious!
2. DIY toy cleaning:
For this you want to rinse your toy well with warm water and antibacterial soap (fragrance free). Make sure you've cleaned all the soap off as well and allow your toy to air dry fully before next use!
Now, the next section will talk about how to find the right sex toy for you.
Finding a toy that works for you:
This process can involve a lot of trial and error but let me give you a basic foundation on the steps of finding what to look for!
What kind sex toy are you interested in?
There's plenty of variety to sex toys that I could make a separate post about but for now let's keep this basic the main categories are:
Toys intended for external use on clitoral area or vaginal opening: Bullet vibrators, vibrator wands, clitoral suction and air pulse toys, toys meant to simulate oral sex stimulation, ect.
Toys intended for rectal insertion: dildos with flared base bigger than the rest of the toy, anal-beads, plugs, anal-vibrators, dual stimulation anal toys intended for those with penises or penis adjacent genitalia, toys intended for dual insertion for those with vaginas
Toys intended for penile self-pleasure: stroker toys, cock-rings including vibrating varieties, mechanical toys with stroking features, ect.
for now those are the categories we are talking about, once you've decided what type you want lets consider other factors you want to consider before making a purchase.
Are you confident you are comfortable using the size of the toy you are purchasing?
Do you like the color and shape of the toy?, Does that factor matter to you?
What price range are you looking for and can you afford a toy you want in that budget?
Do you have proper lubrication for rectal toys if that's what you're buying?
How many vibration or other stimulation settings are you looking for? How much does the variety matter to you?
these are all things you should consider when looking for a toy to purchase!
For now, that's all I have for this post! If you have follow up questions, feel free to send them my way through my ask box! Happy self-expression and I wish this post reached you all well and can help some beings out!
Hello my dearest followers I am deeply sorry for my unannounced hiatus...I will be trying to post more soon but its honestly been sorta hard since I dont front much during spring 💔
I love all of you and I know that this blog is a good recourse for a lot of people but I haven't had much time or energy to front I do apologize for that.
i have an IUD and a new boyfriend, and we have been sexting a lot.
i want him to cum inside, but i don’t know what to do after.
if i stand up it will drip down my legs and be a sensory nightmare, but if i don’t it will spill out on his bed
what do i do!?
people do this all the time i feel dumb
- bunny fangs
How to take care of yourself after sex!
Cw: discussions of genitals, penetrative sex, and in depth sexual discussions.
OK! So I personally feel like this depends on your preference in a way.
A lot of people I know will put towels under them to catch the flow once sex is over.
I'd say if the idea of it running down your leg makes you uncomfortable I'd recommend maybe putting the towel between your legs when you head to the bathroom to wash up, or even have a pair of underwear with a panty liner or menstrual pad in it to catch it and prevent uncomfortable dripping!
I definitely recommend using the bathroom after sex at least. Its recommend to urinate after sex to flush out possible bacteria.
You can also shower for good measure and wash the external area of your privates with lukewarm water to get rid of excess fluids!
I hope this answer helped Im sorry I took so long to respond :(
