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PINNED:

- anon is off but lmk if you want me to post your submission / ask / msg anonymously!

- official explanation here

- other explanations of the drama here & here

im happy to take any screenshots / posts / info you can give !!!

this blog will not call out anyone and is just posting testimonies from any sides of the story and reblogging posts for archival purposes!

best way to read it all is probably either to read the summaries i think are pinned or just scroll through the blog from the beginning unfortunately

#mod silver #ask

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Honestly, I don't think I can archive anything else. I think everything that's going to be said has been said. The UFIU blog was deleted; Rhys deactivated, I think this is a good time to stop.

If you have anything else that is very important, feel free to send it in or to message me. Try to see if it's on here already, if you can.

As some of the mods have said already:

Please don't make jokes about this anymore.

It was fine when it was just NFTs, but after the abuse coming to light, it's best not to joke about this anymore. Please don't joke about how this is sonic-for-real-justice 2, or just "Tumblr drama". Real people were hurt by Rhys. Take that seriously.

We'll be checking notifications on here still.

Please take care of yourselves!

Real quick, I did want to submit this post that Rhys made on his unthemed blog, I believe after F posted their Google Doc chronicling their experiences with him.

Honestly, I don't think I can archive anything else. I think everything that's going to be said has been said. The UFIU blog was deleted; Rhys deactivated, I think this is a good time to stop.

If you have anything else that is very important, feel free to send it in or to message me. Try to see if it's on here already, if you can.

As some of the mods have said already:

Please don't make jokes about this anymore.

It was fine when it was just NFTs, but after the abuse coming to light, it's best not to joke about this anymore. Please don't joke about how this is sonic-for-real-justice 2, or just "Tumblr drama". Real people were hurt by Rhys. Take that seriously.

We'll be checking notifications on here still.

Please take care of yourselves!

#('We' encompasses Silver and his alters. I should clarify there are no other mods on this blog.)

why do I kinda hope Rhys will be ok?... I did the right thing blocking him, didn't I?

Stop bringing your personal drama onto this blog. I've told you multiple times.

because rhys is claiming he doesnt remember sa’ing me and is claiming more

so, rhys really posted on his google doc that he doesnt know what im talking about despite the fact i consistently told him to please stop mentioning sexual stuff about me in a group chat of 14 and 15 year olds,

the fact the first night he came onto me i told him i was very very very uncomfortable and did not want a sexual relationship,

and he kept pushing and making jokes and telling me that if i ever change my mind i could tell him, and then he continued to flirt with me and make jokes about wanting to fuck me,

i deleted messages after he removed me from his life because i was crying and disgusted with myself that he pushed me to do things and i felt i had let him, i felt that i hadnt said no properly and that it was my fault for not being “clearer”

but no, thats not what happened rhys. i WAS clear. i SAID no. AGAIN and again i said i was uncomfortable and did not want to and you did not take no for an answer and continued to pester me until i did say yes.

and for him to again try and manipulate the situation and use the one thing i told him that made me not want to continue the most against me sickens me.

we are several months apart in age in our birthdays, he is born in 2003 i believe and i am born in 2002. we dated when we were both 14-15. part of the reason i wanted him to stop flirting with me was because when he came onto me when he came back into my life, was i had recently turned 18, and he was 16 and going to turn 17 in a monthish or so due to where our birthdays fall. i told him again and again to please stop and that i didnt feel good about this, to which he continued to push me and push me and push me.

REMINDER; to prove this, he is 18 right now, and i am 19 RIGHT NOW. LITERALLY WE ARE MONTHS APART IN AGE. :/ thanks for trying to twist the truth as always rhys

edit:he was born on july 9th 2003, i was born january 22nd 2002. there you go.

i even continued to try and get away from situations where id have to “indulge” him by faking being tired and going to sleep when he’d ask me for things. and yes, i WAS high during one of the times we did stuff even if he claims to not remember.

i dont have his dms anymore, i dont even have him in my discord blocklist because i didnt want to ever need to look at our messages again, and so no, i cant get back into our dms and get the screenshots, so now im stuck with his word against mine

anyways, i appreciate the people sending support to me, ive seen people deleting their reblogs of jokes abt the situation and less people joking about him and thank you all again for that. i was afraid to come out about any of this because i only really have saved the imgur album of him accepting and trying to “apologize” to me for using me that i sent to the urfaveisunfuckable archive blog, and i know that when it comes down to two people’s words, and he who has manipulated and abused me and many people before, i didnt feel confident in myself and i knew eventually he would pull something like this

im glad i have a good support system around me and im not afraid anymore, of him or of anything. what happened happened, im not a liar, i said no and you knew it rhys, and you kept pushing. you even accepted so in the first conversation we had. you’re only now writing the opposite in your google doc because more people than you expected know about the real you.

play stupid games, win stupid prizes. just leave me and your other victims alone. i hope one day you stop pretending like we all traumatized you for trying to get you to stop hurting us and others, and stop lying through your teeth about things as serious as the fact that you, hey, sexually assaulted me!

hey im the guy mod rhys of urfaveisunfuckable sa’d please stop making memes about it thanks

seeing someone in the notes of the testimony i sent to the archive blog where they were like ‘why are you still posting this stuff’ kind of sucked so i wish people would understand it’s deeper and more than just this nft nonsense. its nice people are making posts now to get people to stop joking about it so that it can get the seriousness it deserves

like it was funny to learn at first that my ex got into nfts but my hand was kinda forced to talk abt the fact he sa’d me multiple times because people kept talking about the abuse so vaguely and moving back to making jokes about the nfts or mentioning it as an offhand side thing, or even worse saying “oh he said he talked it out with the victims and moved on and everything was fine” and as good as it was for me to recognize finally the validity of my abuse since he made me question myself for a long time, and realize “yeah, i was hurt, i did not consent” it sucks to have to be forced into that position because otherwise people aren’t taking it seriously so if people could either stfu and stop joking about the nft shit or that blingee abuser gif he used or just not talk about it at all thatd be fantastic actually im so sick of seeing that stupid fucking video of the screenshots of his weird ass tumblr posts going around its got so many notes i know it wont die but oh my god

didnt want to make this post originally but just in case the one that one of the mods and the person who originally posted the nft screenshots dont get enough traction hopefully this one will at least

hi guys, it’s maxine again. or sunny. or brickell. i know it’s all blown up like quite a bit but i’m please asking you guys to stop with all the jokes about the situations, as has been specifically requested by victims of rhys. please stop with the joking about the NFTs and the blog and just let it die, this isn’t a funny gag it’s about a genuinely shitty guy and serial abuser. let it die.

urfaveisunfuckable-archive

He deactivated

anybody have an idea of when he deactivated?

urfaveisunfuckable-archive

I have been told around 3:07am or so in DMs. Semi-related: We will not be posting any screenshots of Rhys' edited docs or final tumblr posts, as they do not add any information to this whole dilemma, and I don't think Rhys deserves to have an irrelevant breakdown archived for all time.

He deactivated

anybody have an idea of when he deactivated?

oneday yo ass gonna appear in my dream and its bc i will oneday dream abt tumblr

thanks?? i think??

Are you gonna eventually log out indefinitely once all of this is eventually “fully archived”? (I put fully archived in quotes bc I feel like there really isn’t any way to have an archived conclusion with a situation like this)

i plan to! if this isn't resolved in maybe a week i might just tap out regardless 'cause at that point i doubt there's any new info

the final statement by rhys is getting updated again btw just thought id let u know for like archival purposes and whatnot

same link? or a new doc entirely

#bc i have a wayback archive of the first ver #off topic

please dont submit things like this

again: this is not a drama for the sake of drama blog. this is an archive for those wondering what happened to the ufiu blog. i don't care what your "future predictions for rhys" are so please dont send an almost 500 word post in here about it treating it like a joke

^^^

#sorry based on the end i assume you wanted to be anon!#off topic

aorry i keep reblogging things to here instead of my main =_= if you see a completely unrelated post reblogged it was an accident LOL

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