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Love is joy. Don't convince yourself that suffering is part of it!

Paulo Coelho

Apologize for what you've done, never by who you are....

Relationship Needs Assessment..lol

Interdependence

you need someone who reciprocates a strong feeling of attachment to a partner but who also respects and copes well with the fact that you benefit from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times.

Intimacy

you need someone who desires and reciprocates intimacy as much as you do.

Self-efficacy

you need a partner who has a good degree of energy, enthusiasm and self-efficacy like you, as opposed to a partner who needs constant nurturance and reassurance to feel empowered and valued as person.

Relationship readiness

you need someone who wants a relationship, rather than needs one to feel personally fulfilled.

Communication

you need someone who will not put up emotional barriers when you seek to understand his/her thoughts and feelings, but rather will communicate with you intimately and candidly.

Conflict resolution

you need someone who will join you in taking time to find a complete and genuine resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for quick, temporary agreements.

Sexuality

you need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates when it is planned to some extent rather than completely spontaneous.

Attitudes toward love

you need someone who satisfies the hopeless romantic in you but who will insist that you take time to get to know each other well before the taking the relationship to next levels.

Preferred Expressions of Affection

You need someone who can express affection and show you are a priority by spending time with you – such as simply talking and cuddling at home, taking leisurely strolls outside or extended road trips.

When intelligence is ignorant and empathy is absent, death and hate are present when joy and love are abstract.

Aaron Lanari

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