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I'm a 19 sub french guy who's into gentle femdom

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Hi 👋 I'm a submissive straight guy, I'm 21.

But I have almost no experience in this world...

Feel free to DM or ask if you want.

I'm french so there might be some mistakes or weird sentences.

I'm a sub who have many kinks :

✧ My favourites / things I love :

-Femdom and Soft/Gentle Femdom (🥇)

-Bondage (any type) (🥈)

-Cuddles ❤️ (🥉)

-dirty talks and whispering (praises)

-edging

-teasing

-anal play

✧ Things I'm into :

-sensory deprivation play

-feminization (soft)

-ruined orgasms

-pegging

-overstimulation

-chastity

✧ Things I'm not into / limits :

-high pain

-ignoring

-feet

-humiliation/degradation

-findom

-face slap

Some can obviously be missing in each category.

I dream of having a girlfriend who's into gentle femdom...🥺

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I want to know !!

I would definitely be shy if I was dating someone for the first time, and I recently created an account on a dating app specialised in BDSM (and...other kinky things) relationships.

And, I know that there is obviously not only the kinky side in a relationship, but, considering the app I use, if I must talk about my sub side, my face would turn red instantly.

If it's the sub that is shy : (sub)

If it's the dom that it's shy : (dom)

So...do you find shyness sexy during a date ?

Yes !! 🫣 (sub)

I prefer self-confidence (sub)

Yes !! 🫣 (dom)

I prefer self-confidence (dom)

I like both ❤️ / It doesn't matter

Voting ended onMar 5, 2025

Sorry I can't do multiple surveys in the same post...

Thank you a lot if you took the time to respond.

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Wouldn't it be sexy, cute and fun to paint each others naked body, like in movies such as Avatar ?

Or video games like Horizon ?

I'm clearly not a master painter, but I would like to do it with a girlfriend. Tracing each fold, muscle, bone or voluptuous part of someone with paint, and let this person do the same to me to make our body even more prettier...

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I recently saw a movie where there was a cute couple.

The girl asked her boyfriend to come upstairs and kill a spider hiding in their bedroom. The guy enters in the bedroom and started to search the spider with the broom in his hands. He turned back when he heard the door shutting behind him, and saw his girlfriend looking at him, smiling naughtily, and blocking the door shut with her whole body.

The guy instantly knew what was happening, he dropped the broom and looked at her with his eyes wide open, paralysed. She turned the key in the door's lock, then came closer to him and almost kissed him, and grabbed his shirt, and walked with him until his legs hit the bed (that was obviously behind him 😑, but that is so hot anyway). He fell backward on the bed, and then she crawled over him as in every other movies with a similar scene...

The scene stopped there... But that was enough for me to be jealous...🫠

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C'est bien, tu as demandé poliment, tu es bien élevé. Tu mérites une réponse, en tout cas tant que tu restes gentil.

Ok 🥴...this one is pretty cool

Thank you

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I love praises, but I'm french, and why do praises sound so bad in french ?!?!

Can someone prove me wrong please ?

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I crave to be tightly tied to my bed right now, to be edged for as long as I can endure, and a bit beyond...

I crave to be praised, cuddled and kissed during this to give me the strength to continue for hours.

I crave to spend the most amazing and unforgettable week-end of my life.

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Currently can't think about anything else than someone slowly pushing me until there is a wall, pinning my arm above my head and getting closer and closer to me. Then, she kisses me... I can barely speak, I'm blushing, my eyes are teary. I'm sure that my heart would beat so hard that we could see it beating just by looking at my chest. I'm feeling good just by imagining it.

I wish this could happen to me for real...

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I feel so lonely rn. I wish someone could dom me, tie me up and just cuddle me as her teddy bear as much as she wants. She could run her fingers through my hair and praise me by calling me her "good boy", and sleep like that all night.

It would fix my loneliness for sure.

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Do you find collars attractive ? I do. The thought of having one of my weakest and more vulnerable part of my body attached like this is so hot... It can be a collar with a leash, or a collar with anything she wants written on it and hidden under my clothes while at work/university. I would come back home so horny, for sure...

It would constantly remind me how lucky I am to be in such a relationship.

Do you find collars attractive?

Yes, so much ❤️

Not that much

Not at all

Voting ended onSep 23, 2024

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I like the idea of someday, waking up tied up to the bed and someone is leaning just some centimetres above me. She would tell me "good morning" as if everything was normal and I would feel so vulnerable, the fact that she could just cuddle me, or endlessly edge me until i beg...

It would melt my heart

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I wish someone could slowly and softly kiss and bite me rn, wherever she want on my body, leaving little teeth marks on me.

I would blush so hard...