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They/Them | 20 | Hey, I'm Moe! I'll tag anything if you ask! (Icon by @cottagekids)

[briarbelly]

This has been a struggle to post about, but my partner and I have had a very hard March. We lost my cat due to FIP and a few days after that our other cat developed a UTI and blockage. Alongside this, we've had things in our house break down due to age, personal health issues, and other losses we are still trying to cope with. The emergency vet visits have left us deeply in debt and we're struggling to keep up with the bills while also being able to take care of our remaining pets. I'm doing what I can to get more hours at work, but at the moment we aren't being left with much once expenses roll through. We would greatly appreciate our gofundme being shared so we can try to get at least some of our debts covered. I'm willing to offer cat/other animal doodles for donations over 15usd, though it may be a bit of a wait to get them done. Thank you to everyone who reads this and considers sharing 💕

[gardenergulfie]

Hey me and my wife are homeless and sleeping in my car and it snowed last night and got below freezing and probably will again tonight, my wife doesn’t get a paycheck for a while and so i was wondering if anyone could send money to help the two of us get a hotel room? For a night or two? Till it gets a bit warmer?

If you do want to send anything my PayPal is GardenerGulfie and my Cashapp is Cuuno. If you can’t send money boosting this post would be fantastic.

[cuunos]

and on that note, we are going to be kicked out again in a week. and this time im nine hours away from anyone i know and don't have a start date for my job and have less time to prepare and i don't know what else to do

[cuunos]

cashapp is cuuno

paypal is Gardenergulfie

if i owe you a commission im so sorry i'll work on it i swear

[fern-mage]

December commissions are open! 🦄

If you're interested, please email me at [email protected] or send me a request through my vgen

Here of my terms of service for more important info

(no real slots as we are still in an emergency type situation, going to be taking on as many as I can since we are still in a very rough spot with money after a move to a slightly cheaper place and have to make around $350 for us to be able to pay rent for december)

reblogs are greatly appreciated, thank you for looking!

[maplewhiskers]

Small Batch of Adoptables!

If interested message me here, on tumblr, or on my Toyhouse! They are first come first serve, but I will hold one for up to 24 hours, if asked :]

Reblogs appreciated and super helpful!! Thank you for looking at them :]

When using my designs please credit me in someway, and do not remove the signature that's on the actual image. (I promise the big watermark on this post isn't on the actual image for the design.) They are also not for resale.

Design Pricing and links to their Toyhouse profiles.

Solar- 30 USD Lunar- 30 USD Lucky- 25 USD Fortune- 20 USD

[fern-mage]

I'm opening my commissions again, here's some basic info, and if you're interested in commissioning me please fill out this form (more details and my terms of service are also linked in the form!). Reblogs are really appreciated, and thank you for looking!

[kyra45-helping-others]

Donate to Help Nour a hydrocephelus warrior from Gaza, organized by Nada Husien

Hi, I’m Nada and I am organizing this fundraiser on behalf of my friend Walaa,… Nada Husien needs your support for Help Nour a hydrocephelus

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[fern-mage]

hi I'm opening emergency commissions again!! my partner and I have a few days to get some funds together, our housing situation is super desperate right now and we have less than a week to figure it out and not really any money to figure it out with unfortunately. so, I'm opening these at a slight discount so we can hopefully get this all sorted out before it's too late!

if you're interested, the form to get a commission is here

i also have pay what you want commissions over on my ko-fi!

reblogs are extremely appreciated, thank you so much for looking!

[fourleafisland]

i designed office worker ocs while studying fashion photos and joked about writing an office worker yuri but guys i dont think its a joke anymore

[woozywonder]

Friends

[waterloggedsoliloquy]

the rly heartbreaking thing about having a “scary” mental illness or symptoms on tumblr is that your behavior and lived reality is still seen as demonized, overwhelming, and upsetting but due to overwhelming majority of content surrounding how you live is just easily-digestible positivity posts, people decide to paint themselves as allies to people who exist with those symptoms, but the only posts that they engage with are just “schizophrenic people are lovely! if you have delusions you are beautiful! systems are wonderful!” which does nothing to help people who arent systems/don’t have delusions or hallucinations to learn how to interact with people who do, especially people who are their loved ones or are in distress. any post about how to help approach your friend who’s having a paranoid episode won’t get traction because, despite it being practically useful, it makes people confront the fact that they’re still in some way not equipped to dealing with our symptoms in a practical manner, and that is uncomfortable. the blow to their egos that they’re not made a perfect ally by showing a vocal acceptance for people with ostracized symptoms is too much to bear.

[waterloggedsoliloquy]

anyway, if you want some tips from one delusional person on where to start, here’s some

-ask your friend when they’re <i>not in distress</i> what they personally want support for when they come to you during an episode. everyone’s needs are different, and by asking ahead of time it doesn’t put you BOTH in a state of panic about not knowing what to do and feeling helpless. -do reading on your own about how to help people from trusted mental health resource and advocacy sites. check in with your friend if these sites seem to give useful information or not. -learn the differences between helping debunk a delusion, going along with it, and enabling a delusion (which you should not do). talk with your friend to figure out which tactic they might prefer in a given circumstance and work out effective ways of assisting them by using that tactic.  -understand that while a delusion might not be real, the feelings accompanying it are very real, and are often distressing. express that you take those feelings seriously without enabling the delusion. -your friend may have trouble articulating their needs or wants while in distress, and may have a hard time with decision making. be prepared to make decisions or lead during these times. -guilt and shame are also common emotions. personally i usually can tell when i’m believing something no one else seems to believe, and i feel very embarrassed and ashamed for feeling so strongly about it. your friend might also feel guilty for not feeling in control of themself, or having to rely on someone else to make decisions, or feel ashamed for believing in/fearing something “silly” or “fake”. comforting your friend and making sure they know that you’re someone reliable and trustworthy, someone who takes their feelings and wellbeing seriously, can help them feel more open about their experiences too -if your friend lashes out at you or others, encourage them to step back from the situation. i’d recommend remaining available to talk but giving them a little bit of space. 

if youve noticed that most of these involve “communicating with people openly and honestly about how to help them” then youre on the right track. other delusionhavers if theres something you think i missed feel free to tack on. the rest of you stay quiet 

[meatsnail]

its my gender and i get to pick the appropriate times to misgender myself for comedic purposes

[meatsnail]

i beg you all please stop hiding these in the tags

[thefirstpaleontologist]

Sometimes the energy of a situation is that if an old man or a young girl or a middle aged man having a crisis and referring to yourselves as such has nothing to do with your own gender

Sometimes a gender is just the name of the vibe

[fancifulshenanigans]

Sometimes you wanna call yourself a bitch or a queen or a dude without everyone around you doing surprised Pikachu faces

[fuck-you-hypocrites]

Almost 200 people were murdered in Armenia in 3 days and y'all are still ignoring us.

This is not a war, this is a massacre Azerbaijan and Turkey are committing against the Armenian people.

Turkey's president literally admitted that he wants to finish what his ancestors started. He wants to commit another genocide, and this time he wants to kill us all.

Silence is violence

[fuck-you-hypocrites]

Update: it's been over a month. 2 thousand people were murdered so far. Please, I'm so scared, just reblog this. I'm not asking for a lot, if you can't donate that's fine, just share this.

[martian-martian-martian]

If anyone knows where TO donate please interact?!

[fuck-you-hypocrites]

If you're willing to donate, here is the link:

Established in 1994 in Los Angeles, California, Armenia Fund, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) tax-exempt, non-governmental, non-political corporation.

@rock-and-roll-and-rats Thank you so much, I'm so grateful

[voidvarmit]

:flushed: :flushed: :flushed:

[lakevida]

it’s impossible to communicate concepts to another person in exactly the way you envision them, because nobody experiences reality in exactly the same way, and not only do i refuse to come to terms with this fact but i will spend the rest of my life making my entire mind fall apart over it. this sounds more tormented than it is i just wish i was a mantis shrimp looking at the secret colors

[lakevida]

i would give anything to be you

[keplercryptids]

one of breonna taylor's murderers was charged with wanton endangerment for firing into her neighbors' apartments. not for murderering a young woman in her home. but for property damage. no other charges were filed.

if you can, now would be a good time to donate to the Louisville bail fund. hundreds of protesters are currently marching with a long day ahead.

black lives matter.

[jenny-holzer]

i really thought i would get to go to bed early today but this mosquito born with complete knowledge of the art of war has different plans for me

[jenny-holzer]

this is such a humbling experience im really not shit and never will be