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look, beautiful jedistormpilot moment, but hear me out
finn's arms are over both rey's and poe's shoulders,
rey's arms are one over poe's shoulders and the other around finn, holding poe's hand,
but with poe,,, with poe we can only see how his right arm goes around finn and holds rey's hand, yet his left arm left unseen, definitely now going around rey's waist
in conclusion, poe's hand is on finn's chest
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I know no one wants to hear this
But like everyone’s mad about TROS and honestly, I liked it.
Here were parts that I didn’t like- it can’t be perfect and it definitely can’t be perfect for everyone, but I wanna step away from that. Please, y’all, let’s talk about the good stuff.
I love Finn and Poe’s best friendship and I’m so ready for the potential bromance- let’s be honest, it was so palpable, it basically happened. Fanfic writers, you’re up.
I love the trio, that shit was great, they love each other so much, they fight together so well, they hold each other up. Love that.
Kylo Ren/Ben Solo turned to the light. Like, why would you be upset someone turned to the light? Those fight scenes were awesome. The cut to- cut away- cut to were amazing. No, he didn’t earn full redemption, but yes, he did as much as he could. You can’t fully be redeemed from stuff like that, you can only do the right thing going foreword. It will never be enough. But it is more than nothing.
Kylo Ren/Ben Solo died. So I know people are mad he died- I thought it was the best decision to make with his character. Did he turn to the light? Yes. Good, character arc resolved. Does he deserve a happy ending? No. He dies for the light, and gives himself up. The point of this is he has nothing left for himself. This is okay. He doesn’t deserve anything for himself, except to know that he did a good thing in the end.
The fight scenes. Yes. Stunning. Yes. Gorgeous. Yes. Fast. Yes, giant fucking armies, a shit ton of allies, a hella powerful female protagonist.
Rey is a Palpatine. This drives home you are who you choose to be, not what is in your blood, not what others tell you you are. I like this message. I love it.
Rey’s lightsaber. Beautiful. I love.
Luke showed up. Did his thing with the X-wing. How can you not love that. All of that. And Leia too, being a Jedi, we love that. We Stan. This is beauty and strength and the story our princess deserves.
Leia. Need I say more? She said her son’s fucking name and that’s all it took to turn him. Fucking legend.
Han. We got to see that guy again.
Lando. We got to see him too. He was great.
The stormtrooper deserters. Um, hell yeah the deserters were awesome. We Stan. We love. And especially that last moment- where are you from? Let’s find out. Yes, bro. My father-daughter vibes are going wild.
C3PO was finally a relevant guy. Love him, but he’s finally doing something useful and I love him even more.
Poe Dameron. All of it. Every single moment except his unnecessary attempt at being straight. You can tell his heart isn’t in it- but damn if every scene of him with Finn wasn’t on fire.
Force-sensitive Finn. There’s no words to describe how freaking amazing it is to just- watch the movie and just- I- yes. Just, yes.
Feel free to add. Positive things or thoughtful contributions only, don’t just add negativity. PLEASE. I want to think happy thoughts.
one beautiful thing I learned recently is that the origin of ‘coming out’ was that a person was coming out TO gay society. gay men in nyc in the early 1900s would have debutante-style celebrations where they came out and presented themselves (in high fashion ofc) to other gay folks. it wasnt until the 70s/80s that ‘coming out’ meant coming out FROM a hidden place TO cishet people. anyway my point is that I wanna have a belated debutante party.
how to be okay when I see my deadname
real talk tho, i actually have a strategy for this. it was my wife’s idea. the key is to change your default association with the name. that way, instead of automatically thinking of it as your deadname, you think of it as something else’s name, ideally something you like.
what I did was start a new game on Pokémon Omega Ruby and give my starter, mudkip, my deadname. after many hours of play time, whenever i hear or see my deadname, i think of my beloved mudkip, now grown into a handsome, strong swampert.
if pokémon isn’t ur thing, i think the same strategy could be adapted to a pet or a stuffed animal. just a thought.
this is a beautiful strategy
I have to show this!! To everybody I know!!!!!
This week is Bisexual Awareness Week, so here is a comic about what being bisexual might mean to bisexuals! Also, some other identities!
Alterous attraction be like (in my experience): “I wanna cuddle the shit out of you and share everything about myself and learn everything about you and lay out my soul to you, no romo tho.”
witchy tips for the adhd student
School is starting up again and I know that it’s a hard time for a lot of ADHD students like myself! So here’s some tips, mundane combines with otherworldly, to help get you through the term! ***But please do not use these instead of taking your medication. It’s there to do it’s job, these are there to help it along the way.***
use blue for focus, light purple/lavender for knowledge, and yellow for memory in your highlighters for your notes. not only are these witchy correspondences but using different coloured highlighters will help organize your notes, and help you remember them better.
drink black tea while you’re studying or in class. caffeine is said to help us ADHDers focus since it’s a stimulant, but it’s also said to banish boredom.
keep azurite, fluorite, sapphire, or smoky quartz in your pocket to fidget with in class. these are all stones that help with focus and learning so their correspondences will help you while you have something to fidget with.
burn incense associated with focus and learning while you study, if you can. the scent will also help you remember and associate with what you’re studying.
spell jars for focus and memory are great to keep in your pocket/bag
@orriculum had this fabulous idea for charmed pens which would be great for studying and give you something to fidget with in class
write sigils for focus/memory in the back of your notebooks
lastly and most importantly and not very witchy, STUDY IN INTERVALS. the BIGGEST AND MOST HELPFUL TIP my psychologist ever gave me was study in intervals, study for 10-15 minutes, take a break for 10-15 minutes. executive dysfunction and the adhd mind does not like the idea of sitting down for hours and doing one thing. so don’t even try. it won’t work. you’ll be much more successful with studying in intervals.
Sandy Stone also documented that in this manifesto over thirty years ago. Transmisogyny is the main/entire reason behind “you need dysphoria to be trans” even existing, and they went as far as to create “charm schools” to enforce it
Ah so that’s even more reason why transmed rhetoric sounds so close to terf rhetoric when you do more critical analysis of it,
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Friends, fam, shapeshifters: We’ve been making chest binders for five years. That’s five years we’ve been making underwear that fits for folks who want it. Five years we’ve been sourcing spandex and sewing in zippers. Five years we’ve been sticking thank-you notes on our walls. We’re so grateful
Our five-year anniversary giveaway is up and running! Get those entries in before Trans Day of Visibility for a chance to win one of seven binders - three of which will be custom prints!
Thanks always, y'all.
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the most unrealistic thing about harry potter
is that no teacher ever called him James by accident, or that Ron never was called “Bill-, eh Charl-, no Per-, argh!”
As a younger sister who knows this struggle all too well: THIS IS REAL. Pretty sure 70% of my past teachers still think I’m called what my sister is called in fact.
Imagine Fred being called Percy by McGonagall accidentally and then he gets so offended that he refers to her by “Professor [insert any other name but McGonagall” for the rest of the year, costing Gryffindor a considerable amount of points one at a time.
From then on, she vows to just call them all Mr Weasley.
Until Ginny comes along and she calls her Mr Weasley by accident and Ginny “accidentally’ calls her Sir and it starts again.
It’s lightly off-topic but also slightly relevant but I have long cherished this mental image of Professor Snape saying something snappish to Harry in just the wrong tone of voice and Harry absentmindedly, wearily, and completely accidentally responding with, “Yes, Aunt Petunia.”
which would have all kinds of additional ramifications when you remember snape is the only one who knew petunia personally
sometimes u just gotta realise everyone transitions at their own pace and just because ur not where someone else is/was in their transition doesn’t mean you’re in any way ‘behind’ or not doing it right
Me on the internet: punks not dead! Viva la révolucion! Punch a Nazi! In! The! Face!
Me in real life, being purposefully misgendered: wow what else could I do than cry in my room?? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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WHY am I so UNCOMFORTABLE in my own SKIN
I think the worse-better part is realizing that not everyone feels this way? And it can be different?
