i wake up certain days thinking about unpopular things about my bias like:
do they have stretch marks?
do they have acne problems under their make up?
how many times have they felt horny this week?
are they getting laid?
do they feel extremely annoyed everytime they have to shave?
are they pooping well?
are they sleeping well?
do they get cuddly everytime they get sick?
are they tired and unmotivated like most of the young adult population around the world?
how many times have they faked smiles just to make us happy?
how many times have they cried in their sleep after hearing hate from antis?
have they learned to ignore it?
have they looked themselves in the mirror and think “what the hell am i doing?” lately?
do they look at us and think “this is one of the reasons i am doing this”?
are they in love?
are they really happy?
i think one of the main problems about kpop is the fact that they sell us perfect people and we make the mistake to buy it. they are people with flaws and problems like us. dont idolize them to the point of seeing them like gods. they, like you and me, could be having all kinds of problems but it’s their job to conceal them; it’s our job to acknowledge them and embrace them like we do with ourselves, friends and family. love the human side as much as you love the idol.
