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[mercury-minded]

what signs do I attract?

this is a question that gets asked a lot around here - so I thought I’d give a quick run-down on some parts of your chart that you can look at for attraction! 

💐 we tend to attract those who have personal planets in these signs:

1. Sign on 7th House Cusp ☯

a.k.a. the descendant, here we attract what we’re not = “opposites attract”. 

2. Sign on 11th House Cusp 🥂

the house of friendships/social circles; people with this sign may admire you and be your biggest fans!  

3. Sign on 5th House Cusp 💞

house of love and pleasure - this is the type of energy you are romantically drawn to. 

4. Venus Sign ♀

usually will get along great with people who have this sign. the bond is typically super quick! 

5. Mars Sign ♂  

you may not always get along with this sign but you find them always popping up in your life. 

6. Eros 💥

your eros is super drawn to those with personal planets in the opposite sign. it’s an instant, raw attraction. 

💐 you may also find yourself attracting a lot the element you lack.

of course, you can dig way deeper than this, and as always, aspects will always play a role as well 😍

xx

[mercury-minded]

having Lilith in the 10th (conjunct your sun) is having to leave a job (and eventually the state 💀 lol) because the rumors and gossip surrounding you and your personal life became stalkerish/obsessive

[mercury-minded]

Aspects with Saturn

hard aspects would include: squares, oppositions, semisquares, and even conjunctions

soft aspects would include: sextiles, semisextiles, and trines

Sun ☀️

Hard

needs to be needed

always trying to prove yourself

self-deprecating 

fear of being wrong

Soft

perfectionist

very structured/disciplined

dependable and loyal

sticks to morals

Moon 🌙

Hard

own worst critic

builds strong walls to protect sensitivity

strong sense of responsibility

difficulties with vulnerability

Soft

feels a need to “rescue” others

level-headed

patient and reliable

can be overly cautious

Mercury 💭

Hard

worrier

ambitious and methodical

sarcastic

reserved with expression

Soft

good memory

practical

good teachers

organized

Venus 💖

Hard

feels it’s easier to live without than to have loved and lost

inhibited affections

can come across as cold or distant

feels a sense of duty in relationships

Soft

known for loyalty and faithfulness

compromising

seeks security

takes everything in stride

Mars 🔥

Hard

vacillates between extremes

repressive of urges

can be overly critical

holds self back

Soft

good judgement and common sense

self-disciplined

may work best alone

hard worker 

by no means am I implying that you are doomed if you have hard aspects, but they’re considered challenging for a reason. they represent obstacles you’ll have to overcome, and in Saturn’s case - past karma that needs to be resolved. there is always a lesson to be learned where Saturn is involved. 

thanks for reading 🔮

[mercury-minded]

Okay so I have sun Leo 11 and mercury Leo 11 and Sagittarius moon 3 and Venus Virgo 12 When people talk to me mainly guys I find cute and attract I can’t help but get happy and giddy mainly because I feel like for once I’m actually gonna make a friend! But then it’s like I also can’t help but flirt a little but that’s just how I keep things light like I don’t do it cuz I wanna ya know fuck or date em???) Im so confused!! I confuse myself!! Please esplain!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

you have such a social, optimistic fire sign as your moon sign and it’s in the house of communication. you have another friendly, warm fire sign as your sun and mercury in the house of friendships. I think it all makes a lot of sense :) being bright and giddy and flirty is in the stars for you 😉💞

[mercury-minded]

(If you’re up to it) venus conjunct pluto culture? ♥️

🌹 self-indulgent tendencies

🖤 advocate for social justice

🌹 sexualized

🖤 can be possessive of loved ones

🌹 goes all in when in love

xx

[mercury-minded]

the 2nd house post... man imagine having scorpio on the 2nd cusp + pluto & chiron in 2nd too. I'll probably never experience confidence lol

let’s imagine instead the minerva aspect of pluto, and the healed wounds of chiron: in the 2nd house, an individual who is compassionate, giving, and resourceful. they find satisfaction and their self-worth through generosity and the sharing of their material possessions. confidence is bolstered by offering support to others, both material and spiritual. 

you reap what you sow! xx

[mercury-minded]

Hi! I was wondering if there's an aspect or placement that might be the cause of this: I can't cry unless I talk to someone. Like, I can't just lay in my bed and cry into my pillow whenever I feel sad like people do in the movies. I have to call my friend or my parents and talk about my problems, then cry. I can't even force it. I try sooo hard to cry sometimes but it just won't come out even if I feel like I have to cry. Any ideas? Certain moon aspects maybe? Thanks if you can help!! <3

heyhey! really quickly, these are what popped to mind:

Air Moons (esp Gemini and Libra)

Moon in 3rd or 11th house

Moon square/conjunct Mercury

Moon conjunct Uranus

out of curiosity what are your placements??

if anyone wants to add their thoughts please do!!

[mercury-minded]

What are some reasons that make sun and Venus in 7th house a bad placement???

I mean generally they aren’t considered as such. venus is a benefic, and especially when in the 7th house, I’d imagine it’d need to be pretty harshly aspected in order for there to be any real negative manifestations. with the sun in the 7th, it’s kinda the same idea. with negative aspects there may be issues with being alone, but honestly they’re not bad placements at alllll ☀️ xx

[mercury-minded]

Can you do a Venus in 5th & Venus in 8th pros and cons please ❤

venus in 5th 🥂

pros: 

creative talent

open and affectionate

often popular and playful

someone always has a crush on them

optimistic outlook

party animal

cons:

overindulgent

lazy

heartbreaker

venus in 8th 🌹

pros:

soulful relationships

magnetic aura

sex as an art

often inherits wealth

charming af

committed and passionate

cons:

melodramatic

undisciplined

jealous

pros = soft aspects, cons = harsh aspects

xx

[mercury-minded]

do you ever really have a grasp on water and air signs? so quickly they can slip through your fingers, drifting lightly and effortlessly further and further away…into their own minds - vast as the sky and deep as the oceans

[mercury-minded]

Do you know placements that indicate someone being EXTREMELY impatient ? Like I hate SLOW people. People walking slow, speaking slow like wtf I can’t stand that 😂😂😂😂

okay so first thing that popped into my head would be having a strong mercury and mars presence. expanding on that would be having personal planets and/or ASC in gemini, virgo, aries, and scorpio.

[mercury-minded]

Placements for a very dirty laugh? 😂

I am not gonna lie, I have no idea what a dirty laugh even means 😅 like rough? gravelly? I’ve never heard a laugh described like that before lmao

however here’s my best guess 🤞🏼:

mars/jupiter/uranus in 2nd house

fire signs on 2nd house cusp

mercury/mars aspects

mercury/uranus aspects

xx

[mercury-minded]

What about placements for a high pitch/girly laugh?

hihi 🤗

I’m thinking these:

air signs on the 2nd house cusp (esp. gemini and libra)

mercury-venus aspects

mercury-moon aspects

moon/venus in the 2nd house

xx

[mercury-minded]

Ahahahahha with dirty laugh I meant for example, if your laugh is very dark/deep like you laugh like a witch with spitefulness/in a malicious way even though it’s not intended to be 😂

ooooh okay I gotchu I gotchu 😂

so let’s try these!:

mars/pluto/uranus in 2nd house

gonna stick with fire signs on 2nd house cusp (also maybe scorpio…)

mercury-mars aspects

mercury-pluto aspects

mercury-uranus aspects

not a whole lot different, but Pluto definitely needed to be added here :) xx

[mercury-minded]

I heard that when Mars transits your 5th house, it can mean a possibility of a pregnancy. Do you think this is true it's for science 😂😂😂

I could see that! 🧐 I tend to think of mars, jupiter, and saturn (sometimes uranus/pluto) when it comes to the 5th house and pregnancy. I think you need to take a look at its aspects too though, especially if it has any with your natal sun, moon, or NN! there’s a whole lot more that goes into it than just one planet’s transit, but it’s a good place to start ✨

[mercury-minded]

What the Signs can Learn from their Quincunxes 💥

❗️using the sign’s archetypes:

♈︎ Aries can learn sensitivity and perseverance from Virgo, and mystique and intuitiveness from Scorpio

♉︎ Taurus can learn compromise and cooperation from Libra, and open-mindedness and magnanimity from Sagittarius

♊︎ Gemini can learn tenacity and self-sufficiency from Scorpio, and leadership and prudence from Capricorn

♋︎ Cancer can learn straightforwardness and exploration from Sagittarius, and spontaneity and objectivity from Aquarius

♌︎ Leo can learn patience and pragmatism from Capricorn, and humility and subtlety from Pisces

♍︎ Virgo can learn self-confidence and assertiveness from Aries, and candor and impulsivity from Aquarius

♎︎ Libra can learn persistence and will-power from Taurus, and receptivity and spirituality from Pisces

♏︎ Scorpio can learn daring and enthusiasm from Aries, and adaptability and detachment from Gemini

♐︎ Sagittarius can learn endurance and constancy from Taurus, and intimacy and sensibility from Cancer

♑︎ Capricorn can learn versatility and playfulness from Gemini, and idealism and optimism from Leo

♒︎ Aquarius can learn attachment and tact from Cancer, and organization and vulnerability from Virgo

♓︎ Pisces can learn ambition and courage from Leo, and balance and composure from Libra

[mercury-minded]

can you tell he’s a Sagittarius rising with a 9th house stellium? 😂😍