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The more disciplined you are,
The more easier your life will be 💋
Self Discipline is a crucial factor for your success, we are living in a world full of distractions bombarded by things that promise us happiness
Self discipline is hard and it will take way longer than you think but know it is worth it!
Define a goal worth fighting for, your life can change if you accomplish this goal
This goal will be the guiding light to the shore, look within yourself and look for the pillars in life: life, family, money, health and power
Money will help you reshape your life and have the biggest impact in your learning,experience, and the elevation of your life
Remove distractions, people who control their environment are the people who control their lives!
The goal comes first! The goal you pick will change your life, it needs to be priority, everything else should fall in 2nd place
Don’t wait for it to feel right, most people are average because they give up, you have to keep going
MOTIVATION is overrated! People talk too much about about trying to lose weight or things that they’re gon do! Don’t be them!
Force yourself, you are not your body, you are your MIND!
People only look at end result! Know that you won’t have any audience throughout your journey but remind yourself that the end result will be worth it
Learn to rest not quit
Reward yourself to recharge
Never take failure too deep,
It can take 100 failures
But a single right move/idea can change your life. Keep getting better and try again.
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Movies I learned sugar skills from
We all know Marilyn Monroe, Angelina Jolie, and Halle Berry are some of the gems we have in movies now. But I’ve watched a lot of movies that helped me gain the sugar personas I had and I want to share some of those with you all.
Girlfriend experience
This is one of the more popular movies for sex workers and it is now a tv series. I personally liked it because I was ending a relationship while I was sugaring and I did feel some of the ways Christine felt.
Another thing I loved about this movie was the documentation and research this girl did on her clients. I use to have a notebook filled with all my POTs and SDs info, status, job info, likes and dislikes, turn ons, etc. My ex stole it a while ago but lucky for me I didn’t write down searchable info, even the names were in code.
I would recommend this as the first to watch before you binge watch sex work movies like I did.
Memoirs of a geisha
This is one of my personal favorites because I love the Asian culture when it comes to beauty. The grace, the discipline, and the routine of these woman is really what got me.
When I saw that one look method I was determined to get it to work for me. The Kama Sutra movie below also helped me achieve this. But nothing gets a man across the room faster than an enchanting look from a beautiful woman in their direction.
From this movie I was able to learn how to move more gracefully which is very attractive for men who like “exotic” women. So if you got hips sway them, if you have long legs be swift with your steps, and if your hand are flawless move them like a water bender on avatar (anime joke).
The Treacherous
This movie is very gory so if that’s not your thing don’t watch it. But it does show some intense training for courtesans (old world Asia times).
The seductiveness of these women turned me on so I knew the same methods would turn any man on too. My favorite seductive move is the removing of clothes shown in the beginning scenes where the man challenged the woman to a strip game.
Another scene that showed me a lot of gems was the actual training of the women and how they were to taught to please. I even got some old school hoe tips for my Vag in this movie.
Kama Sutra
Yes it is spelled right and yes it is about using Karma Sutra. If you want a movie example of how some Karma Sutra techniques work then look no further.
This movie showed me how equally important foreplay is for men as it is for us. It showed little snippets of how even feeding can be sensual for men. My favorite tip from the movie would have to be the eye movements of the women while they danced. Those eyes have gotten me compliments from many dance teachers because they could see sexiness in my eyes.
Just look at these eyes:
Etiquette of a mistress
In case you haven’t noticed by now I watch a lot of Asian movies. This one in particular is informative and funny so you’ll really enjoy watching it.
If you’re a sugar that deals with a lot of married men this movie is for you. It shows you how to be properly discrete with your time together and how to deal with the cons of a married man. The best part of this movie is it shows the perspective of a veteran and a newbie, so I know my vets will enjoy this if they or helping any newbies out there.
Wolf on wall street
This is of course on here because of the famous Naomi character that we love so much. Her sharp tongue is definitely needed when you are trying to pass through all the BS talk. But another thing to pay attention to is her physical presentation of herself. Her style with her looks was like devil in a red dress but with diamonds add.
Two can play that game
This one is mostly for my brown SBs who are close to their mid 20s.
In the 2000s this movie was like the black woman’s player guide. I’ve used many of these strategies to get men back on track to what I wanted. My little black dress is still in the closet waiting for the day my fiance acts up.
One thing from that movie I don’t do is flaunt another man because doing that in this world can severe ties real quick.
A lot of people focus on Shante in this movie but I also loved watching Conny too. Mainly because I love Gabrielle Union’s acting especially in Being Mary Jane.
Whoresglory
I didn’t learn much from this movie for my personal gain but I did learn a lot about sex work around the world. So if you’re just interested in a movie that shows you different kinds of sex workers watch this.
Breakfast at Tiffany
I love a good Audrey Hepburn movie because her white woman swag is just as awesome as Marilyn’s. She taught me how to be sweet and
youthful while also being mysterious and unavailable.
Being sweet and youthful is what kept my men feeling lucky to have me. But being mysterious and unavailable at times is what kept them on their toes and more willing do what was needed to “secure” me.
Show Girls
I’m starting to think I should’ve tried stripping because sexy dancing is one of my favorite things to do. Expressing with my body is like art to me but I was probably right not to strip, I would get addicted.
This movie however made me more glamorous and aggressive when it came to my sexy looks. I never got a chance to see real show girls in Vegas but I’m pretty sure I would be in awe by them. I’ve never been a glamorous person but after this movie I started adding a little shimmer and glitter to my style.
Chicago
Again with the dancing lol, I’m sorry ladies but these women, even with out the dancing were phenomenal. The He Made Me Do It song was an all time favorite for me.
But as far as lessons I started to see how competitive women could be when it comes to money and credibility/fame.
I learned on movies like this how to out smart them when it comes to whales.There have been many new girls who tried taking my main SD away from me but they couldn’t get to my relationship quality. Even when girls did get some dates from other SDs of mine they didn’t last long. So please remember ladies quality and good relationships always wins when it comes to real SDs.
Josephine Baker Biography
My girl next door persona has always got me the most money. So when I saw this biography I started mastering it. Her happy demeanor and tiny voice was so close to mine it wasn’t hard to practice.
What made me the happiest, was that even though she was sweet, innocent, and goofy she was also sensual. She knew how to express her sexuality without taking away from her innocence.
The end of the movie was sad and showed a lot of her flaws but she was still iconic.
Confessions of a Brazilian Call Girl
I can’t remember if this is based on a true story are not but it’s amazing. Especially with the online social platforms we have now, this movie has been very useful. This woman on here became a high class call girl based on online status alone.
She was also another person I looked to for glam sexuality and showed many women that even average women can dominate the sex world. There were bad parts like her cockiness and drug use but if she would’ve stayed in her grind she would’ve still been raking in millions. One thing this movie can show you (on the bad side) is that you should never try to “Keep up with the Jones” even in the sex world because it’s never greener on the other side.
Call Me: The Rise and fall of Hiede Fliess
If you don’t know Hiede Fliess, look her up now. She’s the greatest when it comes to call girls. The tactics she used to get where she was is amazing. She really knew how to keep connections with her clients and how to get other girls money.
I don’t know what she does now but I do respect the contributions she’s made to the sex work industry. If you’re in LA or Hollywood you should really watch this movie.
Some notable tv women I watch
Joseline Hernandez
She’s so unapologetic about who she is and will get money by any means necessary. Her and Cardi B are like alter egos I wish I had sometimes.
Cardi B
She is one of the realest woman I’ve seen on TV and she used what she had to get her fame. Now that she got it she is doing here to the max and I’m happy for her.
Nene Lakes
I can see myself being like Nene when I get older and wealthier. She is a star in many forms and doesn’t let these women or her man interfere with her money. She went from housewife to breadwinner even outside of the show.
Whitley Gilbert
I get all my bougie ways from Ms. Whitley lol. Really she was a good representation of a high class but down to earth black woman for me. She started out a little too much for me but after some seasons she grew on me. I’m always a sucker for tiny voiced women because mines is tiny too (Not as annoying as hers).
Tasha Patrick
Now I’m going to be honest I just started watching power but I love this women’s attitude. She’s sexy, ride or die, and also strategically vengeful. I might update this after I finish the show but for now that’s all I have to say.
Phaedra Parks
This woman beats me in being bougie and extra. I’ve never seen anyone who goes all out like she does. When I was in college I always wanted to be a like southern belle with curves so when this show came on I was tuned in. If you ever wanted to see an example of a curvy southern belle that can still get a little ghetto, Here she is.
This list is just a few of the many women I’ve watched to perfect my personas.
Now, when I switch my persona it’s not to completely change who I am but helps me adapt to different environments.
For example: If my SD likes to watch football games from his box then I’m not going to go into my prim and proper mode, I’m going to bring out girl next door me.
Depending on what your daddy likes you’re going to be put in different types of atmosphere and if you’re black than your going to need to adapt. The way to more opportunities is by building your credibility which is usually based on how much people like you. You re like an undercover celebrity lol.
Now if you don’t want to change that’s fine but that’s what’s work for me.
I change up like a Johnny Depp Movie role
Hope this all was helpful to you ladies.
Much Love T
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Sex Work Affirmations
Men love giving me money.
I get whatever I want from men.
I use men to achieve wealth and abundance.
I use men’s sexual desires towards me to make money.
I make unlimited amount of money from men.
I attract generous men with wealth and abundance.
I attract sugar daddies and sponsors daily.
Generous men with wealth and abundance are attracted to me.
Generous men with wealth and abundance want to be with me.
Men give me money to spend time with me.
Men give me money to make me happy.
It is effortless to make money from men.
I make money from men everyday.
Men pay me because I’m beautiful.
Men pay me because I’m worthy.
Men love to take care of me.
Men love paying all my bills.
Men love buying me gifts.
Men love to spend money on me.
Men love to take me shopping.
Dear Universe,
Every time I spend my money, may that money that I just spent come back to me quickly, easily and most importantly EXPONENTIALIZED!
“The low-maintenance woman, the ideal woman, has no appetite. This is not to say that she refuses food, sex, romance, emotional effort; to refuse is petulant, which is ironically more demanding. The woman without appetite politely finishes what’s on her plate, and declines seconds. She is satisfied and satisfiable.
A man’s appetite can be hearty, but a woman with an appetite is always voracious: her hunger always overreaches, because it is not supposed to exist. If she wants food, she is a glutton. If she wants sex, she is a slut. If she wants emotional care-taking, she is a high-maintenance bitch or, worse, an “attention whore”: an amalgam of sex-hunger and care-hunger, greedy not only to be fucked and paid but, most unforgivably of all, to be noticed.”
— Hunger Makes Me, Jess Zimmerman
Christ, this article made me legit well up in tears at work…
“Women talk ourselves into needing less, because we’re not supposed to want more—or because we know we won’t get more, and we don’t want to feel unsatisfied. We reduce our needs for food, for space, for respect, for help, for love and affection, for being noticed, according to what we think we’re allowed to have. Sometimes we tell ourselves that we can live without it, even that we don’t want it. But it’s not that we don’t want more. It’s that we don’t want to be seen asking for it. And when it comes to romance, women always, always need to ask.”
THIS. SO FUCKING THIS.
Tips on manipulating men ?
You might not like my answer; but read. Read MULTIPLE works. The goal of manipulation is to change people’s perception of you.
I feel like everyone recommends Ho Tactics and it seems to have been effective. I couldn’t make it past the first chapter though, so I never read it. The works of Robert Greene have great strategy (The Art of Seduction, 48 Laws of Power, 33 Strategies of War) and are a gateway.
My advice would be to look into Philosophy, Psychology & Sociology which make up Social Engineering (strategy, deception, etc.). To get the ball rolling, here are some works that I recommend in no particular order:
The Prince – Niccolò Machiavelli
The Art of War – Sun Tzu
Hagakure – Yamamoto Tsunetomo
Strategy - B.H. Liddell Hart
On War - Carl von Clauswitz
Influence: Science and Practice (The Psychology of Persuasion) – Robert Cialdini
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Dale Carnegie
Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking – Chris Hadnagy
Covert Persuasion: Psychological Tactics and Tricks to Win the Game – Kevin Hogan & James Speakman
Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again – David J. Lieberman
Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World - Jack Weatherford
The Art of Worldly Wisdom - Baltasar Gracián y Morales
It’s Not All About Me: The Top Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport with Anyone – Robin Dreeke
What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People – Joe Navarro
Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage – Paul Ekman
A very important thing before you even get into manipulation is learning how to control yourself and understanding why you think and act the way you do. Here’s some recommendations:
Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind – Al Ries & Jack Trout
Thinking, Fast and Slow – Daniel Kahneman
Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely
The Social Animal – David Brooks
The Laws of Human Nature – Robert Greene
Philosophy also plays a major role. I quite enjoy the works, and apply some of the philosophical outlooks of Thucydides, Seneca the Younger, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Zeno of Citium.
I don’t know if you were more referring to physical presentation, or body language, etc. for manipulation, but this is pretty solid. You don’t have to read everything, but be sure to read something.
IM HAVING THE HARDEST TIME
Working on my new website 😭 it’s been so cold and I’ve been feeling so shitty so I currently have no photos to use. And then I figured I would just do the rest and write the copy and now I’m totally blanking. I won’t be working until jan 12 but still! I feel like I need to get this finished with!
This post is 2 years old I think... I JUST finished my site lol
Julia Alvarez, “Gaining My Self Back”
the fact that not liking competition makes me feel so brutally maladjusted to this world REALLY says something about how awful everything is. i want to just BE……..i don’t need anything else……i need no recognition, no success, nothing. i just want to live without other people/my own voice that has been massively influenced by others to pressure me into thinking that simply being alive and loving isn’t enough
Than you so much for providing that Canadian SW info. You're a life saver. Question, I have a POT who wants me to request money from him via Paypal... Is there a safe way to do this to protect my identity and my $$? Thanks
I don’t EVER use PayPal for work, it’s hard to hide your info (I did it by creating a business account years ago) but I still don’t feel comfortable using it and it’s not SW friendly so a man could complain and get that money taken away from you. I don’t think it’s worth it.
Do me a favor okay? Stop trying to go back to who you were before. Before you were raped, before you got sick before an eating disorder took over your life. stop trying to be who you were five, ten, twenty years ago. Before the mental illness took over, before he died, back before your parents split or you lost your best friend.
You are NOT the same person as before. You never will be again. Give up the idolization of “before” and be who you are now. Be the you AFTER.
I have this anxiety about spending a large amount of money on a single thing, and earlier this year I decided I wanted a MacBook. At the end of every week I take the money I make and put it in different envelopes. Like 40% rent and bills, 40% saving 10% spending 10% special saving. So I usually use my "special saving" for like a trip, or fillers or things I don't really NEED. So I decided to make that one for my MacBook and I hit the amount quite quickly but now it's just been sitting there for months because the idea of going to apple and it just being GONE is so stressful. lol I grew up poor and am now just obsessed with hoarding my cash and even though I want this MacBook so bad I haven't been able to do it.
Hey, I was wondering do you know anything about registering your escort name as business. Does it reduce suspicion from the bank?
Hey sorry I'm not sure about that. Someone recently told me that it's easy to look up who registered the name for the DBA so it might not be a great idea.