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Sometimes I do just react to things without realizing what I said or did. Also, I do have to respect and obey my wife's friends too. I should just stop and think before I say and do things, and many times I don't deliberately disobey my wife or break one of her rules. I do have to be totally honest with my wife and I am not allowed to keep secrets.
I do receive a maintenance spanking every week. My wife insisted on it once we were married. It does gives us time to discuss issues and problems with our marriage. It did change my behavior.
After I graduated from college, all of my bosses have been women. When I was working for my first woman boss, I did everything necessary to keep my job. This way too, I got raises and promotions. My spankings did not appear on my employee records, but they were logged and that log was passed on to my next woman boss.
When I was first dating my wife, I told her that I wanted her clean shaven down there. But things sure changed after she gave me my first spanking. Since it was love at first sight with her, I did have to allow her to keep me clean shaven down there.
The truth is, it does matter who decides. Girls have far better leadership skills than boys. So that’s another reason to let her lead and to allow her to lock on the chastity device.
I did find out that girls had better leadership skills and smarter than me when I was in high school and even more so in college. If I wanted good grades in college, I would team up with a woman to do assignments and projects. After I graduated from college, all of my bosses have been women. My dad did teach me to trust a woman's judgement, and I am married now.
When I married my wife, I did sell my house and moved into her big house. I wasn't used to be living with aa woman before. She did teach me about the toilet lid and clean up the bathroom after I used it. I also had to learn to do things her way and up to her standards. She taught me this way too.
My dad was my role model and I do think my parents had a FLR marriage, although I never saw my mother spank my dad. My dad was a traveling salesman so my discipline was left to my mom. My dad did teach me that the wife is always right and I should trust her judgement. Although he died before I was married, his advise was helpful for when I was dating and when I married my wife. He did also teach me to criticize what clothes she chooses to wear too.
I did date a woman for about two years that owned and trained horses. I really liked her and we even looked at houses to buy. She did take me to her stables and to horse tackle shops too. She also taught me to be a better boyfriend in her stables too. I was disappointed when she stoped dating me and eventually married someone else. She was a very good teacher too. I did learn a lot.
Your wife has made a point of spanking you whenever you misbehave, wherever you misbehave!
Your first happened on a hike in the woods, and you were petrified that someone would walk by.
But no one did, and your wife was quite happy with your contrite behavior when out doors for a very long time.
However, you were in the back yard and yelled at your wife, not rudely, but you raised your voice! She is no uncertain terms ordered you to go fetch the wooden paddle and bring it to her immediately
your spanking was long, even producing that tell tale grey area which the red turns into, and you understand that the neighbors heard everything. You were ordered to go stand in the USUAL corner in the house, and you heard the neighbor chatting and clinking glasses while you walked ( What was that comment you did not hear but had uproarious laughter)
You promised yourself you would always behave perfectly when out of thehouse (and in the house), but promises are made to be forgotten and broken.
Months later, your sister in law was visiting when you goofed, and she got to watch you be spanked.
A week later, you were still reluctant to visit her entire family, including her sister. You understood that they would all know for certain, what they only assumed existed in your marriage.
My wife likes to take me on long walks in the woods too. That way we do talk about problems and issues in our marriage. I do trust my wife's judgement and our issues do get resolved that way.
Women and wives are very good at working with each other, when they have common goals. They do anything to make sure their friends have good relationships.
This article is primarily for men, though women are invited to read it as well. Understanding male psychology can enrich their perspective on relationships, particularly in the context of a Female Led Relationship (FLR).
A Common Scenario in Traditional Relationships
In a traditional loving relationship, when a man gets an erection while with his partner, the first thought that typically crosses his mind is how to translate that arousal into action—ultimately leading to orgasm. Similarly, whenever the woman kisses or cuddles with him, he often views it as foreplay, expecting it to ultimately lead to sex, ejaculation and orgasm.
This isn't a critique of men; it's simply how men are wired. There’s nothing right or wrong about this. However, in the context of an FLR, this behavior introduces unique challenges.
The Twist in an FLR
Most men enter an FLR seeking to fulfill fantasies such as spanking, pegging, feminization, or chastity, etc. These fantasies often depend on the woman adopting a dominant role. But here’s the twist: many dominant women can feel pressured in these scenarios. Let’s look into it with an example of Jane and John, who are a couple exploring a Female Led Relationship.
Jane knows that her partner, John, becomes aroused whenever she asserts dominance. Whether she’s asking for oral worship, a massage, or obedience, John’s arousal often leads to subtle attempts to shift the act of service toward sexual intercourse. If Jane denies him, John may feel frustrated or disappointed, and that unspoken pressure can make Jane feel as though she doesn’t have complete control.
As a result, the dominance John craves feels forced and unnatural to Jane. This dynamic undermines the very foundation of an FLR: her genuine sense of power and his authentic submission.
A Shift in Perspective
The first and foremost solution to this scenario is obviously communicating with each other. Jane and John need to discuss these challenges openly. However, there’s also a deeper lesson for submissive men: focusing on her pleasure, even when aroused, is an incredible act of submission—and one that enhances her sense of dominance.
When you, as a submissive man, have an erection but resist steering the situation toward your own satisfaction, it’s a powerful statement of your devotion.
Let her feel your erection through your pants while you kiss her passionately.
Let her see your arousal as you worship her body or pleasure her orally.
Let her know you’re turned on even while you perform daily chores.
The key is to do absolutely nothing for your own erection. Don’t seek attention or relief. Instead, let her notice it naturally. If she wants to act on it, she will. If not, let it be. By releasing her from any obligation to address your arousal, you’re giving her the freedom to prioritize her desires entirely.
Why This Matters
When your desire for orgasm is overpowered by your devotion to her pleasure, it magnifies her sense of control and power. She’ll feel prioritized, desired, and, most importantly, unburdened by any expectation to return the favor.
This shift also deepens emotional intimacy. Long kisses, cuddling sessions, or moments of physical closeness that don’t lead to sex make her feel truly loved and valued. They signal that your focus isn’t just on your own gratification but on her overall well-being and happiness. For women like Jane, this emotional satisfaction often translates into a more natural and confident expression of dominance.
Addressing Common Concerns
Some submissive men might wonder: “How long can I sustain this level of self-restraint?” or “What if she ignores me completely?” These are valid concerns, and the answer lies in mutual understanding and clear communication. An FLR isn’t about neglecting one partner’s needs but rather aligning both partners’ desires in a way that prioritizes her control.
By showing consistent devotion and restraint, you’ll likely find that your partner becomes more confident in her dominance. Over time, this confidence often leads to a more fulfilling dynamic for both partners. Once she knows that her pleasure is the ultimate priority, she herself will become more dominant and kinky. I’m telling this from personal experience.
Conclusion
Letting your mistress notice your erection without acting on it is a profound act of submission. It’s a way of telling her that her pleasure and satisfaction are your only priorities. When she feels powerful, loved, and unpressured, she’ll naturally step into her role as the dominant partner—not out of obligation, but because she wants to.
Ultimately, this dynamic strengthens your bond, creating a relationship rooted in trust, intimacy, and mutual satisfaction.
I have always been told that you do get a more accurate temperature reading this way. When I was still in school and I didn't study enough for a test, I pretended to be sick and I was sent to the nurse's office. My temp was always taken this way. If the nurse knew I was pretending, my mother gave the nurse permission to spank me.
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