heartbreak, you know, drives a big black car

liz. 35. queer. she or they. terminal supernatural/deancas elder. somehow this has become a sports blog: 🏈🐅🧡 bengals ⚾️💙❤️ phillies 🏀🦌💚 bucks 🏒🪽🧡 flyers you will also find 9-1-1 + watcher + lots of other gay stuff

[whatladybird]

my poetry masterlist

I lost that folded piece of paper - I brought you your first Christmas tree - twister - laughter - mostly I am angry - You wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and you forget that he’s dead. - “try art therapy” - Let’s talk about the man with the black car - Hope is a thing with feathers - when they said goodbye - without him, you– - simple - fall - 2008 - Rabbits - a list of rules established as I go / remember - my friend - red eyes - the last day - I want to walk through the front door of you - Greatest Hits - I hate the way you say my name - necessary - seasons - the definition of insanity - I'm sorry that I died - The Rules Are Simple - planes - once I liked the sky Vonnegut - Tulips - the hand that holds the gun - the year you died - the first time I say I love you - once I watched a bird - I am disintegrating - hands - jitters - Your god is Old - last letter - I have fought on the field with the horsemen - myth - middle of the night - the angel asked me about free will - bug bite - the lightning - it'll last longer - you keep a secret under your tongue - if cas was here/he's not - sonnet for the rebar in my lover's stomach - I saw the angel in the marble - cast - riddle

[whatladybird]

bonjour from my hotel balcony in paris!!

[saryasy]

always nosy, always in everybody's business

[jadexwasabi-jb9]

[snapcracklepop-myjoints]

just had a disconcerting thought

[snapcracklepop-myjoints]

how do u pronounce georg of spiders fame

gay-org

george

other

Remaining time: 4 days 14 hours

[djockstrap]

That's why I love you. I love you, Pete. I love–

[dzekdzek]

daily affirmations:

I am not a jinx to the team I am rooting for

I am allowed to watch a game because my viewership will not alter the outcome of the game

I am but a drop in the bucket and the world is not affected by me watching a game

The score did not change because you looked at it funny

[polls-by-fip]

im curious about a specific generational divide

regardless of you being queer or not, did your parents ever gave you the "if you turn out to be gay it would be fine" talk, before you ever had the chance to say anything on your own about that?

gen z, yes

gen z, no

millenial, yes

millenial, no

gen x, yes

gen X, no

baby boomer, yes

baby boomer, no

Remaining time: 3 days 38 minutes

because it happened to me and im wondering if this was a product of the ongoing cultural change around gay issues. before i ever had the chance to say to my parents "i am this" my mom was already sitting me aside to tell me "if there is anything you want to tell me, i want you to know ill accept you no matter what"

[taurzza]

oh to be loved by the sun

[ilya-rozanova]

heated rivalry: endless gifs

[whatladybird]

I don’t even root for the knicks but just heard “life isn’t perfect but there are perfect moments” on the broadcast and now I’m crying??

[katelyn102]

🧡🤍

-Ja’Marrs Snapchat stories

[drawballa]

Sleepy boys 💤

[thisfeebleheart]

Loverboy Shane

[whatladybird]

my gender is: I’m never a girl. I am a woman, but only so I can say “god forbid a woman do anything”

[mandycore420]

its not even shipping its just posting what they did

[luna-azzurra]

Signs your romance subplot has absolutely no tension (sry)

♡ they meet and immediately like each other (goodbye conflict, we barely knew you)

♡ the only thing keeping them apart is a misunderstanding that one conversation would fix

♡ both characters describe the other as "beautiful" within three pages of meeting

♡ their chemistry is told not shown (the narrator insists they have spark. they don't.)

♡ the love interest has no personality outside of loving the protagonist

♡ they argue once, make up immediately, never argue again

♡ obstacles are external. they always agree with each other about everything.

♡ the rival love interest exists for two chapters then vanishes without explanation

♡ they almost kiss. something interrupts. this happens four times. on the fifth time they kiss. the end.

♡ the love interest is described as funny, clever, and kind. we see none of this.

♡ their big emotional moment is in the rain. it is always in the rain.

♡ the breakup lasts exactly one chapter before they reconcile

♡ "i've never felt this way before" said by someone with no prior emotional history

♡ both confess feelings at the same time. no awkwardness. no stakes. just synchronized emotion.

♡ their first kiss is perfect. no bumped noses. no wrong angle. cinematic and frictionless.

♡ jealousy subplot introduced and dropped without consequence

♡ they have one shared interest and it is the plot

♡ trauma bonding mistaken for romantic chemistry (these are different things)

♡ the side characters ship them loudly. this is not a substitute for actual tension.

♡ one of them dies temporarily. other is devastated. they come back. no lasting emotional damage.

♡ they end up together because the plot ends, not because they chose each other

♡ epilogue: married with children. every loose end tied. nothing left to feel.

[ekjohnston]

This list is annoying for me because some of them are legit craft issues and most of them are personal preferences. Write whatever makes you happy. Everything else will sort itself out with practice.