listen if you aren’t willing to listen to your partner’s interests and like be excited when they are and let them share stuff even if you don’t understand-you’re fucking stupid!!!!!! always listen to them bc that energy? when they get really into it and hear and see the things they do when they’re actively enjoying the conversation? amazing. you get to see them really gush about something bc they wanna tell you and just be heard or open up a dialogue about it. those special interests and things they enjoy are being told to you bc you’re their special person yknow?














