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Reblog if you like to spank or be spanked...
Guilty as chardged!
I love to spank and be spanked š
I need spanking
I love both
l love women that spank men!!!
Dear NSPoSB,
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Look, I hate the term āspankoā, but it is widely used to describe a person with very specific experiences. If your partner has a spanking fetish, itās been with them their entire lives. They probably looked up āspankingā in the dictionary by the time they got to 3rd grade. Then they probably looked it up many times after that, without really understanding why. They might have reread those scenes in the Little House books that featured spankings, or else watched with rapt attention if there was a spanking in a movie. Then, one day, they probably typed āspankingā into whatever search engine was popular at the time (I wonder, did anyone ever ask Jeeves about spanking? Surely they did).
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā It can be hard talking about the spanking bug. Here are some things you should know.
1.Ā Ā Ā Ā Itās almost impossible to talk about. Ā Ā Ā Ā
I donāt think that I am the only spanko who blushes just to hear the words āspankā, ādisciplineā, āpunishāāor anything related. And forget about saying them aloud. Somehow we learn early on as children that we cannot talk about our weird fascination with spanking, and then it becomes a secret that we carry with us for decades. The longer we carry it with us, the harder it is to speak. I didnāt tell a soul until I was 17, and I still canāt talk about it aloud. I canāt even type it if I think that it will be read by someone I know. Itās difficult to communicate what we want and unfair to you. Iām sorry.
2.Ā Ā Ā Itās not a sex thing. Except when it is.
When we tell you we like spanking, youāre probably thinking foreplay. Thatās not what we mean. For many of us, spanking is a drive that runs parallel to our sex drive. The spankings that we want can be entirely non-sexual. Many of us look for spankings that are disciplinary or therapeutic in nature. A good spanking is a cure for many things: stress, grouchiness, attitude, sass.
But spanking and sex arenāt entirely unrelated, either. If we donāt have spankings in our lives, our sex drive plummets. Spankings outside the bedroom can have a very real effect on what happens inside the bedroom, even without a single sexual spanking. Personally, Iād rather live my life without sex than without spanking.
3.Ā Ā Ā Spank harder than you think.
There are a lot of people who are into spanking a little bitālike a couple of smacks on the ass during sexābut spankos want a real spanking. Thatās a lot more involved than what normal people want when they say they like being spanked. Spankos want to you take them to a straight-backed armless chair, tip them over your knee, and spank their behind red. And they probably want you to scold them while you do.
Obviously, this differs depending on the individual. But in general, I know mostly spankos who would much rather get spanked a little too hard than be left feeling unsatisfied. A good way to do this is to start spanking with your hand, not too hard, maybe over their clothes, and progress to spanking their bare behind. Maybe you use a hairbrush or other implement as the spanking reaches its climax.
Lots of spankos would love to cry from a spanking. Some of us just canāt no matter how painful it is. Some of us (ahem, me) cry from two swats with a paddle. Youāll just have to make your partner tell you their limits. Consider using a safeword if they want to be able to resist the spanking without stopping it.
NSPoSB, there are so many things that your partner is trying to imply when they say, āIām into spanking.ā I know that I havenāt covered all of them, but I hope itās a start. Dig deeper into what they mean. Ask them specific questions. Make them answer in writing: it will probably get you more detailed answers. And know that you are doing your partner a huge service by participating in this deeply-rooted need that they have.
Love,
Ophelia
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⢠BDSM does not always involve pain
⢠BD stands for bondage and discipline, DS stands for domination and submission, SM stands for sadism and masochism
⢠You donāt need all three categories for BDSM although they often overlap.
⢠BDSM is not always a sexual act. For example, you can tie someone up and not have sex with them before you untie them. BSDM can be like a stress relieving hobby
⢠Not all subs are masochists and not all dominants are sadists
⢠Although BDSM relationships can be abusive like any other, dominants are not inherently abusive.
⢠Submissive partners arenāt miserable during a scene although they might look that way
⢠BDSM scenes arenāt always serious. You can laugh or smile in a scene when youāre having fun. ⢠Dominants take care of their subs. If a sub is crying and begging and looks like theyāre in terrible pain, itās only because the sub has chosen to be in that situation. They are not being abused.
⢠You can practice self-bondage, you donāt necessarily need a partner
⢠Aftercare is a thing. Picture a D/s pair cuddling and comforting each other after a scene where the D whipped the s. You always care for each other afterwards
⢠Dominants are not always cruel
⢠Basically BDSM isnāt the violent abusive thing it is often seen as
⢠But also donāt just jump into it. Before you try BDSM with a partner or alone, research safe words, different roles, red flags in a D/s relationship, signs your bondage is hurting you, and physical signs that mean your scene needs to stop immediately (like numb hands, blurry vision, etc)
⢠Google Safe, Sane and Consensual or Risk Aware Consensual Kink for more info on how BDSM can be a healthy thing that doesnāt hurt anyone
Hope this helps some people better understand BDSM!
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Guide to a good spanking
Connect: Talk to her about her spanking before you put her over your knee. Make sure she knows what she needs to work on and what you expect.
Position: Most manageable position is over your lap with her upper body supported on a couch or bed. The spanking should be uncomfortable- not the position.
Give a warm-up: A warm up spanking is a brief spanking (of slightly lighter spanks) conducted prior to the main spanking to āprepareā the nerves of the buttocks for the strikes that will follow. The purpose of a warm up spanking is to bring the nerves of the buttocks to the surface, which greatly reduces the likelihood of bruising. Warm up spankings are done with the hand or a wooden spoon, and typically do not exceed much more than 20 strikes.
Lecture: Take a short moment between the actual spanking and the warm up to lecture her. Lecture her and scold during the whole spanking. A certain amount of silence is fine as well but lecturing helps set and maintain the discipline mood ( so at least every 2 minutes or so). You can have her answer questions about her behavior - but careful not to do too much of this because she needs to focus on the spanking you are giving her.
Spanking: This may take longer than expected. Be prepared to settle in for awhile. Sometimes 1000 solid hand-spanks or more. A good spanking can take as much as 45 minutes to an hour. You may need to consider other implements if your hand gets sore. Her sin may be bright pink or reddening. Occasionally small scratches or blemishes may bleed. Avoid that area. Putting lotion on the bottom before starting can be helpful to avoid chapping/minor breaking of skin.
~ Get a good rhythm
~ Alternate cheeks
~Lock her legs if need be
~Hold her wrist or hand when she reaches back
~Donāt stop too soon - she needs to experience the lack of control that she has in this moment. The discipline doesnāt really start until she wants it to stop.
~Spank until she is submitting. Most of the fight has gone out of her and she is accepting the spanking.
Aftercare: Comfort her, hold her, talk to her, tell her she is beautiful, tell her how well she did, encourage her to cry as much as she needs, have tissues available, allow her to bury her face in your shirt, does she need a blanket to wrap up in? Ask if she knows what she needs for aftercare before you spank and you can learn a lot about what she needs.
Another old favorite with lots of good information. I agree with 99% of this.