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lagonegirl

alritepetal

i am a forehead kiss hoe…. give me all the forehead kisses in the world. come on. i’m ready.

striders

i don’t have a big toe

striders

of all the things for my gf to steal my phone and post this really wasn’t what i was expecting at all

egberts

i panicked.

lesbeet

for the record it makes me sad that so many people seem to think sex is necessarily either

a) outrageously kinky, includes hitting slapping choking etc, pain, subservience/dominance, humiliation, etc

or

b) lights off eyes closed missionary under the covers

like it just upsets me that people don’t think “vanilla” sex can be arousing and climactic and passionate and beautiful and enjoyable and fun and fulfilling etc etc

and i just think maybe if you feel like sex that doesn’t include pain/domination is inherently boring and unfulfilling, you should think about why!

there is so much pressure these days to incorporate things like choking and slapping into “vanilla” sex that many people (usually women) don’t feel comfortable saying no, because they’ll feel responsible if their partners aren’t as interested or excited

and honestly if you don’t see any indication of anything even mildly concerning about someone who can’t get off if they’re not hurting or degrading their partner in some way, i have to wonder why that is.

lesbeet

and before i get the inevitable “so if i ask my partner who loves me to consensually spank me during sex and they stop when i ask, am i in an abusive relationship then??” as some sort of gotcha -

there’s a difference between pain as a physical sensation which can add to the physical sensations of sex, and pain as something that gets you off for psychological reasons, first off. is it a clear-cut line? of course not. which is why it’s important to EXAMINE your own behaviors and turn-ons. if you do so and come to the conclusion that it’s purely bc the physical sensation of like. being spanked or tied up or whatever is pleasurable, then like. more power to ya and have a nice day

but i’m tired of people acting like what happens in their bedroom is 100% separated from society, in terms of our brains being shaped by the world we live in. i’m tired of people being wilfully ignorant about this issue simply bc they don’t want to examine what arouses them.

the personal is political - everything you do is influenced by, and in turn influences, the world around you, and i’m not sure why that would suddenly stop being true once you enter the bedroom.

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

it’s 2018 please put the k back in thicc

pandora15

thikc

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

you know what, I’ll take it

scorpiogothgf-deactivated202103

summer is fun and romantic in theory but for us sweaty bitches it just isn’t realistic

kali-prasad-did-nothing-wrong

GUYS the 80s are back!!!!

Star Wars, high waisted jeans, over sized sweaters, flannels, horrible republican government, conflict with Russia, the ever impending threat of Nuclear Anihilation, scrunchies,

grabby-raccoon-hands

synthpop, bomber jackets, a tyrannical mad woman runs the uk, incompetent child runs the us, the entire worlds in an economic crisis, doctor who

starstuffandalotofcoffee

is this we didn’t start the fire

serotnin

serotonin? in this economy?

postmodernmulticoloredcloak

this is it, we’ve found the ultimate specimen of millennial humor

jessandhernewsillyblog-deactiva

Help a trans woman get HRT

So I didn’t wanna do this I have avoided doing it for a long time but it seems that I really really need help.

My name is Jess, I’m 26, I’m a transgender woman living in New Mexico, USA and I really desperately need to get on HRT. For my mental well-being it’s really vital I get it I don’t know how much longer I can last and I’m so, so far beyond what I can deal with when it comes to dysphoria. :C It’s so so bad and idk how much I can deal with this.

The problem is that I presently do not have health insurance and it’s going to cost a lot of money to get on it.

I will need somewhere in the neighborhood of $400 to see an endocrinologist. This isn’t even talking about the HRT itself.

My paypal is [email protected]. It’s fine if you can’t help but any help at all would be greatly appreciated. Boosting would also be super appreciated.