Muñequita

I'm Fal and I am approximately 42% tamale

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THIS BLOG TURNS 4 YEARS OLD TODAY

And I’ve been super inactive for the majority of that time

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dalé

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ms paint cows singing we built this city song

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Me: *passionately sings a 10 minute guitar solo*

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me, using a ouija board: A... L... I... V... E...

friend: alive? ALIVE?? is it saying it's alive????

me: idk i'll keep going

me: S.. T.. A.. Y.. I.. N... A.. L.. I.. V.. E..

friend:

me: shit this is a Bee Gee board

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this ☝👀looks👀really🍌gay🍌 😮😮…but ⭐they are⭐ straight💦because 😍it's😍 a ✊football!🏆🏈

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united states of america

east coast

west coast

the south

the midwest

ok didnt think this was gonna blow up but credits to @lesbiandeity for this idea in our skype chat

[glassgospels]

“but being abused made you so kind!” being abused made me terrified of being anything less than perfectly accommodating and pleasing in an effort to protect myself from the violence my abuser reacted with but okay whatever

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Also see “You’re so mean now. I liked you better before.”

You liked me when I was completely accommodating out of residual fear and now I have basic boundaries and a shred of self confidence it inconveniences you.

Cool story.

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[drawing of a green and orange plant in a green pot saying “Woohoo!” in an orange speech bubble.]

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[thebestoftumbling]

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Identifying abuse/types of abuse :

Is this abuse? Physical Abuse Emotional/Verbal Abuse Sexual Abuse Financial Abuse Digital Abuse Stalking What is Gaslighting?

Currently in unhealthy/abusive relationship:

Building support systems while in an unhealthy relationship Tips for safely reaching out for support  How to tell someone about an abusive relationship  I live with my abuser Safe Pregnancy while in an abusive relationship  I have Children with my abuser Documenting abuse Help, my partner is blackmailing me When your partner threatens suicide  Should we Break up?

Safety Planning:

Interactive Guide Safety Planning  Emotional Safety Planning  Safety planning around Sexual Abuse  Social Networking Safety Safety Planning for the Holidays After Breakup: Tech Safety Checklist    Breaking up Safely

Getting help:

Help a friend Help a parent Help a co-worker Help a stranger Help my child Someone I know is being abused: should I call the police? Calling the police Restraining order LGBT and the law Help for undocumented immigrants Referrals

Self Care:

What is self care? Coping tips (via Yourlifeyourvoice) Self care tips (via Scarlateen) Self care for abuse and trauma survivors

Questions about abuse:

Why do people abuse? Why do people stay? Drugs/Alcohol and Abuse Abusive LGBT Relationships Does mental illness cause abuse? Why am I struggling to move on after abuse? Am I abusive too? The myth of mutual abuse

[d0nn0]

what do you call a baby kangaroo?

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I honestly spent 10 full seconds thinking, “Matt LeBlanc”?

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It’s that time of year again

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Omg

[rollingstone]

Selena Quintanilla died 21 years ago today. Watch Jennifer Lopez’s poignant 2015 tribute and a clip of her performing in Selena.

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*accidentally does something well* ah shit i’ve given them standards now