The Beginning of the End In Charlie Kaufman’s new film, boy meets girl, girl meets parents, shit gets weird.
At a time when many are seeking ways to bridge seemingly insurmountable social, political, and ideological divides in America and much of the rest of the world, Charlie Kaufman’s new film, I’m Thinking of Ending Things, is here to say, good luck with that.
Good luck, that is, so long as language is involved, when two young lovers, Jake (Jesse Plemons) and Lucy (Jessie Buckley) take a drive through a blizzard, across a prairie, to Jake’s childhood home, where Lucy will meet Jake’s parents for the very first time. And what do you do on a long drive? You talk.
The movie is based on Iain Reed’s 2016 novel of the same name, and it’s out now on Netflix.
Adapting the script from Reed’s already strange, play-like novel and making it stranger by degrees of Kaufman, the writer-director asks what will happen when language becomes bereft of all meaning, floating between us ephemerally? And what strain, then, does this put on the very nature of reality?
“The problem with other people is that they are other people,” Jake says at some point. Or perhaps this disconnect could simply be a metaphor for depression. It’s enough to make Schopenhauer shout, “Shut up.”
From there, the story can be summed up as boy meets girl, girl meets parents — played by Toni Collette and David Thewlis — and then, shit gets weird. It’s also about words, in Lucy’s own internal monologue, where she reveals her ambivalence about her nascent relationship — the thing she is considering ending.
But also, where that internal monologue bleeds into dialogue with Jake, and then, with Jake’s parents, who time-slip to different eras of their own life before Lucy’s bewildered eyes.
When the young couple arrive at Jake’s childhood home, Collette recalls an anecdote of Jake’s proficiency with what she calls the genius edition of the game Trivial Pursuit. “Genus edition,” Jake corrects.
A small thing, to be sure, but it’s about the frayed nerves produced when your own mother can’t correctly identify the very thing at which she means to say you were successful. In this film, aging is not a graceful process to behold, but instead something piteous. We are different creatures, the young and the old.
The moment is fraught with tension between Plemons and Collette, and the skin crawls. Words malfunction. Needless to say, the meet-up goes poorly, like so bad it seems to tear a hole in reality itself. I can’t wait for the wedding.
That reality, which in a Charlie Kaufman universe (Being John Malkovich, Adaptation) is already difficult to pluck apart from narrative structure, and it is constantly toyed with and subverted. In Ending, this is meta-signaled by a book of Pauline Kael film criticism in Jake’s childhood bedroom and in one of the movie’s most surreal moments, when Buckley launches into a dead-on Kael impression on the barreling home through the snow.
Buckley takes on a character in Lucy that must constantly be wiped clean before it can be redrawn over and over again with fierce intelligence and dark tenacity. As the audience begins to realize Lucy may or not even be real, so too does Lucy seem to come to the very same conclusion.
It’s funny then — not funny ha-ha, but Kaufman funny — that a film neurotically preoccupied by the futility of language as a means of human connection, will conclude with a wordless dance sequence, lifted in part from the Broadway musical Oklahoma, after Lucy and Jake stop off at Jake’s old high school.
It’s then that the last vestiges of reality, and the films ultimate time-jump, get buried in a snowdrift.
Throughout, Ending Things is propelled along by the narrative beats of a thriller and the logic of a dream, the suspense rooted primarily in the mundane. Cinematographer Łukasz Żal adding the feel of noir blanc with an American accent. I haven’t even mentioned the animated pig and the singing.
But the most anxious moment comes when Lucy and Jake stop-off for an ice cream treat, a much-needed serotonin burst in the dead of night. After both Jake and Lucy decide that the ice cream is too sweet, it sits in the car’s drink holder, slowly melting.
As Jake watches, his anxiety over the ensuing stickiness mounts. I didn’t sleep a wink.














