hi

[winningheartsandminds]

i coulda been someone

well, so could anyone

[blackpyrefly]

dress codes that arent ppe are stupid as fuck. as an adult human being with a (relatively) functioning brain i have never walked into a place and given a fuck what an employee was wearing. “professional” okay bitch i can make up adjectives too. “grundlous” see easy

[bunniope]

whats grundlous mean

[blackpyrefly]

of or pertaining to grundle

[sadgrl]

[winningheartsandminds]

can i just say, as someone who moved from the northeast to the bay area and is now back in the northeast for christmas,

what the fuck did i ever enjoy about the snow. this shit sucks. it's so cold

[winningheartsandminds]

[blushlife]

Haim – Christmas Wrapping 2020 (all I want for christmas is a vaccine)

HAPPY HANUKKAH!! presenting our FIRST EVER holiday song: Christmas Wrapping 2020 (All I Want for Christmas is a Vaccine) 🔯🎄lyrics by the one and only @Jere...

[winningheartsandminds]

moment of gratitude for seeing parents celebrating with their kids in public after they use the restroom

[whitepeopletwitter]

[winningheartsandminds]

[winningheartsandminds]

[winningheartsandminds]

something i've started doing as a sanity check/self-care reminder is asking myself "if i lived with someone who cared about my well-being, what would they be telling me to do right now?" and that's pretty much how i've been getting myself to eat and sleep as of late

[plain-flavoured-english]

As I get older I’m starting to let go of the guilty urge to build permanent habits. Like, a while ago I decided I would start jumping rope every day. I did it for like three weeks and felt good about it. Then I got bored, because of course I did, because I’m a human person. So now I do a bit of kickboxing because that’s what I like now. The other week I cut all sugar from my diet, just for a week, to challenge myself. Now I’m back to eating sweets but I don’t crave them as much.

Growth is about stretching, trying new things, and setting small, realistic goals for yourself, not picking a “good habit” you’ve decided you will be doing always and forever from now on. That’s not discipline. That’s pointless self-torture and unhealthy resistance to change.

What’s good for you today will not necessarily be what’s good for you tomorrow.

[trailandkale]

everything

[winningheartsandminds]

Opinion | It’s Quitting Season

Time to stop being a martyr to grit.

yessss obvi this doesn't apply to every obligation we have but so glad people are finally saying fuck grit for grit's sake

[abby-howard]

[unclefather]

[grimthetransman]

US healthcare system be like:

[winningheartsandminds]

What's That Feeling? Oh, It's Fall Regression

This is the Sunday edition of Culture Study — the newsletter from Anne Helen Petersen, which you can read about here. If you like it and wan

"That’s the feeling of regression, I think. It’s not that we’re losing ground. It’s that we were too hopeful about having gained it.

Which is why teachers aren’t supposed to make life decisions in October: it’s the time, particularly in a place like the United States, when it becomes clear that the problems that plagued public education, that made educators feel unvalued and underresourced and demoralized — that none of that had been erased by the brief rest and quick spark of the summer and new school year. October, in other words, is when you remember that nothing has changed and nothing likely will."

a piece that makes me hate myself less for feeling the way i feel right now