[wistfulfemme]

intro // bio - read before interacting!

about me!

20

beautiful desi femme dyke

they/them. i love being addressed/complimented with feminine language though.

from the uk! in university, studying english literature. as a result, i love to read. i’d love to read more lesbian books, so hmu with recommendations.

i’m autistic!

butchfemme enthusiast. but aren’t we all?

single. but i don’t expect that to be much relevance.

i will be nsfw on here, so heads up for that!

switch, sub lean. i’ve dommed too many times out of the lack thereof and i’m tired. please. but i’m also so unused to being dommed. i think i’m a little bit of a brat but i’ve never really had the chance to explore it.

i would love friends, flirters, mutuals and overall dyke community on here. anons welcome too!

my interests: cats, swimming, beauty, art, reading, aerial hoops and dance. fandoms i like include jjk, demon slayer, dune, james cameron’s avatar, breaking bad, pose and probably a couple more.

anons: 💪🏻, 🦆, 🫶, 🐻

if you’re a new anon, include your pronouns and age in your ask!

men, minors, terfs, racists, zionists, ableists and bigots are unwelcome here.

nsfw under the cut!

i’m a heavily sub leaning switch. unfortunately, my past relationships have forced me to take on a more dominant role (i’m autistic and i need structure) and i’m simply tired of domming all the time. but i’m also unused to submission, and i know mine is earned and not easily given. it’s a privilege that i keep close to my soul. i also feel like i’m a brat but i’ve never had the chance to explore that in addition to submission.

kinks and turn ons: d/splay, overstimulation, biting, strap and probably any toy use, i LOVE vibrators, breeding, degrading, praising, sensory play, impact play, asphyxiation just a little bit because it turns me into a waterpark, bondage, dacryphilia, somnophilia, cnc, formalwear, telling me what to do if i’m at least mildly familiar with you (i hate it when strangers do because why are you telling me what to do), and also aftercare? that’s a necessity but i like when it’s properly executed.

limits and boundaries: blood and gore, scat and piss, permanent scarification and such. no dykebreaking shit thank you. and no unsolicited nudes and MEN! period

the world of kinks is weird and wide and wonderful. if there’s something you don’t see listed but are curious about, ask!

[wistfulfemme]

35 she/her butch

Too bad, you're no longer in your dom stage cause damn you're beautiful

yep. what a shame!

[wistfulfemme]

YOU ARE SO INSANELY BEAUTIFUL OMG!!!! AND THE NEW TATTOO IS GORGEOUS! i hope your trip was funnnnn 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

- 🫶

thank you thank you it was!! :3

[wistfulfemme]

im down on my knees begging to see the digicam pics of you on holiday actually

-27, they/she butch

well since you asked so nicely 😙

here’s a few. enjoy 💗

[wistfulfemme]

anyways good morning lesbians. who wanna see digicam pics of me from holiday

[wistfulfemme]

if you see me online and think you know me from tumblr, no you don’t. i’m either blocking you or deleting this page so don’t be stupid. there’s a reason i keep the two separate. not how i wanted to come back to tumblr but push came to shove.

[wistfulfemme]

going to thailand tonight YAY

[wistfulfemme]

i did like it, although ig im the kind of person to like most things until i see others criticize stuff and then im like… oh! you might have a point </3 honestly just wanted glinda and elphaba to kiss throughout both the movies though 😓 glinda isnt my favorite either but i did like her character arc somewhat!

omg no im home for break and its so cold and gloomy and i miss my college towns warm weather ☹️ i hope you have lots of fun during the holiday!!! god i need to go to a beach its been entirely too long (a few months),, omg yessss, do we get a hint as to what it is? but my best friend and i are also going to get more tattoos this winter i think, hopefully we’re able to plan it out 🤞

- 🫶

as big of a lezza as i am i don’t think glinda and elphaba would make a good couple. elphie really deserves much better than that sellout. idk i’m just so protective of elphaba. tbf the way i saw glinda’s arc is she was just doing what she should’ve done.

and haha it’s thailand! and ooh tattoos sound so fun, what are you hoping on getting?

[lesblackwidow]

recognizing femmes includes recognizing and praising their amazing music taste bc everyone thinks they are just bubblegum pop. especially high femmes!

can take the girl out of the emo phase, but can’t take the emo phase out of the girl. yes I was in the tøp pit with butterfly clips, and?

[wistfulfemme]

hihi ^^ finally on winter break so meeting up with hs friends and some family is going to visit and stuff…watching wicked for good with some friends tomorrow AHH i cant wait!! do you have any plans?

- 🫶

same here! met with some old friends, even watched wicked for good (through piracy, albeit). what did you think? i was mad until i saw the plot twist. but lowkey i just hate glinda so much.

i’ve had these plans so far, but i’m going on holiday somewhere tropical and warm and sunny with white sand and turquoise waters, so i’m really excited. can’t wait to reclaim all the melanin this grey country has stolen from me, and i’m also getting a new tattoo while i’m there! so excited to show off once i finally get it hehe.

[femmnigmatic]

[wistfulfemme]

hi mutuals. how y’all doing. i crave friendship. what are your plans this festive season?

[tethereddomme]

(Not my original photo, @mircallasfangs on X)

[wistfulfemme]

who want me fr

[deletingthisaccsoon]

Femme who claws at my muscles and tells me how strong I am. Femme who watches me as I do things for her just so she can watch my arms flex. Femme who watches me work out because she thinks it’s hot. Femme who lets me pick her up and carry her. Femme who loves how strong I am just for her.

[wistfulfemme]

where is my strong butch…

[wistfulfemme]

(18, she/her)

Hi is it ok to say that you're gorgeous? And would it be too forward to say you're sexy?

hello!

it is beyond okay, and not too forward for me :) thank you very much <3

[lesblackwidow]

i crave domesticity, to show my love. had a bad day? call me, I’ll be over with snacks and chamomile tea. spa day coming your way. running you a bath with lots and lots of bubbles. i’ve been helping you find the right products for your hair. I’ll wash it for you, all you have to do is relax. can tell me all about your day, we can sit in silence, i can talk, we can put on a movie. whatever you want my love.

i’ve got a nice fluffy towel waiting for you. you can use some of my stupid eye masks if you want. working some nice lotion over your body. intimately but not sexually, closeness without conditions. i blow dry your hair, the brush running through softly. your hair nice and soft. we head to bed, turn on a movie we’ve already seen. i run my hands through your hair, hold you tight in my arms. kiss your forehead and tell you I love you.

we talk a lot about what butches and mascs do for femmes, but never the other way around. butches and mascs deserve to be adored!!!! they deserve to be pampered and cared for!!!!

[lesblackwidow]

i love being a tease and getting ‘em flustered but unfortunately I’m all talk. all talk and flashing my tits. all in hopes of getting on my knees.