I’m generally a chill person(unless you aren’t kind, of course)
I have depression and ADHD
I LOVE ADO AND TOMADACHI LIFEEEEE~~~~~
I tend to draw a lot!
I cuss a bit so just a heads up. I apologize in advance.
I LOVE LORE OF ADO’S MUSIC VIDEOS!! I like Cass and Furio(Blackjack(???))
I’m gay as hell lol. No I’m not a guy..and also, I’m 18 years old. Have a lovely day! 💙 Oh and don’t mind me if I start talking s_icidally haha 💙💙💙
Also I love food and Japan, I miss being there 🥲
DNI: Racists, homophobics, mean people in general, people who ooze hatred, and ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO HATE MY QUEEN 👹👹👹
That’s all I got for now. Have a lovely rest of your day/night/afternoon/evening! ❤️💙
I am genderfluid. My pronouns are she/her.
PLEASE DONT BE WEIRD WITH ME..I have no problem with talking about sex or anything(about characters), BUT PLEASE DO NOT..DO NOT say anything about getting me pregnant or anything about pregnancy. It makes me sick.. please don’t or I will block you. God forbid anyone says that to me. Just please don’t. I’ve gone through some crazy ass fucked up shit. Don’t.
I cuss a lot, as you can tell. I’m sorry if you don’t like it!
I tend to ask people, what they are comfortable with so I can change myself.
I’m thinking of doing commissions so stay tuned!
I make comics :3
ADOOOOOO🤭🪭😮💨😮💨
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! I decided to put mah lesbian and genderfluid flags behind my queen Ao/Ado 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🖤🤎
I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to you today to ask for your help in sharing and reblog my story and my struggles, as I have faced many hardships and need your generous support through Your and sharing of my story will have a significant impact on my life and help me get through these difficult times.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your understanding and generosity.🙏🌹🙏
I wish I could help, I’m sorry ❤️ I hope things get better very soon.
for my pansexual awakening, i was watching pokemon (indigo league) and i was entranced by both Jessie and James
for my transgender awakening, my sisters were watching a one direction music video and i YEARNED to look like Harry Styles for some reason. I then realized that I only wanted to look like Harry Styles cuz Harry Styles was a boy.
i think my very first "i love women" moment was when i was four and i saw maria reynolds in hamilton for the first time... i was CAPTIVATED. it probably took me longer to learn that i was into guys at all than girls tbh and hhmmmi think christian borle might have been responsible for that ...?gulp.
my genderqueer awakening was hedwig and the angry inch and im so serious. after watching the movie for the first time i knew that there had to be so much more to me than just being a girl:)
i guess i have to thank musicals for my being gay bru
tags: @thegreatestchai (i dont think ive ever heard this from u surprisingly), @cosmicbrown1es , @doktorcringenfailen , @allnumbb , @havent-prayed-tnght , ++ open!!!!
during covid i saw a bunch of like "lgbtq tiktok compilations" on youtube and i was like THIS IS SO MEE oh and also serena from pokemon xy 😍 i had a big fat crush on her
for my trans awakening Um that was probably likkkeee hunter from the owl house 🤔 but i really dont know i kidn of just slowly faded from cis girl to genderqueer to trans guy to genderqueer trans guy lmao
@arteei @linguinemunch @centipaw @sleepyeyedstare + OPEN TAGS!!! all /nf !!!!!
my first ever lgbtq awakening was before i even knew what being queer was 😭😭 baby ozzy found out girls could marry girls and was like oh HELL yeah 🔥🔥🔥🔥 and identified as a lesbian for up until i was an early tween. as i got older i realized i wasnt cis, so i identified as many nonbinary umbrella identities for years, but was living in denial of being a trans man. eventually it got to a point where the tv was glowing so bright that all the blankets i laid over it over the years were doing nothing. so i took a deep breath and threw them off, changed my name, cut my hair, and accepted myself. i later on found out i was gay/mlm because of a will graham cosplay video. and then found out i was aroace spec for a reason i cant remember, but i had been asexual for years before that, like since i first identified as something other than cis. uhhhh and then after that all the labels i collected werent huge dramatic awakenings...more like seeing a label and going "ohhhh so thats what this feeling is" and then using the label from then on :3
/nf tags!!: @mikeandwillsweddingofficiant @anetherealdawn @ev1lgoob @heavensentkennz @interstellar-espresso and any other moots i forgot to add who want to join!
i was extremely sheltered as a kid since neither parent(divorced) wanted me to ever find out gays exist(weird living situation, thats a thing for later) so i grew up through my childhood and tween years thinking i was broken for never wanting to have boobs, give birth, be some dude’s wife.
When my mom was doing in home therapy for a lesbian’s daughter i found out about LGBTs then, at that point i thought i was also a lesbian because i wasnt aware of intrusive thoughts existing(living with a porn addicted pedophile and a mother obsessed with cooing over “crushes” i never really had during my FORMATIVE YEARS can really fuck someone up). Nobody told me it were possible to have no attraction and the intrusive thoughts i were having seemed like what attraction looked like when i saw other people express it.
At 13 when i got Pinterest and my cousin lived with us for a few months i found out about aros and aces(as well as intrusive thoughts and other things people learn about when studying psychology or going to therapy) then immediately went “oh, so i was right all along, im NOT a disgusting pervert, those thoughts ARENT MINE and there are people like me who dislike relationships too!”
around that time my cousin was experimenting with their gender so they asked about what id change my name to, i didnt know it were possible to change it without going into witness protection, so naturally i couldnt think of a name at the time so i started using my bird’s name as my nickname since my given nickname was even worse than my formal name.
then my cousin asked me about gender stuff, they were a boy at the time but when they asked me i said “well i have girl parts and i KNOW i can never CHANGE them so I’ve accepted im stuck with this stupid body”, they guessed “oh so youre a demigirl?” I had no clue of what this was so i went with it
later on Pinterest i found out about nonbinary people and at that time i assumed gender was more like a light switch like i was taught, didnt want to be a hyper masculine man or feminine lady so i thought that worked, from then i thought gender was a single line slider. Unfortunately i set myself up for a bunch of pain because my mom hated the NB thing and my dumbass just would not shut up about it, once i was out of that closet i was out
a few years later i found out about genderfluid genders and realized that gender is more like a 5 dimensional multiverse with giant galaxies 286372229372785 billion more colors than shrimps have access to. From that point on i was boyflux and im still like that now, mom has been internalizing her hatred better but im still afraid of what she will do when she finds out i regularly wish for a dick and to be addressed by he/they/hymn. I accidentally outed myself a bit but not all the way, i hope i can get away from her so i can transition properly. I have found a name for myself at this point, i was 15 but only told mom my name at 16 because i had to in order to be addressed properly at my first job
she still wishes i never found out about sasha.
She wishes my cousin never outed themself to me(cousin was sent to a psych ward and detransitioned) and is convinced im so gulliable and easily manipulated that surely i must have been tricked into being “woke”
she still thinks i will turn into a girl again later once im out of this “phase”(show me a permanent state of the self! I wasnt nonbinary forever and likely wont be boyflux forever but im sure as FUCK never gonna be a girl again and insult all of girlkind by being one!).
and now she thinks now that im masc sometimes instead of only nonbinary(which she views as diet agab) she thinks i crush over every girl i talk to, which i dont, im still on the aro/ace spectrum and queerplatonic, though im unsure what my specific preferences of attraction are called, ill still have to research
Sorry it took so long for us to get to this, we've been kinda preoccupied all day
First I'll give my own personal answers:
I never really had any big revelation or awakening when it came to my gender. I kinda just always felt like I didn't really have much of one, but still had a fairly strong connection to manhood, hence why I consider myself an agender man.
It's pretty much the same with me being demisexual and demiromantic, the idea of being romantic and/or sexual with someone who I don't have a super deep bond with has always just been icky to me.
Figuring out I was finsexual took me a while longer though. Before I had really been exposed to the fact that "hey, anybody can present however they want regardless of their gender!" I kinda just assumed I only liked women, eventually had a bisexual (?) panic when I became attracted to a fem presenting man, thought for a little while I was pansexual because "Oh, well I don't actually care about my partner/s gender or sex, I just like feminine traits", then I eventually came accross the term finsexual and realised that fit.
As for our collective identities, we also didn't have much of a sudden realisation we were queer, more just a realisation that it was actually normal and not weird. Being plural made it rather difficult to come to an agreement on collective labels so we have gone through quite a lot, but here is how we came to our current ones:
For our gender we identify as genderfluid and also transmasc. Genderfluid is fairly self explanatory - having varying headmates with varying genders makes it hard to pinpoint a collective one. The reason we decided to start considering ourselves transmasc is because collectively we would like to make ourselves more androgynous and one of the ways we intend to do that is by (hopefully) starting andronising (I think that's the word?) HRT and maybe getting breast reduction surgery at some point. Plus with how much our extended family loves to misgender us, we've collectively formed an aversion to presenting fem around them, even if it's a fem person in front because god knows they'll use that as an excuse to misgender us going forward. So long story short: We collectively wish to be androgynous, but leaning more masculine.
Sexuality is more straight forward - aroaceflux because various headmates have different orientations between aroace and allo, and pan because while individuals have their own preferences, we collectively we love people for who they are, not their gender.
Also we're collectively very, very polyamorous.
Anyways, uhh, that was a lot. Oops.
@calamity-collective @depressedquetzal /nf. I'm tired, I dunno who else to tag.
I learned about gay people from a friend in 5th grade and trans people from a Pentatonix music video of all things but it never really clicked for me bc I was in like fourth grade. In seventh grade I met the wonderful @ineedalittleroomtobreathe and he came out to me as bi at the time. Funnily enough, it was a no brainer for my autistic brain to go “oh, cool, me too” with literally no big emotions about it. Over time, my sexual orientation shifted as a tried to figure out who I was, from bisexual, to asexual, to omnisexual, and finally to pansexual/panromantic. I also added in demisexual/demiromantic, asexual/aromantic, and more recently, idemromantic
My gender took a while longer. My ex actually came out to me as nonbinary, and later as a trans man, and again, my autistic ass was not at all bothered and immediately went with it. I also believed myself to be genderfluid around that time, mostly after my friend mentioned above came out as bi. While reading On a Sunbeam, which my profile pic is from, I realized I was nonbinary and identified as that for like a year. Then, with help from my therapist, I realized I was a trans man. Around this time, I read a book called Gender Queer, which introduced me to e/em pronouns, which I remember having a sort of spiritual awakening about lol. A few months ago, I altered that to being a pangender man to encapsulate how I’m always fully a man, but sometimes feel like I have some extra genders thrown in
Also going to throw in here that I learned about being aplatonic about a year ago while looking up other labels and immediately realized it was me. I personally count it as a queer label so uh yeah
Okay so uh I have no clue what my ORIGINAL awakening was. I grew up w/ a queer mom so I never had that moment of learning, to me it was just another thing people were sometimes, no different then eye or hair color
But.. realizing I was specifically a lesbian? Oh that one’s funny. At some point when I was around 9, I basically went “mm. Girls are pretty. I think I’m bisexual”, then, about.. a week later? I paused, and realized “yknow every time I make couples in gacha, they’re always toxic or sapphic. I don’t think I like men very much…” IM NOT EVEN KIDDING YOU SJKSKSJSJDH GACHA LIFE MEMES WERE MY QUEER AWAKENING
Uh, as for being genderfae? I realized there was veryvery few characters I didn’t headcanon as she/they and slowly started using they/them more and theeennnnn it js grew from there
Open tags bcuz honestly I’m too eepy to tag specific people mwah
Basically I was liking girls and boys when I was younger, mainly girls, then I got fucking access to the internet and I said “gOoGlE, wHaT iS iT cAlLeD wHeN yOu LiKe GiRlS…bUt…I’M a GiRl…?????” And it said “you’re lesbian, dumbass” and I said and uh, I got in trouble because I thought it was something I could just start saying out loud to my sister and mom. And um yeah. Then I came out to my grandmother a year later, then she told me I was going to go to hell, that I need a man to make babies(even though she knows I don’t want any, and even if I DID, I could just adopt one or two) and yeah. Basically I can’t even fucking get a pride pin or anything to fully celebrate pride this month.
…well that just turned into a question. So how do I do that exactly..? Sorry
