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[mr-styles]

Harry Styles x Gucci HA HA HA

[braverytattoos]

Harry for Gucci HA HA HA

[consecuences]

[recoverr-deactivated20220605]

where you are right now is not the same place you’ll be in a year. or two. or three. and trust me, this can be a really wonderful thing. life has so many surprises in store for you, my friend. i hope some day you’ll be able to look back and understand you were meant to be happy, safe and cherished all along.

[gollumunchkin]

i just love ‘gloomy’ weather. i love clouds, fog, rain, crisp air, SNOW.. love love lovee LOVE

[lovelierbitsoflife]

Seriously, there is just something about watching a show romanticise healthy communication in a relationship. Like, it’s so refreshing

[chewbacca]

— He even called himself “the homeless king”.

THE TINDER SWINDLER (2022) dir. Felicity Morris

[mzannthropy]

Just watched Tinder Swindler on Netflix.

Interesting that, when the story appeared in the media, the women, who were SCAMMED by Simon, still got called “gold diggers” in the comments. They got called gold diggers. While it was the dude who was TAKING THEIR MONEY. 

I would say I was surprised but then I’d be lying.

[forbidden-interlude]

Ladies if a billionaire is asking you for money … he’s probably not a billionaire

[foxmagpie]

“Have you heard nothing about the bees, Alice? THE BEES?”

Lionel learning that Alice is dating an anti-science conservative is sending meeeee

[abessinier]

Stuff kids on tumblr better relearn

1. You are responsible for your own media experience. 

2. There is such a thing as a healthy level of avoidance towards topics that make you feel unwell or even (in a real-life clinical definition of the term) trigger you - but you are the one to actively take care of what you view.

3. Avoiding does not mean policing others.

4. You have no right to tell artists to censor themselves - you may criticize what others do, you may dislike it, that’s fine - but actively asking for censorship when you could easily unfollow or block a person just makes you look incompetent in your use of the internet.

5. Do not give people on tumblr or /any/ website the responsibility for your emotional well-being. Because these people do not even know you so no, you have no right to ask them to take care of you.

[vesperlionheart]

6. Content creators are not your parents and owe you nothing, not even a breakdown on why their content isn’t problematic. You don’t get to demand a dissertation denouncing any and everything unhealthy in a piece you don’t like. Move on.

[summerpipedream]

7. Tagging is a nicety but not an obligation. You can message people, politely, and ask them to tag things, and many people will, but understand that it’s their blog and they aren’t obliged to say yes. Unfollow and block when you need to. Circling back to number 1, you are responsible for curating your own experience.

8. Don’t be a jerk. Remember at the end of the day, there are actual living, breathing people behind each screen name. Don’t say anything you wouldn’t say to someone’s face in real life. 

[pixie-mage]

I cannot stress enough how important it is to remember this.

[wardenari]

9. Respect others who set boundaries for themselves. Don’t create fake accounts to go around a block. Don’t harass someone who unfollows you. People do not owe you any explanation of why their boundaries are there but you DO owe them the decency of respecting them.

[stylesinbode]

thinking of her (harry’s hair clip)

[furiousgoldfish]

Abusers are such fucking cowards. They say vile, disgusting and cruel shit and the second you call them out they’re out there yelling “it was a joke!” “i didn’t mean it that way!” “I only meant “bla bla””! “I was just saying–!” “Stop taking it so seriously!” 

You can shut up. We all heard you. We all know what you meant. Your quick re-defining your statement and minimizing what you said to avoid consequences is nothing but cowardice. Grow a spine and stand behind your own sentences. You’re not fooling anyone.

[faerieforestcat]

Friendly reminder that you’re under no obligation to love other people, whether they’re your parents, siblings, other family members or anyone you know.  Someone’s love is something you earn through experiences and time, not because someone is “titled” under a label that they’ve put themselves. You’re not forced to love anyone who you think doesn’t deserve that love.

[sweethoneydew]

“Hold hands. Not mindlessly, but really hold your partner’s hand. Be forever grateful to be able to intertwine your fingers with theirs, skin against skin… feeling the heat that your hands create together… feeling the powerful intimacy created from one simple gesture.”

— S.C. ~ How to stay in the “honeymoon phase” #6

[weaver-z]

I hate how in the Cruella trailer she’s all “people try to hold me down… I am woman…. hear me roar……” as though people are opposing her for misogynistic reasons and not because her primary motivation is SKINNING PUPPIES? 

[starvationxa]

some of u bitches r trying your hardest to stay positive and hopeful despite all the bullshit you’ve been going thru and it really shows and i’m proud of u