Because He Loves Her More

All the things I want to say to him but can’t anymore.

[wordstohim]

I’m homesick for a place that is not my home

[danger]

[wordstohim]

I gave two years of my life to this man, who I decided had my entire heart forever and that I was completely in love with. As soon as he left me I wondered how I would ever move on. As soon as I allowed myself to I realized how easy it was. And now I see that I never really loved him at all. I just loved the idea of loving someone that much.

[adv3nturelust]

So what’s next? You heal. You grow. And you help others.

[wordstohim]

If I keep telling myself that I’m okay, will I eventually be okay?

[wordstohim]

When he left one of the things I was most afraid of losing was someone to reassure me that I have worth and talent and beauty. Someone to tell me that the art I make is good. Someone to tell me my hard work paid off. After crying about who would be there for me and who would believe in me it hit me......the only person I need to count on is me. I have to be my own supporter. I need to have confidence in myself and love myself and cherish myself. Him leaving me is the biggest blessing, because now I know I can do it.

[saudiflacko-deactivated20210617]

What's so special about her?

Nothing, it’s just that there’s nothing special without her. 

[tropicsins]

Fall in love with somebody who will never let you go to sleep wondering if you still matter.

[wordstohim]

I give you so so so much. I’m always here for you. I don’t ask for much in return. A little attention or loyalty. I love you. And I listen to you tell me you love me and all these things but what does that mean when you’re sneaking around with her? You can’t feel the way I feel and find someone else. You can’t lie to me every single day and love me. You can not even have a peaceful mind, can you? How can you let me treat you this way and then do this to me? How do you not feel guilt? This is not love.

[drumshoww]

HEY. hold up!

stop grinding/clenching your teeth.

drop your shoulders and relax them.

if youre hunched over, find somewhere with back support.

take a few deep breaths.

drink some water.

be kind to yourself.

okay. carry on.

[elpatron-delmal]

finally realized that i was never asking for too much, i was just asking the wrong person

[foxy-mulder-deactivated20190929]

Hand kissing is sacred, high romance and I think we need to revive it

[sorreleater]

honestly some of y’all want a significant other so badly and can’t understand why you can’t find one, but have no sense of boundaries or healthy expectations of what a relationship is like. in a committed long-term partnership you get left on read, you wait for texts back, and you can forget about each other when you’re busy. sometimes you fall asleep without saying goodnight and sometimes you’re too caught up to text each other before 6pm. that’s how it is. thinking that you can’t be deeply, beautifully in love and still wait more than “1.75 hours” for a text back is such an unhealthy and unreasonable expectation of what love is, and you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you can’t allow the other person to exist on their own apart from you. if you’re projecting your anxieties and insecurities onto a partner who doesn’t even exist yet, then you aren’t ready for one.

[wordstohim]

It’s getting easier to not talk to you...

[wordstohim]

I hate that you’re with her right now.

[wordstohim]

I hope you’re okay. I hope I haven’t done something wrong to upset you.

[wordstohim]

I wish you had time for me.

[wordstohim]

I wonder if you have time for her....