Hello Everyone,
Just a short note, as I know I’ve been breaking my silence more and more often, to say that based on current events, I thinks it’s best for both myself and frankly d&c if I go back to being largely quiet.
However, I want all my followers to know my current thought process so it is clear where I stand currently as I write on Wednesday October 20.
I have stated repeatedly that my hard line is a belief that d is making an active choice to advance in his career by remaining closeted and perpetuating a fraud further exacerbated by who his beard is and what she represents. After the initial emotional onslaught on Friday, I’ve spent several days reflecting and countless hours talking to the absolutely amazing members of this family. And while we all agree on the basics, we all have a different opinion and perspective, which I value and cherish. And I respect each of those opinions, but ultimately I need to formulate my own thoughts and perspective.
I can’t make sense of this and I see no win for either d or c in this situation. At this point they seem to be severely wounded and abandoned on the battle field and it’s unclear if they ever heal. There is no career gain. All I see for them is a loss of pride and dignity and potentially years if not decades more of lies and worse, hiding the truth. And remaining in what I perceive to be an incredibly unhealthy situation. Do not mistake, I find this pregnancy to be morally reprehensible, but I can’t find a logical reason for them to be willing players.
As such, I have decided that as of this moment, they continue to have my support. Maybe I’m weak, I’m not sure, but I can’t erase what I know or abandon 2 people are still think are living a nightmare and that continue to be the victims of an antiquated system that eats people alive for sport and profit.
I still wonder what happened 3 years ago to coerce them to agree. I maintain that up until d’s Emmy win they were fighting this with everything they had. Yet somehow, those in charge, whomever they are, broke them down to agree to the worst terms.
So while I may be quiet, I’m remaining firmly in their corner. And I think each of you need to make the best choice for you in how you move forward. This happens to be the best choice for me.
Thank you for giving me time to sort this out and having the opportunity to make my own decision on how to move forward.
Love to you all.
I hate that I’m even reposting this to send a response- but I truly can’t believe you crazy motherfuckers are still on this shit. I’ve seen ya’ll talk about this shit for over a DECADE. I hope you all get the help you desperately need. Living in a fantasy world won’t get you far.



















