alyssa

20//UK

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<3

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[ka039]

ATTENTION ALL GIRLS AND LADIES: if you walk from home, school, office or anywhere and you are alone and you come across a little boy crying holding a piece of paper with an address on it, DO NOT TAKE HIM THERE! take him straight to the police station for this is the new 'gang' way of rape. The incident is getting worse. Warn your families. Reblog this so this message can get accross to everyone.

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I will always reblog things like this, it won’t ruin your blog or the look of it, and this could potentially save a life.

PLEASE reblog this.

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how is everyone doing today? :) <3

(feat. Jellybean, my baby)

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My brain is being a little bich wtf please just make me happy

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I hope everyone is doing okay 💕

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Relationships are just awful

I’ve just got out of a relationship that I wasn’t happy in and I feel like I’m the one being punished for it. I put with constant criticism and pressure to do what they wanted for months. Now my family keeps asking what is happening between us and I’m too scared to say that we’ve broken up because they’ll see it as a fail from me.

I just feel like no one is supporting me in my decisions.

[bpd-italy]

how to avoid guilt-tripping people accidentally (will be updated as i think of examples)

don’t insult yourself. it seems like you’re looking to make them feel bad for you. it also makes it look like you’re playing victim. (ex: “i’m a shitty person.” “i should just die.” “i’m just stupid.”)

say, for example, “i feel like you dislike me” instead of “you dislike me.” you don’t actually know how they feel and being accusatory like that is a huge turn off.

when apologizing, make it genuine. don’t bring up how you feel and instead apologize for how you made the other person feel. how you feel can be brought up later.

remind people that you genuinely want to get better and tell them to call you out when you exhibit problematic behavior.

it’s perfectly okay to be angry that your trauma left you with these symptoms, but that doesn’t make it okay to continue problematic behavior and make no effort to fix it. you can do it with some effort. i believe in you. and feel free to add on.

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^ This is super important :) ^

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Someone pls tell me how to be happy

[calimarikid]

Siouxsie Sioux

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🖤⛓🦇⛓🖤

[ikantenggelem-deactivated202005]

[lifes-a-ball-game]

YES.YES.YES. People need to realise this 

[hellomrtoshy]

Hell Yes! 

[animentary-deactivated20150526]

I feel like this needs to be shared with a ton of people.

[bulllymia]

Sorry for the color but i love this.

[oceanary]

SO FUCKING IMPORTANT