Already in my 30s, ngayon ko lang na-experience yung pinakitaan mo ng genuine love and support, pero iba pala ang sinasabi pag nakatalikod ka na. Mas masakit kasi akala mo sila na yung safe space mo, your “mom friends” tapos gosh ang lala niyo mga ateh. I’ve cut people off before, others stopped talking to me kasi baka we outgrew our friendship na, but never like this one. Girl, wala na tayo sa 20s for you guys to act like that so gooooo kung dyan kayo masaya. Nakakaamaze lang talaga na may mga ganong klase at ugali ng tao. Salamat sa pagpapaexperience mga teh! At this age, mas pinipili ko na ang peace kaysa presence. God has a way of revealing what doesn’t belong to my life, not to hurt me but to protect me. And that’s super okay. I choose distance, not because I’m bitter, but because I’m protecting what God healed in me.




















