small town community drama about Livi,
but also just. me diary-ing about what happened in my life yesterday. But without obfuscating the fact that it’s Livi like I usually do for anything that’s negative, because I’d sincerely rather anyone who this makes uncomfortable because of them liking Livi to just noooooot Follow me.
Alright well, since V did this which is absolutely making me giggle up a entire fucking storm (which why the hell is the Likes counter on their Pinned post still not gotten any additional Likes? y’all I’m not asking anymore. /playful but serious)
I might as well post this basic summary of the conversation that Livi and I had yesterday?
Livi stated, without having done basic website procedure of blocking me, that he didn’t want me looking at a blog that I had already backread everything all the way through November at least a month ago. So I told him that it was too late since I’d already done it.
He told me he thought I knew I wouldn’t want him looking through it from our last call, which he actually did not tell me he didn’t want me looking through it our last call. He was actually sheepish about it and found it unfortunate that through screen sharing that he showed it off, but since I already could see it he sigh-fully acquiesced that he didn’t care. I mentioned I was dyslexic and wouldn’t be able to get the blog through his screen anyway since it was a bunch of letters in an order I couldn’t read. (I only received the blog later, completely organically, though conversation with V.) (I also was only told later that he didn’t want me looking through his liifaan blog, which I don’t know why I’d care about going through his reblog-blog anyway?? So I could obviously infer the thing about the mishkinwhatever blog and all his other blogs too, but the timeline doesn’t even match up with when I read it.)
I also told him that given he didn’t even do basic blocking which is the minimum step for a public blog, that I actually don’t care how he feels about it.
He stated that tumblr doesn’t allow both party blocks, and I told him that is untrue since I have both party blocks with multiple people. He asked how to do that and I told him that: given he is a tumblr PC user who goes into the source code to block evade and other such nonsense, I have no idea how he doesn’t already know how to do that. I also decided that Livi has been such a fucking asshole to me that I was going to for once in my fucking life be an asshole back and specifically tell him I was NOT tell him how to do it when he asked how to do it.
(by the way, the way you do it is LITERALLY just typing the name into the block section of the per-blog setting??? Like, just the normal way to block people?? how do you even think you can’t do this??)
Then when he asked me for V’s username, presumably to block them because Livi keeps holding it against V that they’re the reason I gained access to the mishwhatever blog; and I responded “no” immediately because why the fuck would I do that?? And then he immediately responses “yes” and tried saying that “you don’t get to both have my blogs and refuse telling me”.
Which V was literally in his telegram channel for some time . . . and is in all the main rq tags . . . and has their username on transID wiki which Livi uses the wikis like . . . I don’t even know why you would ask me other than trying to power trip me one last time.
So I called him out saying that he couldn’t just make me do whatever he wanted anymore.
And so he changed tactics and tried claiming “it isn’t fair and also you can’t even decide if you want to be an asshole to me or if you’re obsessed with me enough to go through months of stuff”.
So I called him out and said I didn’t care “about him” I was going through the blog because I wanted more information about him cheating on someone with me and to see how much he lied to me.
And then he tried gaslighting me that “I shouldn’t take the words he used too seriously and it wasn’t actually cheating”
>So I called him out on that too and called him gaslighty-groomy and compared him to my abusive non-bio dad. To quote, I told him: Listen you might be into this whole “let’s dismiss what I said and did and not take my words at face-value of what words actually mean and try to gaslight groom it all down and re-write the past” thing just like my fucking non-bio dad but I’m really not into it.
Oh uh and then I called him out about some of the shitty relationship stuff, including but not limited to “why would you volunteer to let an AAY in an abusive situation at home who has NOWHERE to go move in with you halfway across the globe where she doesn’t know the language and not expect it to be a long term thing? like you’d literally just be leaving me in a worse situation than I came from??” ETA’d I forgot about this when initially making this summary, sorry. ‘cause this is mostly supposed to be about what happened YESTERDAY.
And then he tried acting all high and mighty like I was totally in the wrong during the relationship and tried taunting if I “reaaaaally wanted to do this again?” or if it was worth me getting upset again or if “this was what I wanted”
So I was like (paraphrased) “yeah wow. I’m actually not upset but it’s nice to see just how insufferably you are in denial and your utter lack of self-accountability or self-reflection. Yeah getting confirmation about that and how much a piece of shit you are is a good outcome of this interaction, actually.”
Then he tried insulting the fact that I don’t know off the top of my head how to spell the mishkintub (or whatever) blog but I literally didn’t care or engage with that because that’s just petty rudeness honestly. Also who cares when all I would have to do to navigate to that blog if I wanted to*(1) is type the letters “mi” in my url bar after the tumblr part of the address is already there, which because of browser cookies would already make it auto-fill?
*(1) there’s no reason to, I already confirmed stuff about exactly how he was dealing with the situation when he was accidentally cheating on his partner with me and then slapped a bandaid on it last second before telling me I’d made him comfortable to ask for changes in his relationship as if it hadn’t just happened. But it didn’t even matter because he was still incredibly nervous of stepping on his partner’s toes like every single time he interacted with me even after that, because it he couldn’t tell if it passed the lines of what he actually asked for — and refused to tell his partner about his exact interactions with me to elaborate even when I asked him to so that I didn’t feel like some horrible dirty secret.
Oh and then he was being rude and sarcastic about V, and as I’ve since learned, apparently included a rude and sarcastic tag @ V in a recent post?? Which like. Yeah I don’t even fucking know how anyone thinks they can do that and NOT have a consequence happen like V’s post. Like: he really did that to himself, girl. V is everywhere and is so much more competent at using this website than me. And apparently Livi as well. G-d V is beautiful.
Oh uhh, this is the previous “I decided to not only spill the tea, but actually shatter the entire teapot” post that I made on Livi and what happened; since ¿I guess I might as well link that in here too? for chronicling.
Also I think there is a ¿certain disgusting irony? in a YAP who was really shitty to an AAY in their life to then make a sarcastic post addressing not just that AAY after she called him out, but two AAYs who have both suffered because of that exact sort of YAP shittiness??? like I’m just saying . . .
