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When lesbians are confident in their sexuality, they’re the future to younger lesbians. For hope, security, and that they’re capable of anything. Lesbians who are confident in using other pronouns besides she/her, lesbians who are gnc, nb, etc., help younger lesbians who are struggling with their gender expression and identity. Confident lesbians give hope and chances for younger lesbians. Let’s strive to continue to create a space of healthy, and positivity for our community.

carrionthrash-deactivated201904

just saw someone call putin a terf….. I’m so tired.. u know u can just call people transphobic like I think the implication that putin is a radical feminist might be a little off the mark

snowpao

Maca + Glasses

wlw-for-life

anxietyproblem

josieandthepussycatsofficial

orion-rising

Always be vague. Say I think they’re in today or not until later. If they press say it’s company policy not to give out the schedule. Most companies do have this and even if they don’t how would a stranger know. Don’t give out specifics, they can get people injured or even killed.

At my last job someone came up and asked when “Sarah” was working next. I didn’t tell him and then texted her a description, turns out he was an abusive ex who had been stalking her. Don’t do this shit please.

geneticcardio

Do NOT say anything along the lines of “they’re not in today” or “not until later” because you are confirming that this is somewhere the person in question can be found. NEVER confirm anything!

purple-bandanaman

My old boss told us a story of how, years before when she was a fairly new manager (I’m talking decades, she’s 64 right now), there was a man who came in and asked for an employee by name and said he was her uncle. She told him the employee’s shift started in a coule hours. He waited the entire time for her, and when she came in, he assaulted her and bashed her face into the counter. My boss saw everything. She can’t recall what he said, but he kept screaming until someone threatened to call the police.

She told me that story after a man came in and asked for when an employee, who recently quit, would be coming in. I told him she doesn’t work here anymore and he said to me “Okay, well I’m her dad so if you see her tell her I’ll be across the street at the gas station.” He left and my boss IMMEDIATELY came out and scolded me for it, then told me that story.

She gave me some advice on what to say or do in that situation:

Don’t just deny knowing anything, deny the person asking. Example, “When is ____ coming in?” “You can’t know that information.” or “Can you tell me when ____’s shift is?” “Schedules are only for employees.” Additionally, saying “I don’t know what you’re talking about.” can usually work, it may piss them off but it can work.

Continue on with the customer service. “I can’t help you with that, do you need help (with clothes, finding a product, ordering)?” or “Can I take your order?/Can I help you find (a product)?”

If they persist, insist they leave the store. “If you’re not going to order, please leave the building.” or “I can’t help you, have a nice day.” and, if you can, leave. If you can’t leave, call for or help the next customer.

If they still persist (by now they may be aggressive), threaten to call the police on the basis of them becoming aggressive and refusing to leave the premises. Some people will leave at that point, others stay. When the police get there, explain the situation but still do NOT confirm the existence of the employee they’re looking for to the police until they have been escorted out of the area.

Regardless of if the customer know the employee’s name, description, or daily (not hourly) schedule, even if they look like the same race and claim to be family, you NEVER confirm the employee’s existence.

The only exceptions are if the employee tells you themself they’re expecting someone to come in for them (ASK FOR A DESCRIPTION OF THE PERSON), and if you personally know who they are in relation to the employee. When anyone I know has to come in because I asked them to come in, I describe what they look like and what they usually wear. I go into deep descriptions, even including how they walk.

You could literally save a life, guys. Don’t blindly trust your gut either and think “But they LOOK innocent” or “But they said ______” because that can result in someone getting severely hurt, or killed.

dusky-phantom

I know I joked on this post before but seriously

If youre in the US it is against federal law to give out anyones personal information (this includes numbers, names, and schedules) without writen and signed permission.

Just say its against federal law and you cant give out that info without risk of termination - this will get 99% off your back the first time

postirony

“I have no idea who you’re talking about”

sapphiresea

lesbian privilege, as told by kate mckinnon.

rowdyholtzy

scream-for-audrey

@dearestfrendz had to reblog with your tags bc they were so good

oh-snap-pro-choice

“why do you wear so much denim on denim?”

“your nails are so short”

viostormcaller

And the thing is, none of this is incorrect like the gif in the first rb? Their outfit is a Look™

cookie-sheet-toboggan

afronerdism

Why you should never buy sex toys on Amazon.

I see people on here all the time talking about buying sex toys on Amazon so it’s time to run through this again. I know it may seem like you’re saving money but when something seems too good to be true it usually is.

The main reason you shouldn’t buy sex toys on Amazon is that, unlike buying from reputable retailers, you have absolutely no garuntee that the product you’re buying hasn’t been used, returned, and resold. The sex you industy in America is almost completely unregulated so really can’t trust amazon to hold better business practices than legally required. People have found bodily fluid and pubic hair on toys purchased from Amazon.

'Some had bodily fluids on them, and some even had pubic hairs."

The second biggest reason is that you’re more than likely buying an expensive knock off labeled as a brand name item. The way the amazon marketplace works is by sorting items with the same bar code name into the same catagory. So let’s say you want a wi vibe so you pay for one but what happens is that amazon doesn’t log a difference between a brand name Wi-vibe and a knock off from China. They’re both just labeled “wi-vibe” so you pay for a quality item and get a cheap knock off. So you may think you’re getting a high quality item for $50 but instead you’re getting a $10 look alike that will die and malfunction quickly. Imagine paying for a Lelo (the most luxury sex toy brand) and getting something nothing like that.

Buying sex toys from Amazon is risky. I get a lot of complaints about counterfeit sex toys, misrepresentation in brand/materials and even us

And lastly, it’s not safe for you! Because the chances of you getting a knock off are so high, it’s very likely that you’ll get something made out of harmful materials. A lot of the sex toys made cheaply in China and places like that have no body safe regulations on materials so not only could you pay for a brand name item and not get it , but you might actually get something that could make you sick or even poison you. Some toys will even leak oils and chemicals when exposed to water or fluids.

Amazon's Sexual Wellness section is chock-full of sex toys, but it's a mixed bag, with ple

In summation, buying from Amazon is NOT safe for you, will most likely rip you off, and you could even be getting used products.

Below I’m listing Dangerous Lily’s list of best places to buy. I recommend reading her reviews before purchasing anything expensive.

Where to buy:

SheVibe

Early to bed

Smitten Kitten

Good Vibes

Come as you are

Be vibrant

HotOctopuss

And directly from the brand retailor like we-vibe, Lelo, body wand, etc.

lesbian-lizards

https://www.wetforher.com/ <– lesbian friendly toys and harnesses

thepurplepanther

Bless her, she’s trending.

I’m actually sad.

airesgay

I don’t want to dwell on this, I’m going to try my best to wipe it from my memory, but I can’t wrap my head around this. They really don’t give a fuck, this is genuinely disgusting.

I knew this was happening two months ago, I was just coming to terms with it, but no they just had to keep hyping the wedding up, and posting happy pictures, and basically telling us it was all fine without saying the actual words ‘they’re getting a Happy Ending’. This storyline has thrown us a lot of shit and I think I’ve stayed pretty realistic throughout, but what are you meant to think when they do this??

Yes the actress was leaving, but they had the perfect opportunity to do it somewhat peacefully at an earlier time. But they chose to hype up a wedding and a happy ending, having the characters state multiple times how they deserved happiness.

This was meant to be the first same sex wedding in a show that’s been running for FIFTY YEARS. not just that but also the chance to show an lgbt Muslim getting her happy ending. I can’t even fathom wasting this.

Everyone saying this was a fantastic episode can fuck off. Anyway, that’s all, thanks a bunch

rainbowkarolina

itsmagnuswinchester

PLEASE HELP ME AND MY FAMILY

Few months ago I started asking for donations because my sister’s husband left with another woman and has move to another country. We didn’t know where excacly. He doesn’t pay for anything, he doesn’t send any money. He is a piece of shit. He was homophobic towards me, he cheated on her when she was pregnant. He was controlling and jealous of everything. But my sister stayed with him because of the child.

Also she had to leave the place they live for the last 9 years because it was bought by his parents and they told her to move out. They never liked her and us because my family is poor.

She is back now in our parents home where I sill live too. There’s only two small rooms in the house, kitchen and one bathroom. All of this for 5 people now. They sleep on the floor in my bedrooom.

Also a two months ago my sister had a car accident and her car was completely trash. And she needs one because we live 5km from school and there’s no bus on my street or the next one.

For the last couple of months we raised 843$. It goes for bills, school payments and supplies and meds.

My sister is really depressed now and we need to help her with everything. She started taking antidepressands. They are not cheap and she still doesn’t work. So I ask you to help us a little more, maybe a month or two. You can find the rest information here.

Also we all are strugling so much. We only have my father’s pension. that’s 1300zl for five people for the entire month. My health is not letting me work right now. I have asthma attacks almost every day. and I may have SM like my mom. Right now i don’t have money to buy meds. I’m 2 months behind with my bills.This is all the money I have:

I don’t know what to do. All my meds:

Please if you can spare even a dollar, it would be amazing. Paypal: [email protected] OR gogetfunding

UPDATE ON FEBRUARY 22: I’M BEHIND WITH MY PHONE BILL AND IN THE LAST FEW DAYS THEY KEEP CALLING ME AND SENDING ME TEXTS AND I CAN’T ASK FOR MORE TIME TO PAY BECAUSE I USED IT ALREADY TWO MONTHS AGO. HERE’S HOW MUCH I NEED TO PAY:

291,89zł IS AROUND 80$. I NEED AT LEAST THAT MUCH REALLY REALLY FAST. PLEASE IF YOU CAN HELP, EVEN A LITTLE BIT IT WOULD BE SOMETHING FOR ME.I ALREADY PAID FOR BILLS FROM THREE MONTHS AGO THANKS TO YOU. YOU ARE ALL AMAZING.

Paypal: [email protected] OR gogetfunding

UPDATE ON MONDAY MARCH 18: MY INTERNET IS NOT WORKING SINCE YESTERDAY SO I CAN’T REALLY ASK YOU GUYS TO REBLOG THIS AND I’M GONNA BE WITHOUT IT FOR AT LEAST WHOLE WEEKEND (OR MORE) SO PLEASE PLEASE SHARE IT WITH WHOEVER YOU CAN.

Paypal: [email protected] OR gogetfunding