inactive.

[yoongii-trash]

lmao

[yoongii-trash]

Transphobia hurts so much, just stop

[yoongii-trash]

@ anon refering to me as “she” 

fucking eat shit you vile fucking human

[yoongii-trash]

Also “attention seeking” for being upset over a transphobic comment???? what the FUCK OH MY GOD FUCK OFF

[yoongii-trash]

@ anon refering to me as “she” 

fucking eat shit you vile fucking human

[yoongii-trash]

Since we're talking about issues in fics you better go ahead and delete that disgrace of a sugarbaby yoonmin fic you pooped out

Ok but when are u gonna deliver some real insults or something

Turning anon off but feel free to come back off anon xox

[yanlyiie]

always together -✿

[shizuma-art]

yoonmin holding hands

[theslaycademy]

[yoongii-trash]

yoongi deserves better fans then this you are indeed trash like your name says

why’s that?

[bwibelle]

Q: What are you interested in lately besides music? SG:  I like photography. I will take pictures of the members and of scenary (x)

[yoongii-trash]

"I've never met anyone so ignorant" but you're so fucking ignorant!!??? I liked your blog but I had to unfollow you because of your constant bitching and complaining and entitlement holy shit. You honestly think you can get away with treating people like shit because you're disabled?? and because you're trans??? A lot of the shit you "call people out on" is just misunderstandings or mistranslations and you make a big deal and play victim like they meant to hurt you on purpose. Grow up already.

Lmao see ya

[yoongii-trash]

ANYWAY in lighter news, some good things have happened recently!!!!

My packer has arrived and I’m wearing it rn (the mums in my class complimented me omfg)

I got a first on an essay!!! I’m so happy. 74 out of 100!

Me and @leadermon are hoping to go to Seoul this summer!

My fave teacher is teaching BSL level 2 fjnvkjdfnd i love him

I HAVE TIME TO WRITE AND READ AND DO WHAT I WANT!!!

[glorious-revolution]

Word of advice when trying to convince people that your blatantly transphobic language isn’t actually transphobic maybe try not to misgender the person you’ve upset???? Like misgendering is the first lecture in How To Be A Transphobic Cunt 101

[yoongii-trash]

!!!!!!! THIS!!!!!!

Oh but they apologised didn’t they???? It’s so easy to misgender someone when you’re trying to convince them that you’re not transphobic!!!!

Smh I’ve never met anyone as fuckin ignorant

[yoongii-trash]

Honestly I just read the excuses of that transphobic trashlord and I just wanna say you were definitely right in thinking that they were transphobic and dangerous. Their excuses were just that: excuses. It was a clear and violent statement. "You can fuck 'a transgender' (wtf) which is responded to with 'I don't fuck women.' No. As a writer myself, I'm not buying it. Either that person is an awful fucking writer or a transphobe. Stay strong, I love u

Thank you so much for your support. 

Not to mention, they’re constantly trying to prove their innocence but then referred to me as “she”..... My pronouns are he/him to be clear!

But yeah I could tell it was just excuses

[yoongii-trash]

“I’m not transphobic this is outrageous”

but then,....

*refers to me, a trans BOY, as “she”*

[yoongii-trash]

TRIGGER WARNING: TRANSPHOBIA

So, I think it’s pretty self explanatory. It hurts but one of my favourite authors turned out to be transphobic. After finally being excited to read their fics (uni is hard and I have no time for hobbies) I come to find this….

For those of you who don’t know, I’m trans, and it hurts more than anything to be portrayed as disgusting and unwanted and “female of any kind”. This triggered my dysphoria so badly and it still lasts now. 

I follow a lot of mlm blogs and thankfully, real people accept us. Real gay cis men wouldn’t say shit like this (at least not the ones I’ve come across. There’s a lot of supportive people in the mlm community)

To portray Hoseok and Namjoon as transphobic assholes is really insulting. I feel like they would be open and accepting towards transgender people. 

Anyway, I originally commented politely, but that comment was deleted. (sadly I didn’t get a screenshot because I expected it to not be deleted???) My comment said:

Tbh I was excited to read this since I love your work but I barely got into it and had to stop… I’m a trans boy and it really hurts to be portrayed as disgusting and “females of any kind”…. I used to love your work but seeing as you’re transphobic I guess I won’t read your stuff anymore haha

(I still have it because I sent it to my gf to ask if it sounded rude etc) Not rude, right? So I don’t see why it got deleted…. So I commented again and… deleted again. Now I’ve moved on from being hurt and I’ve become angry. 

TL;DR ethereal_yoongi is transphobic, says trans men are females, won’t even apologise when called out politely or change it. TRANS MEN ARE A PART OF THE MLM COMMUNITY!!!

[arsmoriendiii]

this is a misunderstanding and I’m not transphobic. far from it actually. i deleted your comments because no one likes being accused of something they are not especially in a public space. The language in my story, as far as I thought, was okay, but you never gave me the opportunity or respect to understand how the language was offensive. And now you’re putting this on tumblr when I asked you to message me privately about it so we could talk it out. I would still like to do that so once again, please send me a private message.

[yoonjan-blog]

Ok I’m guessing you’re the author (which I didn’t know at the time u messaged me and I was like wtf)

I have a couple of responses here

1 what part of calling trans men “females of any kind” is not transphobic? It literally implies that trans men aren’t men because of what they have in their pants. ie: TRANSPHOBIC

2 as for deleting comments and “public space” you literally could have apologised to me in reply and explained yourself (which is how I was expecting it to go tbh) and changed that part in the fic. It wasn’t needed so???

3 no private messages (I can’t pm on this account anyway), if you really want to clear this up you can do so publically :)

[arsmoriendiii]

Namjoon wasn’t referring to trans men when he said “females of any kind” he meant FEMALES and trans men are not females. I’ll be careful with my syntax from now on since this is all just a misunderstanding of my writing. Still would like to talk privately because it’s better that way.

[yoonjan-blog]

I don’t understand why you couldn’t have just explained this in a reply to my comment instead of deleting it????

And saying you want to pm me but then blocking me?? (I’m assuming this because I can’t reblog from you on yoongii-trash anymore)

Regardless, to say “no females of any kind” in response to someone saying “you can fuck a transgender” is…. Idk it feels like you’re making excuses. Especially when Namjoon said it specifically after limiting his choice to only cis men. 

[arsmoriendiii]

Go ahead, keep thinking you know my thoughts and feelings, and keep putting everything out there. I hate being misunderstood but what I hate more is not being able to reason with someone. I just told you what my thoughts were while writing the fic but you easily dismissed that, so I feel like nothing I can say will assuage you anyway? Tell me exactly what you want me to say so we can settle this.

[yoonjan-blog]

how about a fucking apology which I’m still waiting for lmao

[arsmoriendiii]

“lmao” like this is the kind of situation to joke about. You want an apology from me after putting my ass on blast in, might I add, the most mature of ways? if this really bothered you and you wanted an honest, not forced, apology, you would approach me differently, not make a tumblr post calling me out.

[yoonjan-blog]

hahaha woops

I think after experiencing severe dysphoria all last night and becoming depressed and anxious, because of you I might add, I should be allowed to have a laugh rn.

And a forced apology huh? Seems like you’re unapologetically transphobic and you disgust me. I won’t deny that you’re a great writer but I won’t be reading any more of your stuff.

Also, if you had just replied to my comment on the story instead of deleting my multiple comments, I wouldn’t have to make a call out post.

Have a good day, you’ve shown yourself to be a really gross person so.

[yoongii-trash]

I’m not arguing with this vile person again or I’m just gonna get more upset lmao

[yoongii-trash]

TRIGGER WARNING: TRANSPHOBIA

So, I think it’s pretty self explanatory. It hurts but one of my favourite authors turned out to be transphobic. After finally being excited to read their fics (uni is hard and I have no time for hobbies) I come to find this….

For those of you who don’t know, I’m trans, and it hurts more than anything to be portrayed as disgusting and unwanted and “female of any kind”. This triggered my dysphoria so badly and it still lasts now. 

I follow a lot of mlm blogs and thankfully, real people accept us. Real gay cis men wouldn’t say shit like this (at least not the ones I’ve come across. There’s a lot of supportive people in the mlm community)

To portray Hoseok and Namjoon as transphobic assholes is really insulting. I feel like they would be open and accepting towards transgender people. 

Anyway, I originally commented politely, but that comment was deleted. (sadly I didn’t get a screenshot because I expected it to not be deleted???) My comment said:

Tbh I was excited to read this since I love your work but I barely got into it and had to stop… I’m a trans boy and it really hurts to be portrayed as disgusting and “females of any kind”…. I used to love your work but seeing as you’re transphobic I guess I won’t read your stuff anymore haha

(I still have it because I sent it to my gf to ask if it sounded rude etc) Not rude, right? So I don’t see why it got deleted…. So I commented again and… deleted again. Now I’ve moved on from being hurt and I’ve become angry. 

TL;DR ethereal_yoongi is transphobic, says trans men are females, won’t even apologise when called out politely or change it. TRANS MEN ARE A PART OF THE MLM COMMUNITY!!!

[arsmoriendiii]

this is a misunderstanding and I’m not transphobic. far from it actually. i deleted your comments because no one likes being accused of something they are not especially in a public space. The language in my story, as far as I thought, was okay, but you never gave me the opportunity or respect to understand how the language was offensive. And now you’re putting this on tumblr when I asked you to message me privately about it so we could talk it out. I would still like to do that so once again, please send me a private message.

[404sandheartache]

I know we have spoken about this at length last night because it has pained you so much for anyone to think you are against the acceptance and betterment of the trans* community. It hasn’t been your intention, but the wording is weird so I understand how it can be interpreted differently than what you meant.

However OP, it is rude to accuse someone of something due to lines said by a character in a fic. How is someone supposed to honestly start dialogue when you have made a negative judgment call like “seeing as you’re transphobic”? Who would honestly respond well to this? You’re already attacking her from something she might have not realized could have been taken as transphobic. I know her, and that has never been her intention whatsoever. As a person a part of the LGBTQIA* community, I am very careful who I befriend, and Jaz has always been someone I felt safe around. I would never ever befriend someone who would be divisive towards others and endanger my own sanity and safety especially when I have been thrown out of my house and torn down by family and people I thought were allies because of my identity. This makes my heart hurt honestly because she is none of these you are claiming. Don’t do this her please. This makes my heart ache and I’m in tears because I wouldn’t subject myself to someone who is hateful. This honestly triggers me terribly and might have another panic attack. I’ve been avoiding Tumblr because of so much going on but I must defend my loving, kind friend.

[yoongii-trash]

I'M SCREAMING I DIDNT READ PAST TRANS* HSBFJEBDHAN STOP