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You Know You’re Trans* When: #2725 You have separate drawers for masculine, feminine and neutral clothing

You Know You’re Trans* When: #2724 You use aftershave without actually shaving

You Know You’re Trans* When: #2723 Fitted shirts when you’re not out are the devil’s work.

You Know You’re Trans* When: #2722 You’re super pumped this blog is posting again! :)

You Know You’re Trans* When: #2721 Your cringe when you meet someone with your birth-name

You Know You're Trans* When: #2720 You Enjoy Getting Sick Because It Deepens Your Voice

Good Afternoon!

Hello all, so it’s been just over two years since I was last on here! Time has certainly flown by. What have I been up to? LOTS! I’ve been a stay-at-home parent for the last three years and just last year I decided to take the plunge to become self-employed.

I now have three work ventures alongside raising my little boy, Joshua, so you can imagine how busy I’ve been. But I intend on coming back to running this page again very soon.

In the meantime, if you would like to see what I’ve been up to, you can find me over on:

Twitter - @SuffolkDad

Instagram - @ASuffolkDad

Blog - http://kaidenlaverty.com

See you all again very soon,

Kaiden x

Hey, I'm fairly new to your blog but it really makes me laugh and cheers me up so thank you. But I have a dilemma and would really appreciate some advice. I am ftm but I am not out. I have made the decision to slowly start making my appearance more (traditionally) masculine. For me this involves getting my hair cut short but all of my friends and family are saying that I look so pretty with long hair and what a shame it is to get it cut. Im really starting to doubt myself. and advice? thank you!

K: Hello! Thank you :)

I can only tell you to do what YOU want and are comfortable with. Do what makes you feel better about yourself. Definitely don’t do something in regards to your appearance for someone else's’ benefit. Dress, wear your hairstyle etc for you, no-one else! If they don’t like what you look like, that’s okay because it’s not for them anyway. It’s for YOU!

I'm MtF but am so unsure about my sexuality. I'm attracted to women and I really love them, but I am also sexually attracted to men, but I don't think I could date them. I'm really confused =(

K: It’s perfectly fine to have a fluid sexuality! I don’t want to put labels onto you but I know a few people who have the same/similar sexuality as you and label themselves as bisexual/hetero-romantic. This obviously means they are sexually attracted to both men and women and only romantically attracted to [x].

There are obviously varieties of this such as heterosexual/bi-romantic, homosexual/bi-romantic etc. Don’t stress, you like who you like in whichever way :)

You Know You're Trans* When: #2719 Someone you're seeing says you're too masculine/feminine for them and instead of being offended, you grin from ear to ear.

Are you truscum

K: Nope! :)

what would i be considered, I guess you could say, if I don't really feel completely female nor male? I'm just kind of impartial to what gender I'd be considered?

K: Honestly, there are tons of identities out there! This is something only you can really do. Look into some terms and their descriptions and take your time to think about what may, or may not, fit you and how you perceive yourself.

don't know if u got my last message cause internet is bad. I just started thinking that I'm a trans man (I'm 16). don't most people realize that they are trans at a young age? I i also like feminine things like skirts (sometimes makeup)?? Help!

K: Hello! Don’t worry, everyone discovers/realises/comes to accept at different points in their life. I personally was around 17/18! And I know people who were in their 40s when they really came to terms that they were transgender.

Also don’t worry about what you’re into! It’s perfectly fine for you to want to wear skirts and make-up... or ANYTHING, for that matter. Clothes are just clothes, so don’t stress about putting genders onto them. Wear what you’re comfortable in and do what makes YOU happy!

You Know You're Trans* When: #2718 You try to drink as little as possible at school so you won't have to use gendered bathrooms.

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You Know You're Trans* When: #2717 Your friend's advice to other people is "Don't piss him off, he'll be on his period next week."

Hi, I recently came to terms with the fact that I'm gender fluid. I have began using they/their pronouns with some of my friends. But I'm afraid to tell my parent that I'm gender fluid AND pansexual AND I don't want to go to college. What do I do????

K: Hello! It sounds like you have a lot you need to tell them. Personally, I’d only worry about one thing at a time. Which one do you feel is most important to tell them, at this moment? Tell them that first and then go from there. Hope it all goes well for you!

When I first started hanging out with some DnD buddies, one guy would constantly misgender me (he didn't even know I was trans). We kinda had a 'misgender jar'... in that I got to sock him in the arm or peg a heavy object at him whenever he used the wrong pronouns. He learnt to use the correct pronouns quick enough :3

K: Hit them where it hurts... their wallet :P

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