Here's 30 seconds of Carol laughing that I found in my files
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Here's 30 seconds of Carol laughing that I found in my files
I want everyone to know this is my favourite thing that exists on the internet.
Thinking about the different ways Kelly, Connie, Daryl, Magna, Yumiko and others responded to Carol after the cave...
It feels like this is super contentious bc it touches so deeply on how people feel about the way women like Carol are treated - especially in response to their grief and their right to exist imperfectly. And I know some people don't like the way that story was handled bc at times, it felt like Carol was being punished excessively.
And I think about that quite a lot, because I adore Carol, and I know how much it hurts to see her treated badly, especially when the reason is bad writing.
Lately, l've been thinking about how that storyline, to me, doesn't just tell a story about Carol's actions and the weight of them. It also tells an important story about how we respond to harm, guilt, grief, and complicated love.
I think Angela Kang once said something like that it's valuable to tell stories about realistic, complex women; to depict them not just as perfect heroines and role models, but to show them in their messiness and their pain too. And I feel like the ways we see characters like Yumiko, Magna, Kelly, Connie, and even Daryl respond to Carol is similar. Their responses aren't alwavs clean or morally comfortable or even fair, and there's truth in that. It's real.
Sometimes we respond like Kelly, with compassion. Sometimes like Connie, with kindness. Sometimes like Yumiko, with anger/ fear. Sometimes like Magna, with both anger and compassion. And sometimes like Daryl, with a messy mix of displaced emotions, hurt, and love.
All of these reactions represent something real, because harm was caused, regardless of whether or not Carol was at fault. The show makes space for that emotional complexity.
It feels like that arc never quite got fully tied up, but the ingredients were there, idk. I'm sure this isn't a perfect analysis. Just some thoughts I'm having about it. Idk idk.
"Permission to Go After What I Love"
I think for us, it’s always been important that the women be complex, so not only do they kick ass, but they have full emotional lives.
They can make mistakes.
They can be awesome.
They can be smart.
They can have moments of weakness.
Having fully formed people is what allows you to look at characters as humans and not just this construct of what you want them to be. I do think that there’s this kind of toxic perfectionism that can come with female characters. I don’t want to lean into that, and it’s not always popular when we have the women on our show make mistakes. But I would tell that kind of story for a male protagonist. That’s how they get to have a better story. They’ve got to struggle.
So, if you’re going to have female characters who are heroic, they also have to struggle against themselves, and against external forces.
Of course, we don’t always know our own gaps in understanding, but we’re always trying to evolve the conversation and be truer to who we think these characters might be if they were living, breathing human beings.
Angela Kang, "Permission to Go After What I Love".
Conversations with Women Showrunners - Marygrace O'Shea.
Posting this again because tbh I want to repost it every day.
Daryl to Morgan: If Carol were here she’d kick everyone’s ass and you know it!
Morgan: Maybe she doesn’t want to fight.
Daryl: I call BS on your logic.
Carol: I don’t want to fight
Daryl to Morgan: DAMMIT MORGAN, DON’T MAKE HER FIGHT IF SHE DON’T WANT TO.
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Daryl: I don’t trust that Ezekiel guy. He’s a coward and a rat!
Carol: He’s actually pretty nice.
Daryl: Ezekiel is a great man. He’s like a brother to me.
Daryl's dreams 😏
So, why was Carol saved in season 3? Or was that all made up starting with Nicotero? Surely not, since MMB said she was told on the phone by GM that Carol would be killed.
And why did Andrew Lincoln tell Melissa that Sarah Wayne Callies fought for her if that wasn’t true?
I do think I once heard that they changed it T-Dog because IronE Singleton kept showing up late to set, but I don’t know if that’s true.
Could it not be true both that SWC spoke up on Melissa’s behalf and that she didn’t actually have any power? Melissa said she was asked what she thought of the decision to kill Carol, and that all the writers were on the phone at the time. That seems unusual to me. It seems possible that when SWC was told about Lori’s death, she might have said something similar to what Melissa said, like expressing that she thought it was a shame or a “mistake” as AL put it. She might not have literally lobbied for it, but she might have expressed an opinion here or there, which is still something.
For the record, I like Sarah. I wasn’t saying she’s anything like Gimple. As a woman in the industry, it’s just fraught with danger to voice your opinion on anything outside your own job description. (Telling insecure white men that they’re making “mistakes” is how you get labeled as difficult to work with and potentially fired yourself if they’re petty enough.) Obviously, I wasn’t part of whatever conversations Sarah had with the EPs, so I can’t say for certain what she did or didn’t say, but I am dead sure she wasn’t the first person they told about writing Carol off the show.
Melissa knew before any of her castmates did and would have made her plea first. She saved Carol with how she had created a fleshed out person from the stereotype she was given.
The normal procedure for an actor to be told their option isn’t picked up is for the showrunner or another senior EP to call them. If the actor is a lead, the call is made by the showrunner. For supporting cast, the showrunner’s #2 could place the call because showrunners are very busy during pre-production. If there’s an expectation of trouble, there could be one other person on the call too, like a senior EP or someone from legal, depending on the circumstances surrounding the release. Otherwise, it’s a private conversation.
An actor will not get a termination call in the middle of a writing session. The showrunner needs to run the decision by the studio and get approval before they can let a main cast member go and nobody gets fired with an entire audience. Melissa could’ve been invited to speak to the writers’ room after initially having talked to the showrunner, so they could all hear her thoughts on Carol. It would give the room some inspiration to get an outside perspective if they were unable to see beneath the surface of ‘battered wife.’
“I said, “It’s really a shame, because there’s a lot to her.””
- Melissa McBride
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AMC giving Carol and Melissa the spotlight that they deserve? I could get used to that 😏
Re-watched the finale last night cos @patienceisavirtueidonothave cruelly made me and got re-annoyed at how Carol's story on the show ended (spin-off idiocy notwithstanding). So let's just step this thru for the dummies (what I affectionally call the showrunners).
Carol's whole story is defined by loss, sadness and grief. So. Someone (*looks pointedly at Gimple*) made the brilliant decision to have her final scenes defined by what? That's right. Further sadness and loss. Not crushing grief on the level that she's experienced previously, but still. The loss of her best friend and significant other, leaving to go look for "The Future" (how that tracks -- or doesn't -- with Daryl's character trajectory is a whole other issue). Now. Does Melissa McBride cry beautifully? Yes. Did I need to see Carol cry one last time?? NO WTF!???!! Is the sequence emotive and (almost) convincing? Yes. But does the sweeping cinematography and music completely cover up the fact that this ending makes sense for neither character? Ah, no. It doesn't.
So. If loss, sadness, grief, abuse and pain define Carol's arc then what would be the end point that we are all waiting and hoping for for this long-suffering, much beloved character? The opposite, right? Peace. Healing. Happiness. Relief. Love. And whatever the opposite of loss is. Having. The possession of something/someone. Which is where Daryl comes in. Because from s2 onwards, Daryl was set up as Carol's thematic parallel, her narrative significant other. And vice versa. That's what they are to each other. That's why there is something perfect and elemental in their presence onscreen and something missing when they are apart for too long. They are narrative mirrors. They're yin and yang, two sides of the same coin. They don't just embody each other's wounds, they also embody each other's cure. Because in meeting, seeing, acknowledging, affirming, accepting, loving and at last embracing each other, they finally meet, see, acknowledge, affirm, accept, love and fully embrace themselves. In life, it is true that we don't need to heal through another, don't always find peace in partnership, in romantic union. But this isn't reality, this is fiction. This is about closing the open loop of symbolic and narrative trajectory.
And look, you can score it magnificently, light it romantically, tell us directly that this is a good ending for both of them but if it doesn't track with everything that's gone before, it's gonna hit a false note. It's gonna cause some cognitive dissonance for anyone who's been paying actual attention. Let's just skip over the fact that at this point we have seen (multiple times!!) how Daryl and Carol do when they go solo and it is not good. For either of them. Let's focus instead on what Daryl's departure leaves Carol with:
“… self-important, cowardly, vain leaders... And now they get to sit at the top of it and dictate how this new world order will function...???” Now why does this power dynamic remind me of a certain Chief Content Officer for TWDU?
“When they were quite happy to live in a cruel, inequitable system as long as they personally were safe and comfortable.” And this is Antonio in the spinoff too. Will literally never forget that our introduction to him had him telling Daryl that underage girls are trafficked out of the town to secure the community’s safety, and he presents it as non-ideal “but if it keeps my boy safe, then that’s all I really want.”
This was supposed to be 3 brief points under another QnA from @my-mt-heart but it got obscenely long. Didn't wanna hijack so here's the original post and here's my take:
1. Daryl's default emotion is anger. We see this in the first 2 seasons. Whether he's feeling fear, guilt, grief, insecurity, confusion, offense -- literally everything comes out as anger. Impetuous, protective fury. We esp see it in how he responds to Carol during s2. When she approaches him, over and over again, sees him instead of dismissing him, talks to him instead over/about him, and actually expects him to stand up and be a man and speak honestly and have his opinion counted, his emotional regulation just spins wildly out of control. He has never experienced this, doesn't know what he's feeling or what to do with it, doesn't like being actually seen and the perceived pressure it puts on him, so he just lashes out. (And then apologises. Like he does after lashing out at Carol in the stables. And I always wonder if Ed used to apologise to her too. Once he was sober. Once his rage had passed. He'd reel her back in, charm her into staying. In the scene by the pond, Carol looks uncertain as to whether she can trust his apology. But I think she also senses that she can, that he's not like her late husband). Obviously, as he grows, he learns to regulate his emotions better, express his feelings in more healthy ways. But occasionally, when hurt or triggered or flooded with unfamiliar emotion, he still reverts to this ingrained behavior, this psychologically familiar trauma response. Daryl also regresses in this way when isolated from the people who ground and affirm him in this newer, calmer adult self (Rick and Carol esp, but Team Family follow their lead in how they treat Daryl and he accordingly rises to their greater expectations of who he is). He regresses into anger (to cover other emotions: grief, loss, guilt, defeat) when isolated in the woods with Beth (who can't ground him, he has to learn to ground her, which he does. Which is part of him growing up during that arc, moving beyond his wounded, reactive teen self). He also regresses when isolated in the woods after Rick's death. Which is why many of his interactions with Carol and Leah are so punchy.
“I just needed a friend.”
“Friends don’t have the same damn conversation over and over again.”
“Oh is that what’s happening? Because this is news to me.”
“It’s what’s been happening.”
“You wanna run? Run. I won’t stop you this time.” …. but I’ll keep waiting for you to find me…
Your favorite episodes answers got me thinking. I can't like the episode, Find me, because they fight. I can't like the episode, New Best Friends because, that was the episode the audience was told that Carol and Daryl were no longer going to be together. The hidden subtext makes me hate those episodes. I think I have an issue with the network ruining them :)
So, so valid.
Find Me is a tough one especially. I think part of the reason I actually like that episode is because I have a weird amount of faith in the intentions of its subtext.
The scenes with Leah are jarring and uncomfortable, and the fight between Carol and Daryl is upsetting. At the same time, there’s a lot going on that carefully and subtly communicates something important about their relationship. And then the follow-up, in Diverged, expresses that message even more. It feels like blueprints to a grand reveal.
The disappointing part now is that the grand reveal never came. There are little moments in season 11 that feel like they confirm those earlier intentions (like Leah telling Pope that she never said Daryl loved her, and Daryl telling Leah that he left her because he was “scared of letting go”), but they’re not the big payoff we should have had. The fight in particular is the real sore spot for that. It was tough to watch, and I remember thinking - ‘Wow, this is brave. A writer challenging THEIR relationship? The most loyal and longstanding of TV relationships. Brave. So brave.’
I think that to introduce conflict at this stage, you have to have a lot of faith in the strength of the duo and in your writing. And actually, kind of strangely, I thought it was pretty refreshing to see that. Their fight didn’t even fall into any of the traps that a lot of more formulaic TV drama often does - it wasn’t toxic, it wasn’t petty, it wasn’t loud, and especially with Diverged, you could still feel the love. I was genuinely interested in where it was leading. Especially because I did feel like they needed something to shake them up. The unspoken needed to be spoken, and there had to be some sort of change that would act as a catalyst for that. The issue for me is that, in the end, it remained unspoken, because season 11 deflated like a wet balloon. And that makes the fight feel more sour, because we had to endure the gutting discomfort of that with no reward for doing so.
But I also think about how season 11 would have felt if we never got those bonus Covid episodes. As I understand it, the bonus episodes were meant to add extra context to what was coming, but they weren’t necessary plot drivers. To me, that indicates that Carol and Daryl were meant to carry tension into season 11 regardless of what happened in Find Me. Not so dissimilar from the mysterious energy between them following the 6-year time jump in season 9. Find Me fills in more clues for us as to why that tension exists, why it matters, and why it persists in spite of “I’m never gonna hate you” and “New Mexico’s still out there.”
So, I do absolutely understand the negative feelings associated with Find Me, and I share a lot of them. But I think, for me, it feels like Find Me has ended up taking most of the heat for the disappointment that followed with season 11 and then with the abandonment of the original caryl spinoff. I feel like, in better circumstances, it had the potential to be a hugely rewarding component in what could have been a satisfying story.
I’m so sorry for the novel size length of this reply 🥸 I saw an opportunity to talk about Find Me and I ran.
Listen. If you don't appreciate Carol Peletier at her most unhinged (offing incidental love interests, scaring small children, releasing problematic lifers, hurling herself off cliffs, messing with dynamite and pissing off her patient, handsome bff (who also happens to be one of tumblr's fave daddies)) then you don't deserve her at her most hinged (single-handedly saving Team Family multiple fucking times).
No i like that male character not in a horny way... more like in a theres something so deeply wrong with him that its fascinating
About Glenn's death: it just felt like yet another example of this classic dudebro idea of "good people are too soft for this world, you have to *adapt* to survive" that the show seems to push. It's just age old toxic masculinity propaganda wrapped up in a new coating by establishing Glenn as the moral compass and then basically punishing him with the most gruesome and painful death possible for all the dudebros to point to and go "see what happens when you're not heartless enough?!." Not a fan.
I'd call it classic Gimple 🤷♀️ He thinks he's being cool and edgy when in reality, he's just being vile, especially toward characters of color. Take another look at Tyreese's last episode. It's basically suicide propaganda for those who don't belong or can't handle the real world.
Tyreese's death being suicide propaganda. And also Sasha. And Jacqui. All suicidal, all died.
Andrea, Beth, and Carol all struggled with suicidal ideation and survived it. They all got to have a (comparatively) empowering arc about resilience in the face of depression, grief, and suicidal ideation.
And don't get me wrong, because Andrea, Beth, and Carol have all been treated awfully, and I wouldn’t say that all of their arcs surrounding suicidal ideation are necessarily particularly well done. But there is an undeniable difference in how their arcs surrounding suicidal ideation were handled vs how Tyreese’s, Sasha's, and Jacqui's were handled.
In fact, Jacqui's is a particular sore spot. Nobody talks about it. She's treated as an expendable member of the group so that she can demonstrate the right to choose whether to opt in or out of the new world. Meanwhile, Andrea makes the same choice and is taught that her life has value, and that she's loved. Jacqui’s choice to die is presented as empowering in the sense that she chose it… I have such issue with that.
Also, where even did Jacqui's suicidal ideation come from? To have a character make such a huge decision and there was no buildup? Like, at all? In fact, Jacqui had only ever demonstrated a strong desire to live.
"I've said it before, I show up for the two of them. Together..." - Melissa McBride [x]
Thoughts on whether Angela Kang intended endgame for caryl…
Aside from the writing that heavily positioned them that way, we’ve got LaToya Morgan. A writer on TWD who knows Angela Kang professionally. She is very, very vocal about her love and support for caryl as a romantic ship. She went as far as to say they’ve been in love since season 1. And she strongly supported Angela leading the caryl spin-off.
I’m sure that she supports Angela’s work beyond whether or not she would have made caryl canon, but I just think it’s worth mentioning, because LaToya Morgan was vocally supportive of the romantic ship at the exact same time that she was vocally supportive of Angela being the caryl showrunner. Maybe people looking for someone to target with blame with will still find issue, but personally, I think that’s a big clue that AK was pro-caryl.
For what it’s worth, AK doesn’t deserve pile-ons or dislike from the fandom even if she didn’t plan to make caryl canon. I understand why carylers struggle with trust and that the fandom has been badly burnt, but sometimes I think Angela is punished by the fans for the issues that men before (and after) her caused. But regardless, I do think there’s a lot of evidence that she was pro-Caryl endgame.
And while I’m here, I’d also like to point out that for all some carylers like to praise Mazzara for getting Caryl to talk about screwing around on a bus, I’m pretty sure he would have been quite happy making caryl canon and then killing Carol. So, maybe let’s not.
"...sometimes I think Angela is punished by the fans for the issues that men before (and after) her caused. But regardless, I do think there’s a lot of evidence that she was pro-Caryl endgame." 👈 Exactly.
Angela *was* pro-Caryl. If she had been allowed to finish telling their story the way she planned to, there'd be no doubts about that, but some people would rather listen to ridiculous rumors started by a petty manchild with a selfish agenda right away than trust a woman of color in power, even after she had given us some of the best Caryl content of the entire series and centered an entire season around their relationship 🤷♀️
Mazzara was smart to lean into Caryl's/McReedus' chemistry and he set the stage for one of the most compelling relationships on television. I give him credit for that, but he got fired for a reason. Angela got fired too, and yet Melissa still brings her up without any prompting so that she can praise her writing. That should tell us something.