Hey yall! I hope your weekend was great. Its Tuesday again and time for this chick to talk about Hotwifing! This weeks episode is about the Anticipation of that first playdate with your Bull. I have one coming up tomorrow and that feeling is always there. If you haven’t played yet, let me describe the feeling for you.
In a monogamous relationship, when you have a date and you know it will end up in the bedroom, do you remember how that feels inside? You’re full of butterflies in your tummy and you’re super anxious and super nervous all at the same time.
This anticipation is no different in the lifestyle of Hotwifing. And knowing that many of us in the lifestyle go about hooking up in different ways….I can only describe MY way. And my way happens to be pretty common in the lifestyle.
So like I’ve told you all before, I dont usually play on the first meeting. And we do this because we have no idea what kind of man we are dealing with until we meet him face to face. So we schedule a meet and greet to find that part out. I’ve had many of these meet and greets and I used to get nervous about these meetings (interviews), but not really any more. This part is always tame and we just drink and talk…hoping that a connection is there. If not, then no harm, no foul….We just go our separate ways and wish each other good luck.
But sometimes these meet and greets go extremely well and we all hit it off. I’ll at that point….with my Stags green light…..give this man my number. And then we leave and my Stag and I talk about the connection and whether we are both ok with him. And THIS is where the anticipation comes in. We usually dont plan the playdate right away. We usually plan it a week or 2 in advance. And for us, this is done in purpose because of that awesome thing called Anticipation that just builds every single day before the playdate. When the connection is there and the playdate is planned, I can…and do send all sorts of messages and pics and the bull does the same. It makes me so excited for that day we get to come together and….Cum together.
For example, I have a really awesome Bull right now where I have planned a playdate for almost a month. That’s a long time to plan one but each day just causes my excitement to build and anticipation for that planned day where I get to fuck him. I also have one planned about a week or so in advance and I’m super excited now to meet up because I connected easily with him….and yes cute….and he was the epitome of a gentleman. So I have no doubt that playtime will be so much fun. Oh and just an added note…both of these men were found right here on Tumblr. This last one actually had no avatar and nothing on his blog. I know many of you ladies block these types of blogs every day. But this is the reason I dont. You have to understand why some men choose to keep their blogs completely empty. Try it sometime ladies and you’ll see what I’m talking about. I’ve met at least 3 of my followers this way and they were just awesome people.
The day of the playdate is the day of the most intense buildup of anticipation. Everything comes down and goes down on that day and the excitement can be overwhelming. But when the day is over, you look back on it in full satisfaction. It’s sort of like a rush that you need from time to time and I get it every single time.
Stags also build up anticipation. They are looking forward to it as much as you are. They get all worked up knowing that their sexy Vixen is about to be pleasured in a big way! And that’s what the Stag enjoys the most. Just ask mine if you dont believe it.
This was a prime topic for the day because my anticipation is through the freakin roof right now and I’m sharing it with you so that you can also understand it. Dont run away from those nerves. Embrace them! Have a great Tuesday everyone!
This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! 💋 ~LillybGoddess
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